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Contributor: Marcianpro Marcianpro
Do you consider foreplay to be very important or necessary?
03/27/2012
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Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
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Originally posted by Marcianpro
Do you consider foreplay to be very important or necessary?
hell yes!its very important..its what gets me in the mood even more and it makes me more connected with my partner.no body can just jump into fucking everty time right away and enjoy it!
04/01/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
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Originally posted by Marcianpro
Do you consider foreplay to be very important or necessary?
At first, not really. The older you get, the more "comfortable" in a relationship that you get, I believe its crucial lol. Gotta slow things down a little and enjoyyyyy it!
04/02/2012
Contributor: catsin catsin
I prefer it... I don't know about necessary, but yea... definitely makes the sex way better for me.
04/02/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
it's not necessary, but I enjoy it and prefer having it
04/02/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I'd be so bored if sex was nothing but intercourse. If I wanted an orgasm in 5 minutes I could just do it myself.
04/02/2012
Contributor: hot n spicey hot n spicey
There are day I want that more then the sex. I mean the build up is so nice and there are always different ways to turn each other on. It's nice to see what each of us can come up with.
04/02/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I absolutely need it.
04/04/2012
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
Definitely need it
04/27/2012
Contributor: VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
Not always necessary -- but always appreciated. Sometimes if we just start right in with the intercourse, it can be quite uncomfortable for me, even if we use lube.
04/27/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
It's very important if I'm going to enjoy the sex and reach orgasm, but if we're just going for a quickie, lubing up is sufficient. Although, sometimes penetration is painful if I'm not properly warmed up.
04/30/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I don't have the energy right now to go into the powerfulness of how much I hate the word "foreplay." It intimates that only PIV is "necessary" and that things like kissing and oral sex etc (which usually are the things that get women to come) are not important. They are "before" the "Play" of regular PIV.

Is oral sex, oral play, touching, stroking, fondling, toy play, anal play etc absolutely necessary every time we have sex? FUCKING RIGHT IT BETTER BE!

I have already chosen the man I will spend my entire life with. I've been with him for many years. He wouldn't have been chosen by me if he hadn't been as into all the FUN of sex, which always includes oral sex, fondling, play, touching etc every single time. I would have kept looking. Women deserve orgasms as much as men do. Guys who try to get out of the things that help their partners come should be..... kicked to the curb. I know that's what I would do.... and did do to a couple of guys who didn't bother to give it their all.
04/30/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by MamaDivine
At first, not really. The older you get, the more "comfortable" in a relationship that you get, I believe its crucial lol. Gotta slow things down a little and enjoyyyyy it!
I have to disagree with "at first not really." My Man, in the beginning, including the first time we ever had sex (which was the first time I ever had sex) would spend an hour or more arousing me, playing with me, warming me up, and bringing me to orgasm before he even thought about his own orgasm or PIV. (The first time, I didn't come, but I didn't let him do what I learned later brings me to coming: oral sex. As soon as I allowed him to do that, after about 2 or 3 times, it was every time. He tried to give me oral sex the first time, and I was scared, and I stopped him, but he did a good job anyway.)

For us, age or the length of the relationship has nothing to do with it. We've always had nice long marathons.
04/30/2012