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Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Gals,

When massaging the clitoris, how do you like it ?
One or two fingers side to side ? Around and around ? Up and down ? And do you use a little lubricant, natural juices or dry ? How long is a good session ?

Guys,
How do you take care of your lady ?
04/29/2016
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Contributor: cheekyx cheekyx
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Gals,

When massaging the clitoris, how do you like it ?
One or two fingers side to side ? Around and around ? Up and down ? And do you use a little lubricant, natural juices or dry ? How long is a good session ?

Guys,
How do ... more
It's pretty hard for my bf to get me off that way unfortunately . I always do it myself usually with two fingers, side to side, au naturale. But fingers are definitely not my preferred choice I would rather use the tub or a toy.
04/30/2016
Contributor: DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
I start massaging my labia majora with two or three fingers to get myself warmed up. Then, I put a small bit of pressure on clit before dipping my fingers into my now wet pussy. After coating my fingers in my own lubricant, I go back and circle my clit. In five circles or so, I slip my fingers down to penetrate my vagina. This pattern goes on for a while until my legs tense up and I near orgasm. As orgasm nears, I increase the pace of the circling. When I'm cumming, I like to press my fingers against my clit and just hold them there. My clit tends to get so sensitive after an orgasm that the rate at which I had been stroking would be too much for my post-orgasm clit to handle.

Other times, I will put one finger on either side of my clit and just rub and squeeze myself to orgasm. I used to tap my clit through my panties, but that was only when I was younger because now my clit isn't as sensitive.

Duration really depends on the day, the stimuli, and the purpose of the masturbation. Many times, I will just masturbate so I can fall asleep in which case, the strokes are slow and I am in no hurry. Other times, I just have an urge and want to get off quickly.
04/30/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by DancerKittyKat
I start massaging my labia majora with two or three fingers to get myself warmed up. Then, I put a small bit of pressure on clit before dipping my fingers into my now wet pussy. After coating my fingers in my own lubricant, I go back and circle my ... more
I think you are very very fortunate to have such a sensitive clit. I bet others envy you. I'll try some of your techniques on OW tonight
05/01/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by cheekyx
It's pretty hard for my bf to get me off that way unfortunately . I always do it myself usually with two fingers, side to side, au naturale. But fingers are definitely not my preferred choice I would rather use the tub or a toy.
Yes,when I try it like that,don't get much reaction from OW either. After a while she reaches for one of h vibes.
05/01/2016
Contributor: DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Yes,when I try it like that,don't get much reaction from OW either. After a while she reaches for one of h vibes.
Lol! Good to know!
05/01/2016
Contributor: hoser69 hoser69
awesome replies....
05/01/2016
Contributor: MrClark MrClark
Have any of you seen the site: OMGYES?

I got a membership a while back as a way to gain some insight/inspiration in techniques women have had success with to either try on my girlfriend or for her to try on herself. Kind of forgot about it after initially joining until I saw this thread. Kind of related, but know when I initially saw the sight did make me be a bit more cognizant/deliberate in what I was doing when trying to pleasure my girlfriend.

Will say the idea of layering where using layers of clothes to initially reduce the direct pressure applied to the clit has been beneficial... I did this with my ex; however, never actually considered the impact/different sensations of the use of a single or multiple layers of clothing impacting the sensations before I saw it discussed on the site.
05/01/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
A lot of times I will take my hand and rub her down there and gently ease a finger or 2 inside her pulling them in and out of her then more rubbing her. Sometimes I will kinda smack her down there next to her clitoral not hard smacking tho. Sometimes I will use a vibrator on her then even add a lil tongue action on her that just about sets her off to explosion
05/01/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by MrClark
Have any of you seen the site: OMGYES?

I got a membership a while back as a way to gain some insight/inspiration in techniques women have had success with to either try on my girlfriend or for her to try on herself. Kind of forgot about it ... more
Thank you Mr C
05/03/2016
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My 2 cents on this is that - for my wife clitoral orgasms tend to be strong, sharp and short. It wasn't until we began exploring deeper, g-spot and a-spot (anterior fornix) stimulation that my wife could begin to have multiple orgasms.

In this case clitoral stimulation is an adjunct to the main event - throwing her over the top as it were. Since less clitoral stimulation is required to generate the multiple orgasms - her capacity is huge, in a good session she will have 4-6 orgasms.

It's a little off-topic, but my latest trick is to put a pussy-pump around her labia and massage her elsewhere while the suction draws additional blood to her labia. Before removing the cup I use a strong vibe on the cup. The rigid plastic transmits the vibration quite well.

To my surprise she likes me to focus the vibes on the lower portion of the cup vs. the clit portion on the top.

Once I take the cup off - we begin a rather rigorous series of fun activities, the most novel of which is that she will have me rub her now engorged lower labia while she used the clit vibe - she has even ejaculated this way - a really exciting surprise for both of us.
05/17/2016
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Gals,

When massaging the clitoris, how do you like it ?
One or two fingers side to side ? Around and around ? Up and down ? And do you use a little lubricant, natural juices or dry ? How long is a good session ?

Guys,
How do ... more
The wife likes it with one finger in an upwards motion to the tip of her clit.
01/02/2017
Contributor: whenitallfails whenitallfails
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Gals,

When massaging the clitoris, how do you like it ?
One or two fingers side to side ? Around and around ? Up and down ? And do you use a little lubricant, natural juices or dry ? How long is a good session ?

Guys,
How do ... more
Well my girlfriend is very sensitive and can only handle light touching of her clit with my hand. So while fingering her I've found it best to only occasionally play with it. I love teasing her with two fingers spread wide as to not touch her directly and rubbing her before actually putting my fingers inside of her. And her natural juices are more than enough to keep things lubed up. It's rare that we have sessions that are only me fingering her--it usually is just foreplay for sex or oral--but I'd say they usually last around 10-20 minutes.
02/10/2017
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Gals,

When massaging the clitoris, how do you like it ?
One or two fingers side to side ? Around and around ? Up and down ? And do you use a little lubricant, natural juices or dry ? How long is a good session ?

Guys,
How do ... more
My wife likes it when I spread her with two fingers and use my other hand and do a single finger stroke up to the tip of her clit! Does the job every time...
05/30/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Hmmm I guess the tongue is my favorite way. Followed by fingers moving on and around clit. No lube needed.
06/01/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by konicaguy
My wife likes it when I spread her with two fingers and use my other hand and do a single finger stroke up to the tip of her clit! Does the job every time...
Thanks, gonna try that tonight.

What do you ladies think about having it sucked with lips and while in the mouth, licked with the tongue ?
06/02/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen
Hmmm I guess the tongue is my favorite way. Followed by fingers moving on and around clit. No lube needed.
Humm, gonna try that too. I ll report back with results
06/02/2017
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Thanks, gonna try that tonight.

What do you ladies think about having it sucked with lips and while in the mouth, licked with the tongue ?


Does that answer your questions?
06/02/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen


Does that answer your questions?
How about grasping it gently with teeth and gums then sucking and licking? Did that this morning along w what konicaguy and you suggested. I normally treat her for 10-15 mins, but stopped and left her hanging . Just the "M" in me . That way she beg me for more tonight
After all the weekend is upon us. She just recd the Wetlook mini dress and we have plans.
06/02/2017