I need to figure out a way to bring foreplay into my life. My man seems bored and I'm not sure if it's the lack of foreplay or not, but something needs done!
Foreplay for us...
Discussion Topics
1.
Which would be a better kit?
(27 posts)
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
05/13/2012
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
It all depends on what you BOTH are willing to do. The BDSM kit might not be the best first choice to buy on a whim, some people aren't into that. I'm fine with hand cuffs but whipping/flogging and inflicting pain isn't cool with me so you would be best to check with your partner to see if that stuff would offend them.
Either of the massage kits would be a good start though I'm not sure how great the Romantic kit is so I'd probably go with the Getaway kit. It appeals better to me and the relationship I'm in.
Either of the massage kits would be a good start though I'm not sure how great the Romantic kit is so I'd probably go with the Getaway kit. It appeals better to me and the relationship I'm in.
05/13/2012
Quote:
Sex and Mischief kit all the way! Although the romantic massage kit is really intriguing. I think either of those two would be fantastic. I have almost all of the Sex and Mischief line except this one and I really like them! I don't really find the other kit too appealing for some reason.
Originally posted by
Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
05/13/2012
The getaway kit, so you can give each other massages. Kama Sutra has great products.
05/13/2012
Quote:
The Getaway kit. You can sample a bunch of the kama sutra products with your partner with this kit.
Originally posted by
sexxxkitten
The getaway kit, so you can give each other massages. Kama Sutra has great products.
05/13/2012
massage is great foreplay........make him give you one with a happy ending!
05/13/2012
Quote:
I love the getaway kit and have ordered this before!
Originally posted by
Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
05/13/2012
i would go with the romantic massage kit... and some sexy lingerie.
05/13/2012
I'm going to be a brat and say none - simply because I honestly think you should *ask him* what he finds more interesting. Communication is extremely important in foreplay from my experience; some people don't react well to having new things sprung on them.
05/13/2012
Quote:
I agree with this to a point - but some guys don't want to ask for certain things - but will respond if offered.
Originally posted by
Greenleaf
I'm going to be a brat and say none - simply because I honestly think you should *ask him* what he finds more interesting. Communication is extremely important in foreplay from my experience; some people don't react well to having new things
...
more
I'm going to be a brat and say none - simply because I honestly think you should *ask him* what he finds more interesting. Communication is extremely important in foreplay from my experience; some people don't react well to having new things sprung on them.
less
If he's anything like me, he may have just gotten tired of always having to be the one who initiates sex. Surprise him with your enthusiasm - make a plan to do something special you know her likes - make a plan to do something completely new to him!
Planning is a great aphrodisiac for you as well. By the time you get to the real thing - you'll be so turned on that orgasm will be right around the corner - lucky for you - you can turn that into many more orgasms.
There's nothing like giving your gal multiple orgasms to build confidence - and for men, sex like business is a confidence game!
05/13/2012
I'd go with the getaway kit
05/13/2012
Getaway kit.
05/13/2012
Quote:
Agreed, though I like em all! ^^
Originally posted by
Master DarkWolf
Getaway kit.
05/13/2012
I'd go for the S&M kit but I am into that so... up to you what feels good!
05/13/2012
I wouldn't mind being tied up.
05/14/2012
I'm thinking I like the idea of surprising him. I'm going to try the bondage thing soon and see if I like it. I KNOW he will like it.....
05/18/2012
Quote:
romantic massage kit
Originally posted by
Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
05/21/2012
I'm glad you answered for us. I think it really depends on what you both are comfortable with and what you're willing to experiment with. My husband loves receiving massages, but doesn't like giving them.
05/21/2012
I'm going to say none because after reading some of your previous post about BDSM things. I think you should go BDSM. But that one looks really cheap. I'd spend the extra money and get one like this.
05/21/2012
Quote:
Getaway is a safe pick.
Originally posted by
Nirelan
For basically beginners at foreplay that have been together almost ten years, which of these kits would be best to start with for foreplay? He would probably enjoy them all but which one is the best of them?
05/21/2012
have fun and communicate with eachother whichever you choose!
05/23/2012
Quote:
HA i just totally put that on my wishlist today!!
Originally posted by
Beck
I'm going to say none because after reading some of your previous post about BDSM things. I think you should go BDSM. But that one looks really cheap. I'd spend the extra money and get one like this.
...
more
I'm going to say none because after reading some of your previous post about BDSM things. I think you should go BDSM. But that one looks really cheap. I'd spend the extra money and get one like this.
less
05/23/2012
So I'm saving up and adding a LOT of different things to my "summer fun" wish list. The kids will be gone for a week at grandma and grandpa's so we will have more privacy to try this stuff out. I am getting more and more excited about it, especially since I've started reading "Fifty shades of Grey"....I'm def vanilla
05/23/2012
hmm
05/28/2012
Quote:
the sex and mischief kits are great starter kits to see what you like and don't like. best of all they are super simple to use and a ton of fun. I have a bunch of reviews up for them if you ever feel like peaking at them.
Originally posted by
Nirelan
I'm thinking I like the idea of surprising him. I'm going to try the bondage thing soon and see if I like it. I KNOW he will like it.....
good luck. HUGS
05/28/2012
The mischief kit looks fun
08/20/2012
k1985g
Spanking!
Put on a short skirt--commando, walk up to him barefoot, and lay yourself over his lap. Tell him that you're gonna get naughty with him tonight
--spank me now so I know how naughty I can get with you!
Put on a short skirt--commando, walk up to him barefoot, and lay yourself over his lap. Tell him that you're gonna get naughty with him tonight
--spank me now so I know how naughty I can get with you!
07/03/2014
Total posts: 27
Unique posters: 24