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Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
I'm just wondering how many ladies are really into this?i have never had a partner that was into this.

Thanks
09/19/2013
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I definitely don't want to be fisted -- my opening's not that stretchy!
09/19/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
I would never want to be fisted.
09/19/2013
Contributor: CamoCutie CamoCutie
I am very petite, but with a little time, my husband can his all five of his fingers in me. I wouldn't so much call it fisting, however he does.
09/19/2013
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
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Originally posted by CamoCutie
I am very petite, but with a little time, my husband can his all five of his fingers in me. I wouldn't so much call it fisting, however he does.
Do you do that for the rush or the feeling of being full. If you don't mind me asking?
09/19/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
My husband and I have tried several times but I can never fit past the knuckles. Even then it is amazing. I have very small hands in my opinions so we are working on fisting for him more than me. - K
09/19/2013
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
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Originally posted by C&K0143
My husband and I have tried several times but I can never fit past the knuckles. Even then it is amazing. I have very small hands in my opinions so we are working on fisting for him more than me. - K
Wow that's hot as well.. My wife can only get 3 in me. If you don't mind is the rush to have that much in you or is it the sense of being filled
09/19/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
Wow that's hot as well.. My wife can only get 3 in me. If you don't mind is the rush to have that much in you or is it the sense of being filled
It’s about 75/25 being filled/physical sensation to mental rush/turn on. - C
09/19/2013
Contributor: Innocence Is Bliss Innocence Is Bliss
Personally, I'm not really into this. The thought of his entire hand up there...it just sort of scares me. Plus, what if one of his nails got caught or something like that? Ouch! *gulps*
09/20/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
I'm just wondering how many ladies are really into this?i have never had a partner that was into this.

Thanks
Sure some women actually LOVE this activity and ANY vagina can stretch to accommodate a fist. It just takes time, patience, and a lot of lube. Personally, I have an episiotomy scar that is very touchy so I have to go REALLY slow and I mean really, really slow to allow for the rest of the tissues around the scar to stretch so it's not something I actually have time for! Still the once or twice we have accomplished it left me having mini orgasms for days as the twinges of the muscles realigning would trigger sense memories...you just gotta feel it to know what I mean!
09/20/2013
Contributor: CamoCutie CamoCutie
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
Do you do that for the rush or the feeling of being full. If you don't mind me asking?
Uhh, it's sorta a mix I guess, maybe somewhat complicated. I actually hate it, just thinking that my husband can get that much in me, makes me sick, even though it takes sometime to get there. However, it's the way he makes me squirt, so at the same time it feels really good and it's a huge turn on for him.

The first time he/we did this, after he told me, I literally thought I was going to pass out. I was in denial that he was actually able to do that, and sometimes I still am. But I am becoming more able to believe it because he had wide knuckles and every time he tries to go further, it hurts with an extricating amount of pain and I make him stop trying.
09/20/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Never wanted to, or tried...if you seen his hands you would understand ( they're huge! )
09/22/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
I'm just wondering how many ladies are really into this?i have never had a partner that was into this.

Thanks
Nope. We can't see it being good for us.
10/09/2013
Contributor: friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
i find the thought a huge turn on, but i'm not sure if i'd ever truly like to do it in real life!
11/15/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
no thanks - I can't imagine the high level of pain that would cause.
11/16/2013
Contributor: dv8 dv8
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
Personally, I'm not really into this. The thought of his entire hand up there...it just sort of scares me. Plus, what if one of his nails got caught or something like that? Ouch! *gulps*
Trim the nails and use a glove.
11/16/2013
Contributor: dv8 dv8
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Originally posted by edeneve
no thanks - I can't imagine the high level of pain that would cause.
Eh? Fisting shouldn't be painful at all if you do it correctly.

I find the responses in this thread peculiar. I guess the women I know are more into fisting than the average EF poster is.
11/16/2013
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
I'm just wondering how many ladies are really into this?i have never had a partner that was into this.

Thanks
It can be great and it can be creepy as all heck. Especially when you try items that were never intended to go into such places. Remember to take your watch and rings off.
10/03/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
It can be great and it can be creepy as all heck. Especially when you try items that were never intended to go into such places. Remember to take your watch and rings off.
You could hurt your partner or worse, loose them inside. Can happen.
10/03/2015
Contributor: Taz Demann Taz Demann
My wife enjoys a good stretch once in a while, have gotten most of my hand in but not quite there yet, but she has had orgasms from the sensation the attempts provide.
09/08/2018
Contributor: lilgrump lilgrump
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
I'm just wondering how many ladies are really into this?i have never had a partner that was into this.

Thanks
I've never asked for it and am not particularly interested... However, my husband has gotten A LOT of the way in a few times, but not all the way. The thought of it is more exciting than anything else. Not sure I could handle/enjoy all the way.
09/12/2018
Contributor: Lisset Finnien Lisset Finnien
I have nevah wanted to be fisted. I was with, let’s say, an acquaintance with benefits one night. We’d been at the bar drinking and decided that “benefits” were in order. So we went back to his house and proceeded to get it on. It was dark, we were drunk, I was on my hands and knees, couldn’t see and I don’t really know what he tried. He tried to insert something up my Precious and it hurt like hell. I put a stop to that right quick. I have always thought that he tried to fist me anally but I’ve nevah been completely sure. Maybe it was a very large dildo? Or god forbid some random household item? lol but for some reason I’ve always been pretty sure it was his first. No thank you. What ever he tried I am not. Not not interested . And if it was his first? It hurt like friggin’ hell. Not not not. Can’t say not enough. NOT.
09/18/2018
Contributor: BiBrian BiBrian
We discussed trying fisting at some point of our sexual adventure, because my girl is pretty fond of stretching sensations. However I'm the one who's on the fence about it. I'm extremely afraid of hurting her, although I know if you do it with caution and lots of lube, everything should be fine. Dunno who to make up my mind about it - she's been asking for a long time now.
09/19/2018
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Husband and Wife
I'm just wondering how many ladies are really into this?i have never had a partner that was into this.

Thanks
I'm not into fisting. To me it seems scary and dont want to be stretched out like that. I get off just fine with my small toys and my husband's dick. And I am not curious about being fisted
11/13/2019
Contributor: C and J C and J
Yes, they do and if they say they don't never tried or they never had it done correctly, with enough time patience and lube you can make just about anything fit anywhere, trust us!
11/21/2019
Contributor: Otelia Otelia
I worked up to being fisted one finger at a time....I crave it now.
01/09/2020
Contributor: Bailed Bailed
I can't figure out how inserting a fist inside of a woman's pussy would be sexually gratifying for her. What's the sexual pleasure of fisting a pussy or ass?

Keeping in mind that everything I know about anal sex I learned from my fiancee, I could not imagine any of her former boyfriends inserting his fist inside of her ass. I have to work to get one well lubricated finger inside of her ass. She does have massive orgasms when I insert a finger inside of her ass, another inside of her pussy and massage her ridges, while I'll lick and suck her clit to explosive orgasms. Her ass is always tight around just one of my fingers.

My fiancee told me that her boyfriends who had anal sex with her had to work to dilate her ass large enough to slide their dicks inside. I cannot fathom how any of her former boyfriends could have fisted her ass.

Next time my fiancee has been drinking and gets to talking sex, I'll ask her if she's ever been fisted in either her pussy or ass.
01/09/2020
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Long ago (and far away) my High School GF was a very adventurous young lady. She loved getting fisted. My guess is that it was the stretch and pressure against her G-Spot that evoked the pleasurable sensations for her.
01/13/2020
Contributor: Sweetnative Sweetnative
Haven't tries it yet but indo want to
02/25/2020