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Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
This may sound odd but can fisting be considered a foreplay activity or something you do at the end. Not going to make this a poll. Want to talk it out as I met a girl last month who is into fisting and is like "fist me now and do me later". But I find it not as enjoyable (for myself) once she has been stretched that far. Thoughts?
10/03/2015
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Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
Perhaps it depends, would you be fisting her anus or the vagina? Perhaps she might want her vagina fisted and you in the back door or maybe vice versa. Either way, that seems interesting.
10/03/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Perhaps it depends, would you be fisting her anus or the vagina? Perhaps she might want her vagina fisted and you in the back door or maybe vice versa. Either way, that seems interesting.
But is that foreplay or the main course?
10/04/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
But is that foreplay or the main course?
Wouldn't that be for her to decide? She knows her limits... I just hope she doesn't want to be fisted in the same place that she wants to be penetrated by you. I don't mean to be crass, but, that might seems like a hot dog being thrown down a hallway for you sensation wise.

As far as the foreplay component to this question, couldn't foreplay be described as anything activity that leads up to either sex or orgasm in either partner? Well that's one definition of foreplay, I'm sure others might define it differently. How would you or do you define foreplay Toy Guy?
10/04/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Wouldn't that be for her to decide? She knows her limits... I just hope she doesn't want to be fisted in the same place that she wants to be penetrated by you. I don't mean to be crass, but, that might seems like a hot dog being thrown ... more
This description may not reflect your own ideas...

But I consider foreplay as anything leading to initial penetration sex. I guess anything that prepares for sex is foreplay. Kissing, touching, heavy petting, oral. Sure you could do the same thing again later but to me it would just be sex and not "Foreplay".

So basically:

Kiss/Horny ---> Foreplay ---> Sex ---> More sex ---> Even more sex ---> Afterglow ---> End
10/05/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Foreplay, main event or afterplay, does it really matter?
I like to call it, just plain fun!
10/05/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by TheToyGuy
This description may not reflect your own ideas...

But I consider foreplay as anything leading to initial penetration sex. I guess anything that prepares for sex is foreplay. Kissing, touching, heavy petting, oral. Sure you could do the same ... more
Hey, its whatever works for you Toy Guy. The way I define this doesn't need to match your definition or practices. Just as long as you leave her satisfied, legs quivering and hair in a mess, its all good. After all, Ron Lee nailed it perfectly (as usual) with his input.

You know, I never actually answered your question. Earlier you asked if it was foreplay or the main event. I'm not trying to dodge your question but my response is it can be either one, although it sounds like for her, it might be foreplay.
10/05/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Hey, its whatever works for you Toy Guy. The way I define this doesn't need to match your definition or practices. Just as long as you leave her satisfied, legs quivering and hair in a mess, its all good. After all, Ron Lee nailed it perfectly ... more
Yeah I want to say sex first then foreplay but it is always fist then fuck.
10/06/2015