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Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
My question is mainly directed to females dancing for their partners but males are also free to add input as to what they enjoy.

Im interested to know which of the following you have performed for your partner and especially how you went about practicing for it (do you get books, videos or go to classes etc), did you enjoy it, would you/have you done it again and do you have any tips for other girls out there that want to try this for their partner

Im sure i have left something off the list so please let me know what else you have done.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Strip Tease
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Lap Dance
♥ Amanda ♥ , MuffysPinguLove , Sammi , Sir , Jul!a , ~LaUr3n~ , AussieSarah , PassionQT , Lady Venus , Red Vinyl Kitty , Miss B Haven , *Ashley* , Blinker , Airen Wolf , YvetteJeannine , rdytogo , UnknownGirl , Tart , ellejay , KnK , pfoof , meganthomas , LavenderSkies , Redboxbaby , C4ss , Lummox , The Awesome Penguin , Alan & Michele , Xavier7 , Naughty Student , Valentinka , Joie de Cherresse , SexyTabby , ninaspinkturtle , Lady Marmelade , Hallmar82 , zeebot , MontereyJak , jk68 , *Huxley* , xoflxokcxo , MaryExy , Choolz , sasweetheart89 , SexyLilPixi , jay28 , Karen Affeldt , kelaaa33wish , shentel , Swish , Miss Anonymous , newfoundlust , ToyBoy , guard083 , Lucky21 , Do emu , Bittenflame , HotMama2three , TheHardOne , Tork48309 , AK Bunny , cutesouple0812 , Bri9 , SecretKinksters , Ayogirl230
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Pole Dance
AussieSarah , Red Vinyl Kitty , Miss B Haven , Tart , LavenderSkies , Canabal , CanMan , Lummox , Alan & Michele , Xavier7 , Lady Marmelade , jk68 , Karen Affeldt , kelaaa33wish , shentel , Lucky21 , HotMama2three , jwitt754
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Other
Airen Wolf , MEL , darthkitt3n , toxie m , Xavier7 , LittleBird , MaryExy , emiliaa , potstickers , Rory , karenm , spiced , Eugler
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05/13/2010
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Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
I’m in the same boat as you are! I’m actually look to do something special for my mans birthday at the end of the month. I’m actually going to purchase the Striptease kit-link. I also plan on googleing some videos and information about Erotic Dancing and Stripteases. (Google is amazing)

I’m defiantly looking forward to the responses’ on this topic and will be back to check up on the answers.
05/13/2010
Contributor: DELETED DELETED
Actually, I have done all of them for him..I have a slutty side I guess
One of my girlfriends is actually a bar dancer with a pole..She has an incredible body..(what an ass on her!) and taught me some of her moves..they definitely get my motor running.. I have really perfected the lap dance! Gives my guy an incredible boner!
05/13/2010
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
Quote:
Originally posted by DELETED
Actually, I have done all of them for him..I have a slutty side I guess
One of my girlfriends is actually a bar dancer with a pole..She has an incredible body..(what an ass on her!) and taught me some of her moves..they definitely get my motor ... more
Any tips for all of us with the lap dances? What kind of moves really gets your guy going? im interested to try out a few new moves
05/13/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I didn't try any real videos or books, I just tried to mimic what I've seen in a few movies. The strip tease is fun if you give him a stack of bills so he can participate and tip you to do more
05/13/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
Alright...so let me explain my answer.

I've given both a strip tease and a lap dance. Both were so silly though - me, giving either of them is like something out of a comedy movie. I do not, however, enjoy receiving strip teases. But lap dances? Just give me a cigar or a beer and move that bottom on my lap. I love lap dances, they're great. I tend to control them, though, with a hand on the person's hip or thigh.
05/13/2010
Contributor: DELETED DELETED
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Originally posted by AussieSarah
Any tips for all of us with the lap dances? What kind of moves really gets your guy going? im interested to try out a few new moves
All I wear is a thong while he is comfortably sitting in his briefs in his favorite chair.I start off by saddling him and slowly thrusting my body up and down as I get near his face. I turn around and start thrusting my ass in his direction until his face is almost buried between my cheeks..I keep pumping my booty in his face which gets him hot..I slip out of my thong and let him have a eyeful of my thrusting, shaved pussy..I can feel his breath on me..I rub my tits up and down his chest and then turn around and give him my hot ass..spreading my cheeks so he can he get a good view..He is moaning in anticipation as I thrust my pussy near his mouth. By this time,he has a monster hard-on..I slip off his briefs and mount his very stiff cock..He holds my ass as I bounce up and down on him in ecstacy,,it's so hot....we usually come at the same time
05/13/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I've done a few strip teases to precede a lap dance with, I felt ridiculous doing it, but that's because I've never taken any classes or anything, lol. He thinks I'm a natural tho, which is good, since it's really his opinion of how well I'm doing that really matters, lol
05/14/2010
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Strip teases and lap dances. The best dances are at clubs though.
05/14/2010
Contributor: AU AU
I tried dancing in a sexy way for my partner a long, long time ago. I wanted to know what he liked by trying things, but it was sooo odd. I have been told by others that my style of dancing is sexy (I've taken some Middle Eastern dance and have interest in Flamenco to give you an idea?) but I just can't do that sort of thing for my significant other. I am visually stimulated by some dancing, but it doesn't work for him as much. Which makes us sound awfully incompatible, but it's not like that! It's just an area where we aren't so synchronized.
07/18/2010
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
strip teases and lap dances. and hopefully pole dances soon
07/19/2010
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I have done pole dances, lap dances, and strip teases for my husband. I'll be the first to say though that I am never really comfortable with the idea of dancing alone or with an audience. Dancing just isn't my thing, but if my husband wants me to, it's something I will always oblige him.
07/19/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
Surprisingly, I've never done something like that, but I'd like to.
07/21/2010
Contributor: Miss B Haven Miss B Haven
I love pole dancing, alone or for my hubby. I also love to strip for him and give him lap dances, it makes me feel sexy to watch him get turned on after all these years
07/21/2010
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
a mixture of lap dancing and strip dancing, creates alot of fun
07/21/2010
Contributor: *Ashley* *Ashley*
I actually bought the Striptease kit link. Did a bit of practicing. I’m going to get my review out soon.
07/22/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I've done a striptease and lap dance for my guy with no practice or forethought. Honestly it's happened because I've been drunk and I'm more flexible when I'm drunk so it was sexy. Alcohol helps everything, especially stage fright.
07/23/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
My question is mainly directed to females dancing for their partners but males are also free to add input as to what they enjoy.

Im interested to know which of the following you have performed for your partner and especially how you went about ... more
I did all of the carmen electra strip aerobic videos they are awesome!!
12/05/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I've done strip teases and lap dances before. I got most of my most from watching porn.
12/05/2010
Contributor: Tart Tart
I would do it all! It all sounds fun and I'm sure Daddy wouldn't mind a lap dance every now and then. If there were a pole involved that would be awesome.
12/05/2010
Contributor: MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by AussieSarah
My question is mainly directed to females dancing for their partners but males are also free to add input as to what they enjoy.

Im interested to know which of the following you have performed for your partner and especially how you went about ... more
I wouldn't personally be interested if my sig other did.. im just not into that, i dont even wanna see "professional" strip.. doesn't do anything for me.. but if it makes my sweetheart feel sexy, im all for it!
12/05/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I haven't done any sort of dance for my boyfriend yet, though I probably will eventually.
12/08/2010
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I wouldn't even know how to try something like that!
12/09/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
My boyfriend has been asking me to give him a lap dance for a while, but I'm not very coordinated and I have *no idea* how to do it. Maybe when I get my confidence up, I'll give it a try. He'd probably like it regardless of skill...
12/17/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
All of the above!
12/21/2010
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
All of the above!
Welcome to the club!!
12/21/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I love to dance, but I'm so shy to dance alone for him, lol
12/26/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
My girlfriend started out very timid in this department. She wasn't necessarily against it, just felt awkward or unnatural to begin with. Like most things, communication with your partner is key
12/26/2010
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Bellydance! Caribbean fusion bellydance! Much more fun at a club because I get a little self-conscious with an audience of one, but still good times either way
12/26/2010
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Quote:
Originally posted by *Ashley*
I actually bought the Striptease kit link. Did a bit of practicing. I’m going to get my review out soon.
LOL! Alan actually revised some of the moves from this kit to make the routines more masculine, and that's when I started getting him to strip for me. Before that it was all me dancing for him; stripping, belly dancing, pole, you name it.
12/26/2010