The New Intimacy

Does your significant other let you knowingly "fantasize" about any movie star or "I will never know them" personality, when warming up or having sex?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Some folks allow their partner to have their "if you ever met them, you can have them" CHEAT FREE card. Of course it is some personality you KNOW they will never, ever meet, and even if they did...nothing would happen..but it is fun to imagine. Do you or your other have an "it's okay to fantasize" person. A specific individual?
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NO...I want them thinking of ME when they get turned on.
3
Sure, no problem. It is just fantasy anyway. No threat.
4
Other...please explain.
13
Total votes: 20 (19 voters)
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06/30/2011
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I don't fantasize about random people. I've never felt the need to discuss with my partner who we can fantasize about...
06/30/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
Sometimes I fantasize about movie or book characters, but it's not something my partner and I discuss or anything.
07/01/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
we have never talked about it.
07/02/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
we are different and have an open relationship so we are free, within reason, to sleep with whomever we want. we actually enjoy time out in public people watching and picking out possible partners for each other!
07/02/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I don't really fantasize about people so much as the acts themselves and if it is something that is particularly turning me on I usually will be vocal about it. We will either laugh about it or get off on it.
07/02/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
We never discussed this.
10/10/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
We haven't really talked about it but I don't think I would like him thinking of someone else when he's with me. On the other hand though, I think he loves that I do.
10/27/2011
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Some folks allow their partner to have their "if you ever met them, you can have them" CHEAT FREE card. Of course it is some personality you KNOW they will never, ever meet, and even if they did...nothing would happen..but it is fun to ... more
I don't fantasize about random people
03/03/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by MaryExy
I don't fantasize about random people. I've never felt the need to discuss with my partner who we can fantasize about...
Ditto.
03/05/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
We have a "freebie five" which are five celebrities or famous people we can sleep with with no problem. Since the chances are unlikely anyways, it's fun to talk about.
03/05/2012
Contributor: goofballmaster goofballmaster
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Some folks allow their partner to have their "if you ever met them, you can have them" CHEAT FREE card. Of course it is some personality you KNOW they will never, ever meet, and even if they did...nothing would happen..but it is fun to ... more
It's okay to fantasize.
03/18/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
it ok in my book
04/16/2012