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Do you get fingered often and do you like it?

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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I never really loved getting fingered because I didn't know how to get any pleasure from it since I was always focused on my clitoris.

Since I have become more in touch with my body I enjoy this type of stimulation more and I was curious to see how many of us out there use this as one of your main foreplay techniques.

Men/Women please feel free to comment or vote on behalf of your better half!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I don't enjoy getting fingered period
6
I don't like getting fingered during foreplay but I like an occasional fingering of a few seconds during sex
7
I only enjoy getting fingered if I have clit stimulation at the same time
58
I enjoy getting fingered whether I have clit stimulation or not
233
I only get fingered, I can't live with out it!
3
It's too painful
3
It makes me uncomfortable, so no thanks
5
I have no partner but I love doing it to myself!
7
other
12
Total votes: 334 (299 voters)
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08/08/2010
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Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I love it but I need a warm up first, not just diving right for fingering. Also trimmed fingernails are a must and so is a bit of lubrication. I get a LOT of stimulation from it, but it's different than clitoral stimulation. My husband can reach my g-spot really well with his fingers and give me a great g-spot orgasm that way, but I still like to have some clitoral stimulation and a clitoral orgasm some time during foreplay as well. The best is when he goes back and forth between clitoral stimulation and fingering me really hard.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
I like being fingered but I make sure my guy has clean fingers and short nails. I'm so afraid of long nails ripping something in there. I can't even watch porn if a woman has those talon-long fingernails and she fingers herself...ugh! Creeps me out. Yes, I'm aware I'm a weirdo
08/08/2010
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I love being fingered too. My husband and I would love to do fisting one day, but have yet to be able to work up to it. In the meantime, we do lots of long fingering sessions, and we both enjoy it.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
I love it. Doesn't matter what comes of it, it's fun for me.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
I love it. I just need something to warm things up first and get things flowing. With or without my clit being touched I always find myself craving the feeling of being entered or penetrated, even though my orgasms are usually clitoral as opposed to being caused by g spot stimulation.

And I have to agree about the clean and well trimmed fingernails. I've managed to do harm more than once to myself with my own pointy nails!
08/08/2010
Contributor: kck kck
Prefer it when my partner does it to me. His fingers are much longer
08/08/2010
Contributor: joja joja
I usually refer to fingers-on-pussy contact of any kind as 'fingering.' But if you're talking about internal stimulation, I can't get enough. My boy usually sticks to the classic 'come hither' motion, which gives me great g-spot stimulation and is a nice preparation for sex. Fingering actually feels like one of the most intimate things we do together - not sure why, though. I think it has something to do with knowing he can feel my every bump and ridge.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Answering for my wife - she asks me to do it when I'm going down on her. It's obvious to me that it's the come-hither g-spot stimulation that works best - but occasionally a good old fashion finger-fuck is what she needs to go along with her clit vibe.
08/09/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
It's not that enjoyable for me personally. Just feels uncomfortable really.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My husband loves to tap his finger on my G-spot while giving me oral.....always get my first orgasm from that.
08/09/2010
Contributor: Alegria Alegria
Agreeing with all the clean fingernail posts haha. I love getting fingered but if it's just straight fingers, in-out, with no clit stimulation; that does absolutely nothing for me. Love it when he hooks up his fingers and hits my g-spot though!
08/09/2010
Contributor: Kinky Skier Kinky Skier
this is for guys too right? i love it
08/09/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I like it - it's great during foreplay. It's that "come hither" movement
08/09/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Yet another reason I miss having a guy ... the other person always brings so much to it ...
08/09/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Both of us enjoy it , me more though. Well I am kinda new to it. Shes had it done for 20 years.
08/09/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Couldn't this also be called "Digital sex"?
08/09/2010
Contributor: Kim! Kim!
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Couldn't this also be called "Digital sex"?
08/09/2010
Contributor: DELETED DELETED
I love it when a guy does that to me, but especially another woman. I pleasure myself that way often.
08/10/2010
Contributor: PassionQT PassionQT
It's good as long as he knows what he is doing. I've been fingered a few time and I don't know where he learned it from, but it was rough and I didn't hesitate to tell him to take it down a notch.
08/10/2010
Contributor: Sensual husband Sensual husband
My wife really likes it when I finger her but she does like to be warmed up and really wet. Which means more foreplay and gentle touching which I am always in favor of.
08/10/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I love to be fingered but my b/f's nails have to be short and I have to be wet or use a squirt of lube, otherwise,.....Ouch!!
I do like him to work my clit as well and changing back to my vagina.
08/10/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
I voted for my wife. The only time my wife seems into this at all is when I'm giving her oral already and even then there are times where she doesn't enjoy it. It's weird she enjoys my penis yet dildos and fingers she doesn't like.
08/10/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
This is awesome!

I used to find fingering weird and useless. I used to be the kind of person who didn't enjoy fingering bcs my man thought that in and out without any more exploring would do the trick (porno's fault) but I never told him what to change bcs I didnt know any better myself.

Like many other ladies, I need the come hither movement, it took a while for my man to get it right but now that he does, it is awesome! Clean and clipped nails (filed also!!!) are a must. He works in construction though so clean hands are hard to come by with him .

I have to agree with Prax that it is very intamate to us too. I feel very bare and vulnerable when I am being fingered or Digitally sexed up (JR ). I feel very free and I think that is what makes it intimate for me.
08/11/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
I enjoy getting fingered with or without clit stimulation, I wish my hubby did it more often then he does.
08/11/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I had some bad experiences when I was younger where boys would just shove their fingers in and out and I would either feel nothing or be in pain, especially if I wasn't warmed up. I would just act like I was enjoying it because I thought the problem was with me. Then I found an older boy who would rub my g spot and my clit at the same time and I was shocked that it actually felt good.

With my current partner I wasn't afraid to speak up and teach him what I like, so I enjoy it when he fingers me. I especially like it when he does it during oral, but it feels good by itself too, I just haven't orgasmed from that yet.
08/11/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
Gunsmoke's comment makes me think of one of Dave Chappelle's comedy specials where he talked about trying to 'finger-fuck' girls when he was a teen. It's pretty funny if you wanna look it up. I think it's the same comedy special where he was ragging on R. Kelly's trial and how he thinks a 15 year old girl should know whether she wants to get pissed on or not.

Back to the topic... I love being fingered. Love. It.
08/11/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by David88
I voted for my wife. The only time my wife seems into this at all is when I'm giving her oral already and even then there are times where she doesn't enjoy it. It's weird she enjoys my penis yet dildos and fingers she doesn't like.
I'm pretty much with your wife on this one, I enjoy it a lot while getting oral, but not much else otherwise, lol
08/11/2010
Contributor: crazypao crazypao
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I never really loved getting fingered because I didn't know how to get any pleasure from it since I was always focused on my clitoris.

Since I have become more in touch with my body I enjoy this type of stimulation more and I was curious ... more
I enjoy it during foreplay. What's funny is we have been together for almost 3 years now and just recently started doing foreplay (rather than just getting down to it.) I brought it up to him one day and he just said "Well, I figured I'm not the only one who wants to get off."

Soooooo glad he figured that one out! lol
08/19/2010