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Do You Feel Comfortable Being Naked After Sex?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
I used to feel that way, till one lover told me, "you have just given me YOU, the ultimate gift. You are the most beautiful thing in the room, and like the finest art I would ever want to behold, I wish to see YOU". Please do NOT feel the need to cover yourself, any more then they should throw a sheet over the Mona Lisa". No more "cover ups" for me ever again, after that.
08/06/2011
Contributor: The scientist The scientist
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I've worked to become comfortable with my body. I like to lie around after sex naked, or even fall asleep with no clothes on. Although I do sleep better with at least panties on. We have kids, so I can't walk around nude, but I do like to lie ... more
Totally agree- It takes work. I dont mind being naked after sex, but i'm way more comfortable sleeping in underwear and a t-shirt. It helped me too realizing that my husband notices less of my flaws than I do...so i figure why not be naked.
08/06/2011
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
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Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
Not at all!!!
08/06/2011
Contributor: rockym690 rockym690
Yes but I've only ever felt comfortable with my current guy
08/07/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I like it when we end all in a puddle together naked and sweaty. Then sometimes we go shower. Being nude after sex is great.
08/07/2011
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
Naked as much as possible. Usally at night though.
08/07/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
as a side note, i do NOT feel comfortable being naked when arguing with my partner. case in point, he came over yesterday in the morning after i left his house pissed off... he woke me up and i was naked. i started explaining why i was so upset and at some point realized i was naked and covered up. i felt more vulnerable in that position at that moment and also felt a little like he didnt deserve to see me naked. i was pissed. (more hurt but... just about the same thing)

08/08/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i spend 99% of my waking/ sleeping life being naked, so it's no big deal to stay nude after sex. i'd say i'm fairly comfortable with it
08/21/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
In college and high school I was an athlete and I was in great shape. I was completely fine being naked all day. Since I got out of college I started my company and I never ever have time to work out so I have gained some weight. Knowing what I used to look like compared to what I look like now makes me not even want to look at myself so honestly not so comfortable being naked after sex.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Haha! My boy and I were just talking about this sort of thing yesterday. We'd just got done having sex. (I keep the EF wipes handy for when I don't feel like putting on clothes and running to the bathroom.) We decided we were hungry and ended up finishing off a small bucket of chicken and veggie tray while naked. I thought it was hilarious that I was laying there with the bucket of chicken sitting on my stomach and completely naked. I commented on this in the manner of our extreme comfort level with each other. He made me laugh while eating a piece and I swallowed it wrong and he said "They're going to find you dead and naked with a bucket of chicken."
08/21/2011
Contributor: IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
Your not the only one! i feel the same
08/21/2011
Contributor: null null
I really dislike having to put on clothes after sex. I'd much rather run to the bathroom and then snuggle up and go to sleep naked.
But I spend most of my time naked so ymmv.
08/21/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
as a side note, i do NOT feel comfortable being naked when arguing with my partner. case in point, he came over yesterday in the morning after i left his house pissed off... he woke me up and i was naked. i started explaining why i was so upset and ... more
There are some things that shouldn't be done naked. Haha. Arguing is one. It's hard to take anyone seriously when they're naked. Eating is another as demonstrated by my previous post. Crying, yeah, that's another one, too.
08/21/2011
Contributor: BellaDonna2884 BellaDonna2884
I'm fine with being naked after sex.
08/21/2011
Contributor: IslandGoddess IslandGoddess
nope
08/24/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
We love sleeping naked. Sometimes we put on underwear, but definitely no pants or shirts of any type
08/24/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
My wife and I would be naked 24/7 if we could
08/25/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Doesn't bother me.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Sarah <3 Sarah <3
Yes offcorse my hubby loves my body so why hide?
08/30/2011
Contributor: KrazyKandy KrazyKandy
I like being naked and he prefers me naked so its a win win
08/31/2011
Contributor: systematicweasel systematicweasel
I feel comfortable laying with my partner nude after having sex ^^
08/31/2011
Contributor: ButterflyKisses92 ButterflyKisses92
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Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
I've worked a long time on being comfortable with my body. It's really helped to have a boyfriend who thinks I'm a goddess I basically never put my anything on after sex, I like to sleep naked. I like to walk around the house in my undies! And he and I both love, it puts the spice of life in out relationship!
09/08/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
Totally naked and we stay that way. When we are done I go into the bathroom to get rid of his cum if its inside me (cant sleep in the wet spot or when it trickles out all night long) and he wipes off with a towel. Then to bed still naked.
10/05/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I love being naked, and naked cuddles are the best! So close and intimate, I love to lay in his arms, skin to skin.
10/05/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Whoa, really? I love being naked and cuddling after sex. I like being naked, though. I will cover with a blanket, but I am naked and prefer it over putting on any kind of clothing.
10/05/2011
Contributor: slynch slynch
I would be naked all the time at home if i could
10/05/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I always put my underwear on after sex.
10/10/2011
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
If we arent getting up we usually lay there naked... lots of times I just lay there naked whether he is or not... I am very comfortable around him and I love to cuddle without clothes on, especially after sex. Naked is what I like best
02/06/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by briluminary
I'm a timid person and always feel a bit shy after having sex with my boyfriend and don't really prefer to just sit around naked and like to conceal myself, I don't dislike my body but just feel so awkward being undressed when we're not hooking up.
It completely depends! I have this... thing... a sort of "after effects" of a health problem I used to suffer terribly from. Anyways, it mostly just keeps my stomach really bloated and a lot of days out of the month, I LOOK 5-8 pounds heavier in my middle when really, I'm small! So I feel less than beautiful on those days and sadly, those days are often. It's not a huge complaint, but I don't like to be naked long when it's happening. However, when I'm not so damn bloated and I do have a streak of confidence, I'll stay naked all day long! Well, until the kids come home or we have to leave Lol. I used to stay naked, totally naked until kids came along. It was fun! Lol. Now I'll do it when we're alone just for the sheer comfort and to hopefully get a rise out of him, but if I'm feeling yucky and one of those "why do I look SOO awful all of a sudden" days, I'll keep covered afterwards.
02/06/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I agree with P'Gell and newfoundlust on this one. When you are younger and in a relationship this is normal.

However, with long term commitment and age(at least in my experience) you grow to accept your body and embrace the things you ... more
That was SOOO releiving to read! I have been worrying about changing as we age lately because I turn 22 this month and EVERYBODY has made special efforts to tell me since I turned 21 that "it all goes downhill from here." It has actually stayed in the back of my mind constantly throghout the entire year and now I'm almost 22 and have been thinking well, I guess it'll be no time until my partner loses interest. Stupid, I know! Lol. I have just heard these things SO much this year. What you said though, was so comforting! I can totally see my partner being the kind who is still in love with my oldness even when I'm saggy! Lol. Or so he says... Ha HA. I like that you guys still appreciate intimacy and all. I will not let that die! I guess it's not true that every single relationship just dies off and the couple isn't attracted to each other after a certain amount of time. It's hard to remember that it doesn't always turn out that way though.

02/06/2012