Do you consider oral sex forplay?

Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
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Yes
59
No
6
Total votes: 65 (63 voters)
Poll is closed
07/19/2013
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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I don't usually have any difficulty giving oral, but on that rare occasion it seems more uncomfortable. I mean the crook in the neck, jaw cramp, etc...
07/19/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Neither of us orgasm from oral - so it's always foreplay. We average 5 min or less.
07/19/2013
Contributor: underHim underHim
Hmm, sometimes yes and sometimes no. Sometimes oral leads to other activities, sometimes we both orgasm from oral, sometimes just one of us does, it all depends on the night (or day). As far as length, as short as 10 minutes as long as an hour or so.
07/19/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Definitely consider it foreplay. Length varies.
07/19/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Oral is a part of our foreplay, along with fingers and toys; the duration can be from 10 minutes to 30 minutes.
07/19/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
If it's followed by intercourse then it is foreplay but if it isn't, then it is the main event. I do very much enjoy going down on my GF, and when that results in her orgasm so much the better.
07/19/2013
Contributor: PepperPot PepperPot
Usually foreplay. Sometimes we intend it as foreplay, but then change our minds and make it the main event.
07/19/2013
Contributor: GirlyGirlRed GirlyGirlRed
Yes as long as its not the only thing that happens.
07/19/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Oral is always part of our foreplay, most of the time I will also finish him in my mouth after sex.
07/20/2013
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
Quote:
Originally posted by PepperPot
Usually foreplay. Sometimes we intend it as foreplay, but then change our minds and make it the main event.
That always seems to happen to us.
07/20/2013
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
It can be, or it can be the main event. It depends on the day and the mood.
07/20/2013
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
i never have sex with out going down on the him first. Nothing gets me wetter. Whether he goes down on me is give or take(I guess his mood).
No one has ever given me oral that hasn't been followed by sex. But I use oral as a treat(like if my guy has been extra nice lately or I have not been)
07/21/2013
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
Yes if that's what you do for foreplay. No if that's what you do for sex.
07/21/2013
Contributor: HisLittleFiend HisLittleFiend
It depends with us. We both love 69. Sometimes it's a precursor to something more, and sometimes we enjoy it for itself. It definitely CAN be used as part of the foreplay but I think it can stand alone, too.
07/21/2013
Contributor: MissKoolaid MissKoolaid
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
I feel it is, more a teaser though. Sometimes, my man and I will sneak into a bathroom and I'll give it to him, then just leave him.

But, I don't really enjoy it (prolly cuz it's never been done right) So, it's more for him.
07/21/2013
Contributor: Babylove09 Babylove09
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
Me and My husband do oral as forplay and it usually doesn't last that long because we want more then that.
07/21/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
It's foreplay for us. Usually follows some lighter foreplay. It often leads to the deed and sometimes not. Sometimes I guess we are too tired or had a very long hard day. As far as length of time, it depends how long our tongues or mouths can last or who caves in and insists on sex.
07/21/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
Of course!
07/22/2013
Contributor: dangerzone dangerzone
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
Definetly is foreplay and love it but can also get off on the foreplay! The more foreplay the better to spice things up!
07/24/2013
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Depends for us sometimes it leads to more and sometimes we just do it because we want to and that is how it ends. Length of time can vary
07/24/2013
Contributor: EternalSally030613 EternalSally030613
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
I personally consider it foreplay. We do it almost every time we have sex. The time varies tho, usually anywhere from 5 mins to 30 mins. The whole orgasm does't matter with us because fortunately we both get multiple ones. I say regardless if it leads to sex, just have fun with it and do what feels right at the time
07/24/2013
Contributor: tomoev tomoev
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
Depending on the situation, it both to me, Sometimes it the action the lead to sex, but to me, it is also a full part of the sex itself, as if it were a sex position. I hope that makes sense.
07/26/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
It's always a form of foreplay, but can be the main course too.
07/26/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
yeah
07/26/2013
Contributor: Pretties Pretties
Mostly we do it as foreplay but sometimes if we get really into it it's the main thing, or it's both...
07/27/2013
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
Yes, though it does not always have to be used as such.
07/27/2013
Contributor: lana'sart lana'sart
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
yes
07/27/2013
Contributor: tinyguy tinyguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Husband and Wife
My wife and I love to preform oral on each other sometimes it leads to sex some times thats all we do, so I was wondering do you guys consider oral a foreplay? And if so how long does everyone do it for?
My wife has a lot more control in the bedroom than most for a whole host of reasons and history I won't go into. Having said that, she gets all the oral she wants when she wants it, and I get nada from her. Last time I had a blowjob was 7 years ago from a previous relationship. Lots of reasons for this, but over the years I've grown to be fine with this arrangement and even look forward to long oral sessions on her and that is often all we do. She gets several orgasms and I have to wait til next time. We both like it that way because it puts the focus on her as the woman.
So, oral is not foreplay a lot of the time for her, it's mostly the sex she wants and gets from me. But, I will say I can't remember the last time she didn't get oral before any sex session whether it leads to full blown sex or not. Know it sounds odd, but keeps her super happy and really works for us.
07/27/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Usually. But sometimes it is the main event.
07/28/2013