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Distance couples: Have you ever masturbated for your partner via webcam?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Folks forget that webcam video is just public airwaves signal (WiFi or Carrier bases) and can be picked up and watched by others. Not to be a party pooper, but Internet Security is something I am into now, and I know a neighbor who used to have their webcam on and recording their bedroom..at all times. Except it was being recorded by another neighbor...Just saying....careful out there folks...think...
06/14/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Yes I have. Phone sex is awesome too.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Yes. Both webcams and video calls were a huge help when we were apart.
06/15/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
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Originally posted by Bignuf
Folks forget that webcam video is just public airwaves signal (WiFi or Carrier bases) and can be picked up and watched by others. Not to be a party pooper, but Internet Security is something I am into now, and I know a neighbor who used to have their ... more
Thankfully my cam is attached to my laptop (as is my guy's), so it's closed when not in use. Generally our faces aren't in view at the same time we're doing something sexual, too, and he's the only person I keep on my buddy list. And I'm always on encrypted networks. I do everything I can to protect my self on the internet. Yes, there's always a risk. But I mean, there's just as big a risk when I do online banking, or give payment/address info on shipments.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I've done this and I liked it. :] I think it's way better than watching porn, like someone else mentioned.
06/15/2011
Contributor: Jesse Jesse
whenever hes not home we do!
06/15/2011
Contributor: Officer Oddy Officer Oddy
My guy is in the military and we do that as often as we can. If he has enough time to and is alone, we definitely have fun.
06/21/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I've never done it since my partner and I've always been close together. But I would LOVE to, only I wouldn't like to be distanced. Now I have done a little for our private videos though and I think it's a freakin' blast! It's so fun! We haven't videod anything in quite a while, but I do like that so I'm sure I'd really get a kick out of doing it via web cam!
06/21/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I feel like it's kind of silly, maybe one day the mood will strike me, but I find text much more appealing if I'm not right next to the person. I guess i'm just really non-visual, I am more attracted to touch or imagination.
06/24/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
I never have, but i think i would def be into it if my partner wanted to
07/11/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
we have never been far enough apart for long enough to do this, o well
07/11/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Have never done this before, but I'd be up for it if we were apart for some time!
09/20/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Haven't, and would feel weird doing it.
09/25/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
We're long distance but 1] I haven't worked up that confidence yet and 2] Our cam connection is glitchy 75% of the time. I was in the mood to jump up and suggest it last night while he was trying on some costumes for me (he's an actor), but everything got glitchy and we kept getting dropped. Dang it!
09/25/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
not yet. farthest i've gone was shaking my butt for him. i might sometime soon, though.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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have and would do it again!!
12/08/2011
Contributor: duff duff
When were apart we do it .its fun
12/09/2011
Contributor: LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
It really helps to break up some of the sexual tension in an LDR. Although it can be hard to see yet not be able to touch.
12/09/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
Nah... I wouldn't want to torture her or myself like that. Saving that kind of stuff for in-the-flesh (interpret as you will, works both ways.) meetings.
12/09/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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we weren't long distance at the time, but while I loved watching my partner masturbate, I felt very self conscious about me masturbating
12/14/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
My guy and I have done it once a while ago, mostly because he didn't have a webcam for the longest time. We did some sexy things on cam more recently, or rather I did, but there wasn't any masturbating. Just playful nudity to get him ready to go after we shut the skype down.
12/14/2011
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
Well, we don't have webcams, but even if we did I am uncertain I would trust the internet enough to do that. Maybe I'm paranoid. I trust HIM just fine. Internet... not so much.
12/31/2011
Contributor: Claire de Cerises Claire de Cerises
Yep! Anytime we are away from each other for an extended period of time. Not too worried about people intercepting it, although I do have a slight fear of that happening when we have sexy talk on the phone. I guess it's because I've accidentally heard neighbors' conversations on the phone before.
01/02/2012
Contributor: Art & Sensation Art & Sensation
I've done it before and appreciated the interaction of sorts, although we were both quite too inhibited for it to be very exciting. That, and she has her cam built into her computer, so the angle shows maybe her chest at best.

I'd love to try it more often, especially because it'll be a good few more months til I get to see my lady again. Don't think it's going to happen though, considering it's hard enough already to have even a normal camming session. I wish the timezones wouldn't clash so much, but alas.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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No and I don't think I want to try it out.
01/10/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
Never webcam, but sexted videos on the cell phone before, best we had at the time
01/10/2012
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
I did this and didn't like it. I'm too paranoid about it. I'll continue to be paranoid about it.
01/10/2012
Contributor: prttynink prttynink
I have, but I prefer making him videos and emailing them to him. It always makes for a nice surprise, and I get happy little texts all day
01/12/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
We've done it and it was alright, but not as good as being in the same room together!
02/22/2012
Contributor: martb40 martb40
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Yes we have both masturbated for each other on webcam. When you're separated by 000 miles the webcam is the best tool available to you and we utilized it a lot.
02/23/2012