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Contributor: Polyserena Polyserena
Not sure how many of you know about Klingons in star trek, but they have some pretty rough mating rituals. This link should take you up to speed Klingons on youtube For some reason I couldn't embed the video.

I've mucked around a little bit with bondage and spanking and I quite liked it, but really I find the hottest sex is rough sex. I like to be rough and I like my partner to be rough at the same time- but not necessarily damagingly rough. I don't hate dominating, but I do like some resistance. And while I like being submissive, it doesn't seem right without a struggle. Does anyone find bondage and rough sex incompatible?

For people who like rough sex; would you condiser your sex style to be Kingonesque? (Do both partners struggle against each other for control or actually wrestle in foreplay?) I mostly hear about 'dominants' and 'submissives' on the forums, but I don't think I'm either! But then I suppose dominants and submissives don't necessarily have rough sex.

Any perspective is welcome and I hope you enjoyed the video.

Cheers
08/13/2010
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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Polyserena
Not sure how many of you know about Klingons in star trek, but they have some pretty rough mating rituals. This link should take you up to speed Klingons on youtube For some reason I couldn't embed the video.

I've mucked around a ... more
Sigel is too trained in martial arts to feel comfortable wrestling with me...and even though I love to see myself as an amazon warrior bitch I am more like a hot house orchid I get hurt too easily and then I bruise and he get's upset at himself.
Now Arch loves to wrestle around but although he is MUCH larger and stronger than I am he is also very aware of that and doesn't hurt me, usually. I have had some rather spectacular bruises that kinda angered Sigel...so now we make sure that we keep it very mild. We try not to make each other uncomfortable and it really made Sigel feel over protective even though he knows Arch wouldn't hurt me.
I love rough sex but it is more mental play than physical.
08/13/2010
Contributor: MuffysPinguLove MuffysPinguLove
My boyfriend and I wrestle occasionally as a form of foreplay. It generally doesn't last long though and we get down to business
08/13/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
How can you NOT have foreplay without bat'leth? Really!

Nakie wrestling is fun though...
08/14/2010
Contributor: Blinker Blinker
It's more like play-wrestling than anything. But we always have rough sex and that's always an intense workout, with hair pulling, insane feats of flexibility, wriggling and sweating. Great now I'm horny.
08/14/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
I like a little wrestling, but all in fun. Too rough is like hitting and such, and I do NOT like that.
08/14/2010
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Glad I found this thread! Yesss, my boyfriend and I enjoy a good wrastlin'. I also enjoy the fact that I'm usually destined to lose. There aren't any true losers, of course.
12/18/2010
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I love wrestling! And I consider myself a sub and M is my dom, but most of the time I struggle and he has to put me in my place
12/19/2010
Contributor: misslady misslady
We wrestle all the time, even if it's not foreplay. We wrestle over who calls and orders takeout, who gets more of the bed, etc. But a few times it leads to naked wrestling too, and that's always tons of fun!
12/19/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
We haven't done any naked wrestling yet (we're not actually having sex yet and trying to be very careful to keep it that way), but the thought really turns me on. I think I'll propose the idea at our next playtime and see what he thinks. I have a feeling he'll love it. We practice bondage and rough sex on occasion and this seems to fall under a similar, although more playful, less rough, category.
12/19/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
My bf loves when I wrestle with him or pin him down. He loves me being rough, knowing I can have my way with him, but being gentle at the same time.

For general playing, I like wrestling, tickle matches, and other power play things, even in a non sexual way. I have always just been a physical person when it comes to showing power, I don't know why.
12/19/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Envy
My bf loves when I wrestle with him or pin him down. He loves me being rough, knowing I can have my way with him, but being gentle at the same time.

For general playing, I like wrestling, tickle matches, and other power play things, even in a ... more
I love that too
12/21/2010