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Do you prefer exchanging massages before or after sex?

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Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
Depending on our mood, sometimes my boyfriend and I do massages before sex and sometimes we do them after sex. I know that a nice sensual massage is an awesome turn on pre-sex but damn does it ever feel good after! I was just wondering what other peoples massage rituals are.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Before sex
Darling Jen , Lady Venus , Jimbo Jones , ToyTimeTim , Sir , SexyTabby , Alicia , Hot'n'Bothered , Gunsmoke , LicentiouslyYours , DustBunny , Bunnycups , Emma (Girl With Fire) , tim1724 , PuplePleasures , leatherlover , ~LaUr3n~ , Selective Sensualist , sausagelover , Tori Rebel , trios , SexyySarah , tits only , darthkitt3n , Liz2 , Kindred , C4ss , Nicollete88 , kinky girlfriend , darkkitty , Miss Morphine , RemusHalifax , LavenderSkies , Nicky , Purpleladybug , Lucidity , sbon , Lummox , lamira , ejrbrndps , Taylor Violet LXIX , Liz , *HisMrs* , menotu , 7Miles , The Awesome Penguin , Angel deSanguine , liilii080 , Xavier7 , Akikaze , Amber Rahne , staceejaxxx , sweet seduction , gehuwd , x cherri , Moein , thatonegirl , vegan.guy , pinkcupcakes , thedude , Crystal1 , Cream in the Cupcake , onehotmomma , Joie de Cherresse , REDRUM , zeebot , Adriana Ravenlust , shirley15461 , Ajax , callsignhusker , Pleasure Piratess , gladiola , Love&War , hysteriaremedy , MaryExy , amandaco2011 , yw2 , InWonderland , Ghost , potstickers , Lime , Howells , LAndJ , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , Checkmate , GonetoLovehoney , chibi1091 , Collogue , Swish , Graniteal , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , voenne , Teacookie , KyotoAngel , CamelliaGirl , dks210 , bh253 , Chami , Ly-Ra , roskat , d.wooldridge , Mistress Sassy , humpday , Breas , Modern^Spank^Anthem , authorzero , g- , Scorpionwally , LunaLuthor , John E W , Fluffy Snuggles , Diablotin , Trysexual , Missmarc , PassionQT , shorejen9 , tortilla , babycin , Qozt , earthmama , KinkyKatieJames
121  (93%)
After sex
cherryredhead88 , Anne Ardeur , mariah , Coralbell , PlayfulPisces87 , KatPawz2003 , sixfootsex , Cora Jane , butts
9  (7%)
Total votes: 130
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Alicia Alicia
I like before, as foreplay. Afterwards we like to just cuddle or go to sleep if it's at night, and if it's during the day we get up and shower.
11/17/2010
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
Before! Hands down
11/17/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Always before. My wife craves a specific style of massage in her groin where all the muscles, ligaments & tendons converge - and as you know it just so happens that there are also a lot of sexually significant nerve endings there as well - so the massage always leads to sex - nice coincidence?
11/17/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
Who has the energy to give a massage after sex?
11/17/2010
Contributor: DustBunny DustBunny
Afterwards there's no energy left for that.
11/17/2010
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Quote:
Originally posted by DustBunny
Afterwards there's no energy left for that.
Haha yeah. After is snuggle time.
11/17/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I'm greedy, I want a massage every minute of every day. I do enjoy giving them as well though.
11/17/2010
Contributor: PuplePleasures PuplePleasures
Before sex
11/17/2010
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
I voted for before. Gets each other into the mood.
11/17/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
Not a single person has voted for after yet lol I guess I should have mentioned that my bf broke his back when he was 13 and he has rods in there. That's one of the main reasons that we started doing massages after. Sex bothers his back a bit so I give him a deep strong massage so he can fall asleep pain free
11/19/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
Definitely before.
11/27/2010
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by fghjkl
Depending on our mood, sometimes my boyfriend and I do massages before sex and sometimes we do them after sex. I know that a nice sensual massage is an awesome turn on pre-sex but damn does it ever feel good after! I was just wondering what other ... more
I think it could be good either way. Before makes great foreplay, but after makes a wonderful wind down and a good moment to bond and enjoy each other.
11/27/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
Never messaged after....never even thought of doing so.
12/04/2010
Contributor: C4ss C4ss
I definitely prefer it before. It works as foreplay.
12/04/2010
Contributor: Nicollete88 Nicollete88
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot'n'Bothered
Before! Hands down
Before is better it gets you in the mood
12/06/2010
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by fghjkl
Depending on our mood, sometimes my boyfriend and I do massages before sex and sometimes we do them after sex. I know that a nice sensual massage is an awesome turn on pre-sex but damn does it ever feel good after! I was just wondering what other ... more
before for sure it warms us up!
12/09/2010
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
Before for sure. It's a nice way to work the clothes of and get both parties really in the mood.
12/13/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I prefer before, but if I get one after too, that's even better.
12/18/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
No "both"?? Granted, the one after is much less intense. It's more of a stroking massage, but I think she still likes it.
12/18/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I like them before
12/20/2010
Contributor: Nicky Nicky
Definitely before. We are usually too tired afterward!
12/20/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
never done it before or after
12/21/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
never done it before or after
12/21/2010
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
We love working massages into our roleplays, very hot
12/21/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
I voted before, but it really depends. Sometimes we use them as foreplay and other times to relax afterwards.
12/21/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I love getting a massage before hand, because it's like foreplay for me.
12/21/2010
Contributor: Liz Liz
Absolutely before. Afterward, all I want to do is either snuggle, sleep, or jump in the shower.
12/23/2010
Contributor: menotu menotu
Quote:
Originally posted by fghjkl
Depending on our mood, sometimes my boyfriend and I do massages before sex and sometimes we do them after sex. I know that a nice sensual massage is an awesome turn on pre-sex but damn does it ever feel good after! I was just wondering what other ... more
Before as foreplay
12/29/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
I get pretty tired after sex... so I vote before!
01/07/2011