I just got back from a 3 day workshop for women where yes indeed we did yoni massage. It was really frikin cool! When the facilitator of the workshop sends me more resources I will pass them on. Here in Canada (in Victoria b.c. ) there's a place called body electric. My workshop was by a woman named Elfie Bernard-Shaw and held at a place called Haven on Gabriola Is. Like I said, she's going to send me more info so I will pass it on.
Ps someone answered something weird about escort agency's in new york to one of your posts. I wasn't sure if it was the sort of thing that should be flagged. It had a phone number on it and everything but I couldn't access the contributors profile page.

I have two great videos showing full yoni and lingam massages. They're both on my computer, I'm not sure how I could send them to you (video is very heavy to send via internet...). You can find only part of it in german here :
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The version I have is translated to English though...