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Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
I met my guy online and have been talking for a while, well he is coming this weekend and I'm curious if you were in this situation....would you fuck the first night or wait a few days..?
08/23/2012
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Contributor: Taylor Taylor
I personally would not, but everyone is different and what is too soon for one person might be perfectly fine for somebody else.
08/23/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by CaliGirl
I met my guy online and have been talking for a while, well he is coming this weekend and I'm curious if you were in this situation....would you fuck the first night or wait a few days..?
I would fuck immediately, but I really wouldn't advise it. I think you should make sure you are both going to be ready for the possible change in relationship status, but if you want to, I say go for it!
08/23/2012
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
I have met someone offline and he stayed with me the first night we met in person. I did not have sex though even though we both wanted to. I just felt like it was wrong and I wanted to make sure I wasn't just going to be a fuck. Everyone is different though! If you want to I'd say go for it!
08/23/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
I would say not the first night. Ease into it, especially if you haven't met in person before. You need to gain the respect/trust first and then after spending time together, decide if it the right time or not together.
08/25/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by CaliGirl
I met my guy online and have been talking for a while, well he is coming this weekend and I'm curious if you were in this situation....would you fuck the first night or wait a few days..?
If you met online, YOU DON'T KNOW HIM. You THINK you know him, but ONLINE is still ANONYMOUS. Do yourself a BIG favor and WAIT. Wait a GOOD WHILE, where you have some REAL face-time and get to know the person...not the screen image THEY want you to know, without any of the other parts you DON'T know. Even simple things like BAD BREATH and BODY ODOR just don't "come through" online. Bigger things like his wife and three kids, or his habit of picking his nose and wiping it on this shirt are thinks you WON'T know about at this point....honest.
08/25/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
If you've been very flirty with him then might as well do it the first night, if you've been kinda modest wait a couple days. But if you want an actual relationship I'd wait a couple days
12/06/2012