Confront him. Don't rush to him yelling and screming. Talk to him and figure out what is he doing on the site. You do have to fonfront him though.
What would you do?
04/13/2012
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Confront them and figure out why.
Originally posted by
ladychristie
Your significant other signed up for a dating website what would you do?
04/19/2012
I think that's a good idea (to create a profile and contact them). That way, when I would confront her, I would have some hardcore proof.
04/19/2012
after confronting them i would leave them
04/22/2012
If either of my significant others set up dating profiles, I would be surprised, because we have all expressed a disinterest in developing romantic relationships outside of our triad, at least at this point. I would talk with them about it and discuss what it is they want to get out having such a profile, but I would be more surprised than angry or hurt. It would be really out of character for either of them.
05/28/2012
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I would confront them and then dump them
Originally posted by
ladychristie
Your significant other signed up for a dating website what would you do?
06/19/2012
confront them and fin out why they are doing this
06/19/2012
First I'd do some snooping, maybe the fake profile thing, then I'd see what is up. Then I'd freak the fuck out and leave his sorry ass.
06/19/2012
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YOu're a better woman than me. I would freak out and never trust him again.
Originally posted by
ladychristie
Well I did confront him and told him if he's not happy he's more then welcome to leave no hard feelings. I told him I'd even help him find someone else because I'm to old to deal with games. He told me I was stupid and he wasn't
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Well I did confront him and told him if he's not happy he's more then welcome to leave no hard feelings. I told him I'd even help him find someone else because I'm to old to deal with games. He told me I was stupid and he wasn't looking, he hasn't signed on since. It does make me be on alert but I guess we'll see as time goes on.
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06/19/2012
i recently found out he still had an account on one and i kinda got all upset but turns out he hasnt been on that site since before we hooked up was just an account he didnt close... whew! lol
06/19/2012
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i would tell his ass
Originally posted by
ladychristie
Your significant other signed up for a dating website what would you do?
06/19/2012
There's bigger issues there. Definitely be direct about it.
06/19/2012
i would definitely confront him
06/26/2012
If they made an account on a dating website then obviously they're a jerk who's looking for action elsewhere, I'd dump them. If they cared for you they wouldn't do that
12/10/2012
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tear him a new one
Originally posted by
ladychristie
Your significant other signed up for a dating website what would you do?
12/27/2012
confront them
12/27/2012
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Good point about them being there for the porn! I'd be slightly worried about the possibility of lying...but the guy I am with would never do something like that without telling me FIRST rather than after.
Originally posted by
js250
Confront them and possible leave. If they are considering dating, there is an ulterior motive. However if it is a "dating" site that provides porn....could be the porn they are interested in, not the "dating".
12/28/2012
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confront, but probably leave soon after.
Originally posted by
ladychristie
Your significant other signed up for a dating website what would you do?
01/02/2013
Immediate confrontation and deep discussion, then we would go from there.
01/09/2013
I would most certainly confront them and see what's going on because something has to be up if your partner was out looking for someone else.
01/20/2013
I wouldn't be happy.
03/09/2013
CutiePatootie
My now-husband joined match.com when we were dating and I had moved back to my home state with him. Things were bad at the time and I moved out (which was the best call at the time). We've had a rocky road in the past, but being honest and talking about it is the only way.
I know that nothing pisses him off more than trying the catch him in a trap and "get him in trouble." That's the best way to get dumped, especially if they're starting to look around.
I know that nothing pisses him off more than trying the catch him in a trap and "get him in trouble." That's the best way to get dumped, especially if they're starting to look around.
03/11/2013
I had a boyfriend who posted on the craig's list personals while we were still together. I didn't exactly confront him about it, but I ended it shortly after that. I didn't tell him I'd seen his posting.
04/09/2013
For me there is no reason other than to cheat to have a dating site profile, so if you want to meet other chicks then go right ahead and do it, but i would be gone. i would never put up with that crap.
04/10/2013
What is emotional cheating? that's a new one.
For the record men just don't surf match sites, I do too and I'm a woman which means you'd probably dump me as well.
Why do I do i? My SO is right behind me on his on computer in his own little world doing his own thing, I need some thrills in life. I can't get out and go anywhere on my own and I just need to see a happy energenic face. The men at work are too tempting and there's one that's even single. You're complaining about a website account? Believe me it could be worse.
What if your SO was working in a predominately female office as I am a predominately male one. The temptation is always there.
I live by the old rule, "looking is okay but not touching"
Until you catch him touching what's wrong with letting his eyes wander. I dream of anyone but my SO all the time. Besides, he looks at other woman when we're in the car and how they "bounce."
"I'm sorry all, but unless there's a definite physical cheating happening, I don't see anything wrong with it.
For the record men just don't surf match sites, I do too and I'm a woman which means you'd probably dump me as well.
Why do I do i? My SO is right behind me on his on computer in his own little world doing his own thing, I need some thrills in life. I can't get out and go anywhere on my own and I just need to see a happy energenic face. The men at work are too tempting and there's one that's even single. You're complaining about a website account? Believe me it could be worse.
What if your SO was working in a predominately female office as I am a predominately male one. The temptation is always there.
I live by the old rule, "looking is okay but not touching"
Until you catch him touching what's wrong with letting his eyes wander. I dream of anyone but my SO all the time. Besides, he looks at other woman when we're in the car and how they "bounce."
"I'm sorry all, but unless there's a definite physical cheating happening, I don't see anything wrong with it.
04/10/2013
I'd confront them. If we were in an open relationship and had agreed that seeing other people was okay then it would be different but that's something we would decide before jumping on a dating site!
04/10/2013
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Sounds like its time to find out what is going on...
Originally posted by
ladychristie
Your significant other signed up for a dating website what would you do?
04/10/2013
Confront him.
04/10/2013
confront them just to see whats up?
04/10/2013
Honestly I would make a fake profile and contact him. If you confront them they are just going to lie, lie, lie about it. What other good reason are they on there? If they couldn't tell you about them putting it up what tells you they are going to fess to doing it?
04/18/2013