texting.
If you have something to say, say it. Grow some balls and do it in person.
If you have something to say, say it. Grow some balls and do it in person.
What do you think is the worst way to tell someone you want to breakup with them
03/12/2011
Ignoring them would be the worst. Split up face to face or at least by calling. Any other way is nasty.
03/28/2011
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i can understand over the phone or through skype, but only if you're in a long distance relationship & there's no time soon that you 2 can get together.
Originally posted by
Adam02viper
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up
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So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up with someone that way. Also comment on what you think would be the hardest way to break up with someone.
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05/05/2011
ignoring somebody altogether and hoping they get the message
05/05/2011
I think in person is best. However, when dealing with a manipulative, controlling, and overbearing person I think the phone or a written letter is the next best thing.
05/05/2011
Text message is pretty bad but there is nothing worse than being a complete chicken and never even bothering to break up.
05/05/2011
Honestly, I'd have a lot more respect for a man who would do it in person and own up, be a man, and give it to me straight. I don't like a sissy who has to hide behind the computer, a piece of paper and pen, or a cell phone. If you're going to leave me, I deserve to be told in person and I deserve a damn good explanation!
05/11/2011
Ugh!
05/11/2011
I would never do any of those things, I think they're all pretty much cop outs, but probably the worst of all of them is just ignoring them and hoping they get the message.
05/11/2011
Have your new girlfriend tell her
05/11/2011
Text message and ignore them.
05/11/2011
When I first saw this I was going to say text message, and then I read the poll. Getting someone else to do it for you? Ignoring them until they get it? Daaaaaaaamn that's cruel.
05/11/2011
Have someone else do it.. or ignore them
05/12/2011
Ignoring them
05/18/2011
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Haha, that would be awful!
Originally posted by
Mr.RightNow
on valentines day
05/24/2011
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It was - one of my college classmates was dumped by her boyfriend of five years on V-day because he 'wanted to let her have her freedom'. I understood he got an STD within a week.
Originally posted by
Anjulie
Haha, that would be awful!
05/24/2011
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One of the worst ways that someone broke up with me was through MSN messenger. Would have much rather seen the person face to face rather than through some chat system.
Originally posted by
Adam02viper
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up
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So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up with someone that way. Also comment on what you think would be the hardest way to break up with someone.
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05/25/2011
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I think ignoring someone or trying to get someone else to do it for you is the worst. I mean, are we in middle school?
Originally posted by
Adam02viper
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up
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more
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up with someone that way. Also comment on what you think would be the hardest way to break up with someone.
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Mature adults sit down and let the other person know why they need to stop the relationship. A friend of mine "broke up" with a long time girlfriend by the ignoring method, it hurt her terribly, she had NO closure and I really lost a lot of respect for him. He claimed "I didn't know what to say to her." Well, the fact that he was already sleeping with someone else was a start!
Letting someone else do it for you is so immature. I've seen grown men and women do this and they need to be removed from the gene pool IMO.
05/25/2011
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Oh wow, karma much?
Originally posted by
Chilipepper
It was - one of my college classmates was dumped by her boyfriend of five years on V-day because he 'wanted to let her have her freedom'. I understood he got an STD within a week.
05/25/2011
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Yes, it's immature and cruel to ignore someone; whether it's a romantic relationship, a friendship, or something in between. Being ignored hurts, especially if the ignored party has gone above and beyond to establish trust and a real friendship.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I think ignoring someone or trying to get someone else to do it for you is the worst. I mean, are we in middle school?
Mature adults sit down and let the other person know why they need to stop the relationship. A friend of mine "broke ... more
Mature adults sit down and let the other person know why they need to stop the relationship. A friend of mine "broke ... more
I think ignoring someone or trying to get someone else to do it for you is the worst. I mean, are we in middle school?
Mature adults sit down and let the other person know why they need to stop the relationship. A friend of mine "broke up" with a long time girlfriend by the ignoring method, it hurt her terribly, she had NO closure and I really lost a lot of respect for him. He claimed "I didn't know what to say to her." Well, the fact that he was already sleeping with someone else was a start!
Letting someone else do it for you is so immature. I've seen grown men and women do this and they need to be removed from the gene pool IMO. less
Mature adults sit down and let the other person know why they need to stop the relationship. A friend of mine "broke up" with a long time girlfriend by the ignoring method, it hurt her terribly, she had NO closure and I really lost a lot of respect for him. He claimed "I didn't know what to say to her." Well, the fact that he was already sleeping with someone else was a start!
Letting someone else do it for you is so immature. I've seen grown men and women do this and they need to be removed from the gene pool IMO. less
05/25/2011
i had an ex who broke up with me over text, but i guess its better then just plain out ignoring them
05/25/2011
I personally feel that any type of technology shouldn't be used to do a break up. If the guy was a total jerk, and didn't give you the time of day, go ahead and slip him a text. Otherwise, be decent and at least call or go see him to do it.
05/25/2011
In person or over the phone would probably be the most respectful way to end a relationship.
05/25/2011
Text message
05/25/2011
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Via post it note.
Originally posted by
Adam02viper
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up
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more
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up with someone that way. Also comment on what you think would be the hardest way to break up with someone.
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05/25/2011
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I think breaking up with someone over text message or phone call is kind of cruel its almost like saying you aren't even worth the time to do it in person. i find it very insulting to do. i understand some extreme circumstances make it hard to do but in those situations its okay.
Originally posted by
Adam02viper
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up
...
more
So i think breaking up with some one through a email or text message is just wrong, even though it might be easier on you to do it that way. So in your opinion how would you not want someone to break up with you, or would you not want to break up with someone that way. Also comment on what you think would be the hardest way to break up with someone.
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05/26/2011
I actually put phone, because it happened to me. It was completely out of the blue, and it was a long distance relationship. How could I argue or plead when he's over 2,000 thousand miles away? If he had seen how I had taken it in person, I think he would have been less likely to pick that option or beg us to get back together...
05/30/2011
either through someone else or ignoring them. its hard to pick. thats so awful.
06/13/2011
anything but telling them face to face
07/28/2011
Breaking up is heart wrenching enough with out humiliating the person. There is no right or good way to break up with someone due to all the variables in the relationships. However ignoring isn't breaking up or continuing the relationship, it is just prolonging someone else's agony. At least say it is over...let the other person go on with their life.
07/28/2011