An unscientific poll to measure the correlation between alcohol consumption and promiscuity...(How often are you SHITFACED before hopping in the sack?)

Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
Never buzzed
04/24/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Buzzed on occasion, but never when I'm wasted. A super drunk txymxy is a txymxy who just wants to go to sleep.
04/24/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
Sometimes I am buzzed, but never shitfaced. When I drink I usually just want to climb in to bed and pass out when I'm finished.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Never. We do a lot of risky types of play, and playing drunk is just not safe in our case. Not only that, but my stamina drops to nill when I drink. I'm just not really a heavy drinker, and when I do drink, I tend to go to bed early.
04/26/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by bobowaxer
How often and to what degree is alcohol a factor in your first sexual encounter with a new partner? ( you may select more than one answer)
I never have sex, especially a first time encounter, when my judgement is clouded by any substance.
06/11/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I don't drink. I never have. I used to smoke pot in High School and some in college and a little beyond, but shortly after college I started having children, and I wouldn't get high around kids. Even if they were asleep. Pot doesn't cloud your judgement as much as booze, I think, but I wanted to always be completely clear around kids, even when they were asleep. You never know when they wake up and need something.

As for sex, I've not had sex for the first time with anyone while intoxicated. One guy, I think, we'd been smoking hours earlier, but I went into our adventure in bed totally aware of what I was doing.

I have had sex with My Man stoned and even while tripping, but it was after I had known him a long time and knew I could trust him. As a woman, I always felt I had to stay fairly sober while dating. I didn't want to do something or have something happen that I was not in control during and then regret it later.

Sex while tripping is ridiculous. I would either end up getting totally sidetracked by something inconsequential or start to laugh and not be able to get into it. Once My Man's head looked extremely large and that's all I could think about, how big his head looked. It wasn't conducive to good sex.
06/11/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Always sober when making decisions
06/11/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
I used to party all the time and I was usually shitfaced and sometimes buzzed when I would get down.

Since having my son I rarely go out at all, let alone drink, so I put rarely buzzed and rarely shitfaced.

Drunk sex isn't that great anyways for me, because I always remember just fucking for hours and it not being that great..

On the other hand there have been times when it was fun, like the nighty my ex and I got together- (keyword there being ex, mind you) we had amazing sex all night long and it was the best ever.
06/11/2011
Contributor: null null
I don't like to get shitfaced, and when I get buzzed I tend to be on my guard more so I'm less likely to have sex then than when I'm sober.
06/11/2011
Contributor: SilverIsis SilverIsis
I can't really drink due to medical issues. As for my partner I would always want him sober because I want him to remember it all.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
I've been totally shitfaced and hooked up with people. Something about alcohol sends my libido through the roof.
08/23/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
In my youth, yeah. Now, NO.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I don't drink anymore. So I'm never buzzed or shitfaced.
01/01/2012
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
I've never been drunk, actually. Buzzed, slightly, but if I start to feel at all buzzed, I stop drinking and it's always worn off before I'd be in a position to have a little fun.
01/01/2012
Contributor: chibi1091 chibi1091
I actually don't drink. Alcohol (which is ethanol) is really just poison from a scientific standpoint.
01/08/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by bobowaxer
How often and to what degree is alcohol a factor in your first sexual encounter with a new partner? ( you may select more than one answer)
I never do anything drunk I wouldn't do sober and I generally won't have sex with anyone but my husband if I have been drinking.
01/08/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
My partner and I have had sex twice while under the influence of alcohol. Both times were rather unsatisfactory for both of us, because it just seemed to take FOREVER. It's much more enjoyable to have sex while sober, because then you're actually fully aware of what's going on.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I have never been buzzed nor shitfaced. I simply don't drink.
01/20/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I identify myself as being incredibly promiscuous, and alcohol rarely plays a role in my encounters. I like being sober when I'm in a sexual situation because I can maintain a sense of control in case something goes wrong. I've been buzzed only three or four times when I've had "random encounters" though.
01/27/2012
Contributor: Do-Re-Mi Do-Re-Mi
I'm underage so I don't drink

But if I were of age I wouldn't want to be drunk or even buzzed for the first time with a partner. Even times after the first I don't think I would like to be completely shitfaced, maybe buzzed sometimes but not comepletly out of it.
01/29/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
I don't drink and fuck.
01/29/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
Somewhat buzzed sometimes. It lowers inhibitions.
02/19/2012
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I never have sex with a new person when impaired, it's stupid. With my boyfriend, we have yet to even be buzzed during sex. It'd probably be a flop anyway, as we both take forever to get off, and alcohol would exacerbate the issue.
02/19/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
The last time that happened was with the Love of my Life, many years aqo.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
i don't get drunk unleass I overdose on red tea. then I'm hyper and silly beyond belief.
02/19/2012
Contributor: freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by bobowaxer
How often and to what degree is alcohol a factor in your first sexual encounter with a new partner? ( you may select more than one answer)
SOMETIMES
02/21/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by bobowaxer
How often and to what degree is alcohol a factor in your first sexual encounter with a new partner? ( you may select more than one answer)
Never either. I've been intoxicated but it never led to me sleeping with someone. I've never been drunk to the point where I don't know what I'm doing or I won't remember later. But I was the DD for awhile with a group of friends and I saw how a couple girls acted when they were highly intoxicated and I just didn't want to be that drunk slut at the bar. I had one girl tell me "don't let me go home with anyone" then here she is at the end of the night trying to leave with a guy and I'm telling her to get in my car and she wouldn't listen. Other people making an ass out of themselves made me not drink to that point.
With my current fiance I have never had sex with him drunk. Now he was buzzed one night and to be honest it was a little annoying, lol. I did it just so he would shut up and go to bed. I love him and I don't mind when he drinks but drunks are annoying sometimes. I know I was the few times I have been.
02/27/2012
Contributor: blacklodge blacklodge
Rarely, but I was beyond shit faced when I had sex for the first time with my current boyfriend. It was actually only the 2nd time I'd ever seen him. Ha. It's crazy, but our relationship is about to hit 2 years in April.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Lano4ka Lano4ka
It does impair the judgement on who to sleep with, sadly
02/28/2012
Contributor: Hibangel Hibangel
nope, never
02/29/2012