The New Intimacy

What do you do to get over shyness about telling someone that you're interested in them?

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Contributor: M121212 M121212
I've been struggling for a long time with being able to tell people when I'm interested in them. Just wondering how other folks deal with this kind of shyness.

It's funny because I am a very outgoing person most of the time, but when it comes to showing someone how I really feel for the first time, I get so hesitant & awkward.

Help?
07/30/2011
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Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
it's ok, i totally understand how you feel. it's better to blurt it out, just remember, what's the worst that can happen? let your inhibitions down for a bit and you might have a happy ending
07/30/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
I'm not sure.. I've never been shy about asking people out. :/
07/31/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
the last time i had this problem, i got drunk for the 1st time. i've been dating that guy ever since. i don't really remember what i used to do before that.
07/31/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Like GravyCakes, I've only ever asked a guy out once. I just saw he was very attractive, and asked him to come home with me. It helped a lot that I didn't know him from Adam before that, so there was nothing at stake if he were to reject me, which he did. Next time he saw me, however, he asked me to go home with *him*, since his house was much closer.
08/09/2011