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Contributor: Dawnie Dawnie
I met this girl.. I really liked her. She was so sweet.. shy.. and she seemed lonely, as if no one ever really took the time to talk to her.
I showered her with gifts.. Finally decided to date her, I mean why not?
We've been dating since Feb 15th.. and lately I notice I'm never around.. I don't take the time to try and speak to her, I don't check if shes online.. I don't even realize I'm doing it. Shes just.. not on my mind.

I wish I could make it work but I don't think I can.
Should I stay, and hope I can stop being so cold.. Or just leave and spare her the pain.. ._.
03/15/2012
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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawnie
I met this girl.. I really liked her. She was so sweet.. shy.. and she seemed lonely, as if no one ever really took the time to talk to her.
I showered her with gifts.. Finally decided to date her, I mean why not?
We've been dating since ... more
if you're no longer interested, you're no longer interested. you should never stay with someone due to pity. if you don't want to stay with her, you don't.

you should be in relationship because it's what is best for YOU.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Dawnie Dawnie
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
if you're no longer interested, you're no longer interested. you should never stay with someone due to pity. if you don't want to stay with her, you don't.

you should be in relationship because it's what is best for YOU.
Thanks.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
if you're no longer interested, you're no longer interested. you should never stay with someone due to pity. if you don't want to stay with her, you don't.

you should be in relationship because it's what is best for YOU.
Said very well.

If you're being very cold and not interested anymore, spare the both of you and just leave officially. You can always try to stay friends, but talk about it with her if that's something you want. If she doesn't want to be friends, then just drop it and walk away.
03/15/2012
Contributor: inmytoybox inmytoybox
It sounds as though you are not interested. You can always stay friends. If she doesn't want to be friends, then just let her go.
03/15/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
I know I wouldn't want someone to stay with me if they didn't like/ love me, it would hurt more then being alone.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Dawnie Dawnie
I ended it. We're friends.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Dawnie
I ended it. We're friends.
Good for you recognizing that you were not behaving in a loving manner! So many times I meet people who know their boyfriend/girlfriend is cold and distant only to have the cold one try to explain away their indifference. There is no shame in admitting that you simply aren't interested in the person and wanting to be friends only.
It takes courage and rare self awareness to do the right thing, so Kudos to you!
03/16/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Dawnie
I ended it. We're friends.
Good for you!
08/08/2012