Help with my sex drive

Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
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I don't know what's wrong with me lately. There was a time not so long ago(maybe 2 years even) that i wanted to have sex at every second. Now I never want it. My boyfriend and I don't live together anymore so now it seems like a chore. I want nothing to do with it until we are doing it and then it is fabulous. There is nothing that i would change about our actual sex. After 7 years he can still amaze me and leave me utterly exhausted. Then once I'm dressed and back home, my mind goes right back to thinking that was a waste of time. Is this part of aging? Is it pure laziness? It makes him feel like I don't desire him, but I really don't think that has anything to do with it.

Do I need to add into this that I am mentally unstable? My therapist says I have Borderline disorder with bi-polar tendencies. Maybe that is my problem. I don't have any idea. Can anyone help?
08/13/2012
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Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
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Originally posted by Cinnyree
I don't know what's wrong with me lately. There was a time not so long ago(maybe 2 years even) that i wanted to have sex at every second. Now I never want it. My boyfriend and I don't live together anymore so now it seems like a chore. I ... more
maybe its just that i no longer desire the he
08/16/2012
Contributor: PepperPot PepperPot
There could also be a biological basis for what you're feeling. My libido varies depending on my cycle, but also what I'm eating. For whatever reason, a handful of pumpkin seeds, and 1-2 hours later, I am losing my mind
09/29/2012
Contributor: Cinnyree Cinnyree
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Originally posted by PepperPot
There could also be a biological basis for what you're feeling. My libido varies depending on my cycle, but also what I'm eating. For whatever reason, a handful of pumpkin seeds, and 1-2 hours later, I am losing my mind
nice to know season
10/01/2012