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Men: Most Important: What makes you want to ask a girl out?

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Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
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Today at work we were discussing what physical feature would most likely draw a guys attention to make him ask a girl on a date. I thought it would be a fun poll and I am totally sharing the results with the fellas at work!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Sexy, Shiny Hair
Full, Luscious Lips
Form Fitting Outfit
Beautiful Face
7  (47%)
Bright, Happy Smile
8  (53%)
Total votes: 15
Poll is closed
04/09/2012
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Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
I like a happy girl. That's the most important.
04/09/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
A bright happy smile will make almost any face beautiful. I'm actually not one to fall over traditionally attractive women. If a woman is just so beautiful and hot, it usually turns me off of her.

For me to ask a girl out, she has to be really approachable.
04/10/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
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Originally posted by Peaches2000
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Today at work we were discussing what physical feature would most likely draw a guys attention to make him ask a girl on a date. I thought it would be a fun poll and I am totally sharing the results with the fellas ... more
Bright, Happy Smile
04/10/2012
Contributor: Positwist Positwist
None of the above? I wait for something intriguing to come out of their mouths. Only then will I really check out the goods, but there's no single feature that gets me.
04/10/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
A bright happy smile will make almost any face beautiful. I'm actually not one to fall over traditionally attractive women. If a woman is just so beautiful and hot, it usually turns me off of her.

For me to ask a girl out, she has to be ... more
I'm with JR on this one. We like a pretty face - but the smile is more important - and a great smile creates a great aura.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Jlynn123 Jlynn123
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Originally posted by Positwist
None of the above? I wait for something intriguing to come out of their mouths. Only then will I really check out the goods, but there's no single feature that gets me.
I wish there were more people like you.
In my experience people tend to go for the girls who act dumb.
04/11/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
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Originally posted by spunkmonkey
I like a happy girl. That's the most important.
From a female perspective, nothing is worse than a really pretty girl with a bad attitude and you know it just by being around them for 5 seconds! Great post!
04/12/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
A bright happy smile will make almost any face beautiful. I'm actually not one to fall over traditionally attractive women. If a woman is just so beautiful and hot, it usually turns me off of her.

For me to ask a girl out, she has to be ... more
JR, you have won the hearts of women everywhere!
04/12/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
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Originally posted by Positwist
None of the above? I wait for something intriguing to come out of their mouths. Only then will I really check out the goods, but there's no single feature that gets me.
Awesome post! My brother always says its about confidence without arrogance...If a women believes in the person she is, that is the worlds greatest turn on! Thanks for the unique perspective!
04/12/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I answered beautiful face because I feel like smile goes with the rest of the facial features of a person. I bright smile is definitely a requirement but I'd want someone who I'd be attracted to at all times, even when they aren't bright and smiley.
04/12/2012
Contributor: dragonn dragonn
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Originally posted by Peaches2000
Awesome post! My brother always says its about confidence without arrogance...If a women believes in the person she is, that is the worlds greatest turn on! Thanks for the unique perspective!
Yup! Confidence is key.
04/13/2012
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Peaches2000
JR, you have won the hearts of women everywhere!
Then why am I still single?
04/13/2012
Contributor: The Geek The Geek
Of the options mentioned? The happy smile, the rest is just external stuff. If you want to see if a girl is beautiful or not you've got to have an actual conversation with her. I've met a LOT of pretty faces that turned out to be ugly human beings.
04/16/2012
Contributor: Peaches2000 Peaches2000
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Then why am I still single?
Because it takes a great woman to recognize a really amazing man! It will take a lot for her to be worthy of you
04/21/2012
Contributor: MrGoodTool MrGoodTool
There should be an other, because for me it is a million things. One day it is triggered by a smile, and the next a rice rack (hey, I am honest)
04/21/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Smile and dat ass
04/21/2012
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
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Originally posted by Jlynn123
I wish there were more people like you.
In my experience people tend to go for the girls who act dumb.
i agree
04/22/2012
Contributor: vanilla&chocolate vanilla&chocolate
I like this post, and the results thus far!
04/22/2012