He said I love you within 20 minutes of meeting...not real right??
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justmeb
12/07/2010
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Don't get mad at me, but either it is love at first site (which is rare, but can happen), or he could have some attachment problems. If he had a recent break-up, loss, or recent hurt in his life, he may be trying to reach out and just attach to the first person that opens up to him. It can be very dangerous because if something does happen between you two and it doesn't work out for whatever reason, he can become suicidal, stalkerish, or even become abusive. Although, it could just be he really REALLY likes you. I would just be really cautious around him. See what he's like and talk to his family about him.
Originally posted by
justmeb
He said I love you within 20 minutes of meeting...not real right??
12/07/2010
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OR you're both very young and haven't had much experience with love.
Originally posted by
Throwingawaysoon
Don't get mad at me, but either it is love at first site (which is rare, but can happen), or he could have some attachment problems. If he had a recent break-up, loss, or recent hurt in his life, he may be trying to reach out and just attach to
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Don't get mad at me, but either it is love at first site (which is rare, but can happen), or he could have some attachment problems. If he had a recent break-up, loss, or recent hurt in his life, he may be trying to reach out and just attach to the first person that opens up to him. It can be very dangerous because if something does happen between you two and it doesn't work out for whatever reason, he can become suicidal, stalkerish, or even become abusive. Although, it could just be he really REALLY likes you. I would just be really cautious around him. See what he's like and talk to his family about him.
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12/07/2010
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Yeah, I felt very attached to my current boyfriend though right away... We told each other we loved each other within three days...
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firekitten
OR you're both very young and haven't had much experience with love.
We've been together for over three years, but... it's very rare.
12/07/2010
J said it 2 days after we met (we weren't together) and he still says he knew the moment he saw me. I felt the same way...I even called my Grandmother and told her I had met the man I was going to marry...she said..."great! Now go marry him."
It could be love, or attachment issues, maybe he doesn't know what love is, hell it could even be a line.
It could be love, or attachment issues, maybe he doesn't know what love is, hell it could even be a line.
12/07/2010
its possible but unlikely the real thing.
12/08/2010
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lols
Originally posted by
justmeb
He said I love you within 20 minutes of meeting...not real right??
12/29/2010
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dont think soo
Originally posted by
justmeb
He said I love you within 20 minutes of meeting...not real right??
12/30/2010
I personally wouldn't believe it!
I know instantly whether I'm going to be long-term attracted to someone but that's not love!
Some people (especially guys) like to tell ya what they think you want to hear. Ohhh, how wrong they can be most of the time....
I know instantly whether I'm going to be long-term attracted to someone but that's not love!
Some people (especially guys) like to tell ya what they think you want to hear. Ohhh, how wrong they can be most of the time....
01/01/2011
My ex told me he loved me on the first day and we only knew each other barely a week. He has aspergers and had some major issues and still does.
01/02/2011
I would run! That's me though. Before my husband, men told me left and right they loved me and some did so the first time they met me. It was all lies. Again, this is my experience only.
01/03/2011
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Within ten minutes of seeing me enter a highschool classroom Sigel said he would marry me. I made him dance for four years before I finally said yes...but ya it can happen. Go slow and look for odd behaviour, you never know maybe this is for real!
Originally posted by
justmeb
He said I love you within 20 minutes of meeting...not real right??
01/03/2011
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He doesn't mean it. He couldnt. He probably just wants sex or uses it loosely. Not a lot of people really know what love is.
Originally posted by
justmeb
He said I love you within 20 minutes of meeting...not real right??
01/14/2011
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I don't think so, but maybe...
Originally posted by
justmeb
He said I love you within 20 minutes of meeting...not real right??
12/04/2011
Personally, I believe that love takes time to grow and develop. You can like someone, be interested, feel chemistry as soon as you meet them. But that is not love... yet. It obviously has potential, though.
But I do not believe that a person can love someone they've just met 20 minutes ago. Not truly.
Love is like a rose- it takes time to grow and blossom. Meeting each other is like planting the seed.
But I do not believe that a person can love someone they've just met 20 minutes ago. Not truly.
Love is like a rose- it takes time to grow and blossom. Meeting each other is like planting the seed.
12/04/2011
i wouldnt believe it
02/25/2012
If he does actually mean it, he probably does not fully understand the concept of love. At least not in the same way you do.
02/25/2012
NOOO. FUCK NO
12/24/2012
Noooo
01/03/2013
wow
01/06/2013
I haven't met him....but my instinct would be to walk briskly in the opposite direction.
01/06/2013
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lol. I second this.
Originally posted by
WhoopieDoo
I haven't met him....but my instinct would be to walk briskly in the opposite direction.
01/07/2013
I would say probably not, but what do I know right?
02/16/2013
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