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How long should you wait to have sex while you're dating?

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Contributor: shelovesblackmen shelovesblackmen
how long should you wait to have sex while your dating?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
first night
Rokmai , Slutty Girl Problems
2  (17%)
one month
Tara*
1  (8%)
five dates
shelovesblackmen , Silverwinds , karenm , friendswithfangs , madness132 , konicaguy , yelhsa , imperialyellowdragon , edeneve
9  (75%)
Total votes: 12
Poll is closed
04/19/2013
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Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife and I waited years...but then again we started dating when she was 16.
04/19/2013
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
No other option? I would wait until you had a strong relationship so you don't ruin it with sex.
04/19/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
I didn't vote because I think it depends on the relationship and the people involved. I do not think you can put a number on it. Personally, I feel you should develop a relationship first and build trust. I know people who slept together the first night and it worked out for them and others that waited a month and it went down in flames.
04/20/2013
Contributor: Hentialover Hentialover
Quote:
Originally posted by shelovesblackmen
how long should you wait to have sex while your dating?
I can't vote on this one, because I believe that it's all personal preferences. I wouldn't sleep with someone on the first date unless we really connected, but I'm not apposed to others doing it as long as everyone involved is safe. My advice? Do what your brain is telling you, not just your body.
04/20/2013
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I didn't vote because none of the choices fit my answer. Basically, it depends on you, and it depends on the relationship. I don't tend to have sex with someone until I know that we aren't just casually dating, and that it's a long-term thing, but other than that, it completely depends on the person. Sometimes I've waited upwards of 6 months-1year, with my hubby it was on our first date after we'd met online and texted for a week.
04/20/2013
Contributor: butts butts
No set length of time, you can't generalize life like that Do what feels right for the particular situation. My partner and I were best friends online and we had sex the first day we met, with no regrets. We're still together 4 years later!
04/20/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
It all depends on the people.
04/20/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
However sooner or later you feel comfortable... You can't just put a number on that because it depends on the person and the relationship.
04/20/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I agree with so many who wrote "it depends".
Rules for that kind of thing are just silly, but that's just my opinion.
04/20/2013
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I didn't vote because it depends on the relationship.
04/20/2013
Contributor: Fluke Fluke
Within the first month unless there is a good reason for waiting (why wait, lol)
04/20/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
It depends on the relationship really. I knew my boyfriend really well before we even started dating, since we were good friends, so we didn't wait very long. But if we had started dating without knowing each other at all then I'm sure it would've been longer. But it's different for everyone.
04/25/2013
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
Do it when it feels natural I wouldn't set a certain number of dates.
05/02/2013
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
It's very dependent on how people feel themselves so I wouldn't say there is any set time or number of dates that is best.
05/02/2013
Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
I agree. Everyone is different.
10/21/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
the 3 choices are too limiting. for me, I have to say it's when it feels right.
10/21/2013
Contributor: DirtyAngel7 DirtyAngel7
Quote:
Originally posted by shelovesblackmen
how long should you wait to have sex while your dating?
I say you should wait until you are married.
10/22/2013
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by shelovesblackmen
how long should you wait to have sex while your dating?
long enough to be sure that it is a relationship, not a booty call or one night stand...
10/22/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Shouldn't matter - whatever feels right@!
10/28/2013