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Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
How far into a relationship do you share sexual fantasies? Do you spill on the first date? Wait a few months? Share and discuss!
04/16/2012
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Contributor: catsin catsin
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
How far into a relationship do you share sexual fantasies? Do you spill on the first date? Wait a few months? Share and discuss!
It depends on the person I'm with at the time....

My sexual fantasies can be a bit too intense for some people to hear, so I typically try and form a good bond with them before I bust out the big guns. That way they won't run for the hills thinking I'm super kink, when most of the kink is pure fantasy.

Of course, if they share theirs with me, then I let loose! It's only fair
04/16/2012
Contributor: northstar northstar
It depends on the relationship really, but with the right one, where you have a good sexual chemistry, I'll wait a couple of months, or until we've become close enough to trust eachother (could be sooner or later) and then share. It's fun
04/16/2012
Contributor: nope nope
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
How far into a relationship do you share sexual fantasies? Do you spill on the first date? Wait a few months? Share and discuss!
Hmm I'm not sure

My current relationship came out a friendship where we talked about that sort of stuff so it was natural to do it right away when we got together haha
04/17/2012
Contributor: Raigne Raigne
When I was younger, I had relationships where I never discussed it. Now, I discuss it even with people I'm not in a relationship with fairly often. My current boyfriend knew about them almost a year before we started dating.
04/17/2012
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
In the past, I used to keep fantasys to myself. Now, I try to be as open about my fantasy's right from the start, as they're extremely important to me.
04/17/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Usually after the first few sex sessions, once we've gotten comfortable with being around each other naked.
04/20/2012
Contributor: breebree breebree
All people are different. Depends on how comfortable one makes you feel. Could take weeks or months.
04/21/2012
Contributor: pixxie87 pixxie87
diff people diff opinions
04/22/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
It really depends on the person I'm with. Some I never share with because they are quiet with their sexuality and it would probably be too much for them. Otherwise I usually wait until I am very comfortable with the person where I feel they wouldn't judge me if they felt different about it.
04/22/2012
Contributor: pitona pitona
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
How far into a relationship do you share sexual fantasies? Do you spill on the first date? Wait a few months? Share and discuss!
after a couple months
04/22/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
I don't ever share them.The only time I have is after I fulfill them because they are too kinky.If they ask I usually say I don't have one and if pressed I'll make up something mild.
04/22/2012