luckily i am not going through one right now, but was wondering what some of your techniques are.
all input is appreciated!
all input is appreciated!
how do you get over a breakup?
07/28/2011
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I have a bad habit of jumping into a new relationship right away before I've healed from the old one. I haven't had any single time in a LONG time
07/28/2011
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I was the same way.. I just didn't wanna be single cuz I couldn't stand missing that other half of me. I didn't find my wonderful man tho until I could be ok with just being me, and knowing that God was on my side and had hand picked someone out there for me sure helped me alot!
Originally posted by
Taylor
I have a bad habit of jumping into a new relationship right away before I've healed from the old one. I haven't had any single time in a LONG time
07/28/2011
Had a total breakdown last time, hope it never happens again.
07/29/2011
I spend time doing the things you can when single. You get to hang out with your girlfriends more and have random sex. All games are on enjoy it til the next one comes along. You will meet another person someday when you least expect it.
07/29/2011
I never did get over our break-up and that's why we got back together!
07/29/2011
My last break up I took and did everything but sleep, because I would only dream of her.
07/29/2011
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This seems to be what happens to me as well. I was a total serial dater since I was 16 until I met my (now) husband.
Originally posted by
Taylor
I have a bad habit of jumping into a new relationship right away before I've healed from the old one. I haven't had any single time in a LONG time
07/29/2011
I go get my hair and nails done, make sure I hit the gym daily, and drop sugar from my diet. Works like a charm! Then when he comes sniffing back around I am confident enough to say "Not interested!"
07/29/2011
Only time works for me.
07/31/2011
Good friends, alcohol and wild sex.
07/31/2011
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NICE
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Sex'и'Violence
Good friends, alcohol and wild sex.
07/31/2011
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Originally posted by
Sex'и'Violence
Good friends, alcohol and wild sex.
07/31/2011
Well. i usually get over breakups quickly, and rely on my cats to help me get over it. (:
08/01/2011
I'm at the tail end of getting over a bad one still, and I just keep myself going 24/7. I work, go out with friends, go to the gym, etc. I don't leave myself with down time to mope or focus on it. I also go to therapy for bigger breakups just to figure out the best way to put the situation behind me and make sure I don't make the same mistakes next time.
08/01/2011
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sounds super healthy. keep at it tori!
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Tori Rebel
I'm at the tail end of getting over a bad one still, and I just keep myself going 24/7. I work, go out with friends, go to the gym, etc. I don't leave myself with down time to mope or focus on it. I also go to therapy for bigger breakups
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I'm at the tail end of getting over a bad one still, and I just keep myself going 24/7. I work, go out with friends, go to the gym, etc. I don't leave myself with down time to mope or focus on it. I also go to therapy for bigger breakups just to figure out the best way to put the situation behind me and make sure I don't make the same mistakes next time.
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08/02/2011
Some, you just never do fully get over.
08/02/2011
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I cut or dye my hair
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
luckily i am not going through one right now, but was wondering what some of your techniques are.
all input is appreciated!
all input is appreciated!
08/02/2011
I keep myself busy and try to find myself again and get back to old friends
08/08/2011
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my last break up, i was in love, and was affraid, so i went to another guy, and ended up regretting it huge, and went to drinking like crazy to try and forget!! wish i wasn't afraid of love =/
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
luckily i am not going through one right now, but was wondering what some of your techniques are.
all input is appreciated!
all input is appreciated!
08/21/2011
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I would like a brochure or pamphlet as well.
Originally posted by
Sex'и'Violence
Good friends, alcohol and wild sex.
09/06/2011
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dude, i totally feel you.
Originally posted by
TheSlyFox
Well. i usually get over breakups quickly, and rely on my cats to help me get over it. (:
02/20/2012
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yikes, i'm so sorry. i hope it never happens again too. knowing that all things are impermanent can help through hard times. good or bad, nothing lasts.
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bayosgirl
Had a total breakdown last time, hope it never happens again.
02/20/2012
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i understand completely.
Originally posted by
frisky069
my last break up, i was in love, and was affraid, so i went to another guy, and ended up regretting it huge, and went to drinking like crazy to try and forget!! wish i wasn't afraid of love =/
it appears i too am afraid.
02/20/2012
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spend time restoring my individual sel
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
luckily i am not going through one right now, but was wondering what some of your techniques are.
all input is appreciated!
all input is appreciated!
02/21/2012
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Basically I do everything except get revenge. lol.
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
luckily i am not going through one right now, but was wondering what some of your techniques are.
all input is appreciated!
all input is appreciated!
06/01/2012
The only thing that really helps is time, I think, so I just try to stay busy until the pain starts to fade...
06/01/2012
just bounce back
06/11/2012
i surround myself with friend and family
06/11/2012
I'd do a combination of a few of these things. Personally, I was only broken up with once, I usually break up with the person. Regardless of who-dumped-who, break-ups HURT. Getting over a breakup, I usually don't talk to that person or their friends for a while (even if we agree to just be friends, it takes me a little while (a few weeks tops) to get over seeing them as my partner/ex and start seeing them as a friend) to give myself and them time to calm down. I focus on myself, my life, any aspirations I had neglected during the relationship.
Currently, I'm in what was supposed to be a long-term-relationship with a man ten years older than I am, and we rushed into the relationship. I moved in, we got engaged, he was talking about adopting my son. I'm going to visit my mother (15+ hours away) for a month, and potentially moving to the area she's in, because I feel there are a lot of things I have to do in my life before I can settle down like this. I don't know if it's going to be a break-up yet or being put on hold or what, but if we do break up I'll be surrounding myself with all the things I need to get done in my life (potentially college, getting a license, getting some work experience, etc.)
Currently, I'm in what was supposed to be a long-term-relationship with a man ten years older than I am, and we rushed into the relationship. I moved in, we got engaged, he was talking about adopting my son. I'm going to visit my mother (15+ hours away) for a month, and potentially moving to the area she's in, because I feel there are a lot of things I have to do in my life before I can settle down like this. I don't know if it's going to be a break-up yet or being put on hold or what, but if we do break up I'll be surrounding myself with all the things I need to get done in my life (potentially college, getting a license, getting some work experience, etc.)
06/11/2012
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