I will take it one step further. Anyone ever actually do that, then in later years found they would try (and maybe even enjoyed) the activity that this original lover they broke up with wanted to indulge in?
Have you ever quit dating someone because of the specific things they wanted to do in bed, that you were not interested in trying?
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I haven't so far, but I think I would if I felt like we were too incompatible in bed. If they were very insistent that I try something that I didn't want to and they wouldn't let it go, it might become a big enough issue in the relationship to end it. It really just depends I guess.
09/01/2013
Yes. I was dating a guy really into bondage and stuff. I don't mind soft bondage, but when he started taking a knife into bed and couldn't get off without me being tied up it was too much for me.
09/01/2013
In answer to your question, no, however there are activities that I'm aware of, that had a person I was dating asked for them I would have swiftly shown them the door.
09/01/2013
I haven't had that situation come up, but I would say that there are activities I would consider breaking up over.
09/01/2013
There was one guy who liked to sit naked on all manner of furniture and he would constantly fiddle with his penis like it was a yo-yo or something. Drove me absolutely insane that he wouldn't leave it alone for two seconds!
09/04/2013
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Agreed.
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Taylor
I haven't so far, but I think I would if I felt like we were too incompatible in bed. If they were very insistent that I try something that I didn't want to and they wouldn't let it go, it might become a big enough issue in the
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I haven't so far, but I think I would if I felt like we were too incompatible in bed. If they were very insistent that I try something that I didn't want to and they wouldn't let it go, it might become a big enough issue in the relationship to end it. It really just depends I guess.
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Relationships are about compromise, but if there is something you are seriously uncomfortable with and don't want to do, you shouldn't compromise on that. Especially in a sexual situation.
You should never feel pressured.
09/04/2013
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Wow, I am relieved hearing you got out of that unscathed! I don't think there is anyone I trust enough to be tied up & fully helpless, let alone if they feel the need for a knife, too!
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Sincerely yours, N
Yes. I was dating a guy really into bondage and stuff. I don't mind soft bondage, but when he started taking a knife into bed and couldn't get off without me being tied up it was too much for me.
09/04/2013
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Yeah... it was kind of crazy. Strangely enough, the guy and I stayed friends after the breakup (I would have thought that out of all of them he'd be the one I avoided...) but yeah. I'm glad I got out of there.
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Wicked Wahine
Wow, I am relieved hearing you got out of that unscathed! I don't think there is anyone I trust enough to be tied up & fully helpless, let alone if they feel the need for a knife, too!
09/04/2013
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oh I see why you would stop dating him
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Sincerely yours, N
Yes. I was dating a guy really into bondage and stuff. I don't mind soft bondage, but when he started taking a knife into bed and couldn't get off without me being tied up it was too much for me.
09/04/2013
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good for you
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Petite Valentine
In answer to your question, no, however there are activities that I'm aware of, that had a person I was dating asked for them I would have swiftly shown them the door.
09/04/2013
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I do know someone that I would trust with a knife
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Wicked Wahine
Wow, I am relieved hearing you got out of that unscathed! I don't think there is anyone I trust enough to be tied up & fully helpless, let alone if they feel the need for a knife, too!
09/04/2013
I haven't, but my man broke up with a girl because she didn't like giving oral...good thing I have nothing to worry about in that category.
09/28/2013
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