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Would you ever give up your sex toys? Or hide them?

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Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
If you were dating someone and they didn't like your use of toys (together or not) would you give them up? Or try to convince them they're okay? Or even cut down on how many you have? Just curious what people that have toys would do when they first get serious with someone if this happened
05/01/2011
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Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
I'd give up the person I'm dating, not my toys. If they can't accept a certain part of me (I'm not even going to admit how large that part is), they aren't good news. What other parts of me would they want to change?

My partner isn't entirely accepting of them (as in, actively wanting to use them during sex), but he isn't going to say that I should get rid of them. I'm okay with this.
05/01/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Hell no I'd never give up my toys!
05/01/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I'd never give up my toys OR date someone with that sort of hang up.
05/01/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
If he didn't like using them together I'd be fine with that. But if he said not at all I'd have a problem with it. I can't get off alone without toys and we'd have to figure out a compromise cause I wouldn't get rid of them entirely.
05/01/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
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Originally posted by salaciousrex
If you were dating someone and they didn't like your use of toys (together or not) would you give them up? Or try to convince them they're okay? Or even cut down on how many you have? Just curious what people that have toys would do when they ... more
i would either sit down & talk to them to find out y they don't like me using them, make sure i understand what they're saying, then reassure them, or tell them how i feel or how that makes me feel. if they still feel that way in the end, i'd just tell them to get over it.
05/05/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by salaciousrex
If you were dating someone and they didn't like your use of toys (together or not) would you give them up? Or try to convince them they're okay? Or even cut down on how many you have? Just curious what people that have toys would do when they ... more
I would try to ease them into toys and if I couldnt I would keep them anyway and get rid of that person. If they are that insecure about something with batteries can you imagine how they would be down the line about other things.
05/05/2011
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I'd never give up my toys OR date someone with that sort of hang up.
That.
05/05/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
There is a poll and thread about this somewhere. I couldn't find it, though. If the person I'm with loves me and wants me to be happy they wouldn't ask me to give up any sex toys.
05/05/2011
Contributor: AOutrajus AOutrajus
i'd hide them...im not gunna spend money just to throw it away.
05/05/2011