Get mad or not

Contributor: Choolz Choolz
I wouldn't get mad at all.
The fact that the 'friend' called to try and make you mad is what would have irritated me, not much of a friend I think.
01/25/2011
Contributor: BadgersRose BadgersRose
No it wouldn't make me mad. He's the kinda guy that would suggest we go buy her a flower to make her feel better.



I would be more upset with my friend thinking anything more of it and feeling the need to tattletale.
04/03/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
No, not at all. I would actually be happy that he was trying to boost his friend's confidence.
04/04/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
nope
04/05/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
It wouldnt bother me
04/07/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
I think it'd depend.

If I wasn't suspicious, they weren't being 'weird' together, he wasn't mentioning her all the time to me in an annoying way... Then no, I wouldn't be mad.

I'd be more annoyed at her for expecting me to be upset.
04/07/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
It depends on whether or not the compliment is intended to just boost confidence or not. You can definitely tell a person they look hot without aiming to get into bed with them.

And your friend sound like someone who's out to start drama.
04/07/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
No big deal. How ridiculous of her to call you. I'd separate myself from a person like that, just looking to stir up trouble.
04/07/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
No, i tell some the girls i know that they look hot and things like that but my girl doesnt care cuz she knows they are just friends.
04/07/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
I most likely wouldn't get mad, but it would depend on who the girl was and if I knew her.
04/09/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Of course not, he was just being a super nice guy!
04/09/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Of course not, he was just being a super nice guy!
04/09/2011
Contributor: KennyMister KennyMister
Probley but im a over protective jealous asshole =p
04/09/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
Nope definitely not
04/15/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
It would not bother me at all that he said that. What would bother me is the intention that my friend had in telling me, since she expected me to get mad and was surprised that I didn't. That would make me wonder if she was trying to create ... more
I agree. Why would she call you to tell you that unless she was trying to start trouble?
04/15/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Ok, as bad as I hate to admit it, I would get my feelings hurt. Call me insecure, but that stuff bothers me. I know, it's crazy! I just have this thing about it. I don't really get too jealous over others, I'm not jealous of other pretty people (usually) but I'm a really loving person and just have that thing about being "the one and only!" I know it sounds terrrible, but I'm being honest. The thing about is, I don't have to worry about those things because my partner is really loving and thankfully he does think the world of me (for some reason.) I'm sure the whole thing stems from some deeper problems that have caused real insecurity, but since he understands, I don't have to worry about it. Also, a good thing about it is that even when we first got together, he never really gawked at other females or made a lot of effort to flirt with them or anything. He's always very kind and respectful to women which is one thing I love, but he keeps it at a minimum and I'm grateful for that.

He had girl-friends when we first got together and it never did/still don't bother me because he never made me feel uncomfortable or left out. He's usually pretty focused on me so I don't mind that he talks to women or anything like that, but I wouldn't want him thinking lustfully of them.
04/16/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
Would it offend you if your partner told a friend they were good looking and fun to boost their confidence after they have had a rough few dates and experiences with dating?

My man did this and the girl called telling me about it expecting me ... more
unless you have a reason not to trust your partner, there's really no reason to get mad. they were just helping a friend feel better.
05/03/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
Would it offend you if your partner told a friend they were good looking and fun to boost their confidence after they have had a rough few dates and experiences with dating?

My man did this and the girl called telling me about it expecting me ... more
it really depends
08/02/2011
Contributor: N&M N&M
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
Would it offend you if your partner told a friend they were good looking and fun to boost their confidence after they have had a rough few dates and experiences with dating?

My man did this and the girl called telling me about it expecting me ... more
Not if it was an innocent and sincere comment.
08/03/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
If you knew it was harmless, why would you get mad?
08/08/2011
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
I'd have to be looney toons to get jealous over that
08/08/2011
Contributor: v23 v23
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Nope. But that girl is trouble.
Agreed.
08/08/2011
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by guard083
Would it offend you if your partner told a friend they were good looking and fun to boost their confidence after they have had a rough few dates and experiences with dating?

My man did this and the girl called telling me about it expecting me ... more
no, i wouldn't care! he's with me, not her, nothing to worry about
08/21/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
It would probably depend on who the girl was..
09/03/2011
Contributor: systematicweasel systematicweasel
It wouldn't bother me
09/03/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
if he meant it as a self esteem booster, i think that's really caring and sweet. if he was trying to actually flirt with her (which it doesn't sound like at all) then i would get mad.
09/17/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Personally, it would depend on how it was said. But most likely, it wouldn't bother me that much.
09/17/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
I would not be upset that he said this, however I would be upset that he does not say things like this to me. And now he is telling someone he is not in relationship with. Haha I would be mad!
09/20/2011
Contributor: EvilHomer EvilHomer
As long as you know that was his motive, I see no reason to be mad.
09/20/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
We're both shameless flirts anyway, so nope.

On the other hand, I'd question the chick's motives in calling you.
09/20/2011