Just wondering what the norm is for all of you who have friends with benefits. Do you cuddle or is it strictly sex and then on your way you go?
Fuckbuddies: Do you cuddle?
06/01/2011
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I think if I had a friend with benefits and we had time to kill after a session, I'd at least lie there with them for a bit. Maybe some casual talking. Not so much snuggly-cuddling, though. But I haven't tried yet, so I'm unsure.
06/01/2011
We might sit/lay there for a few minutes and talk, but never cuddled. We were rarely even touching afterwards. Just waiting to catch our breath before getting up.
06/01/2011
Sometimes... it depends. Like if we are going straight to bed right after then we usually cuddle. However, in the middle of the day that's not usually the case.
06/01/2011
I haven't had one in a while, but yes I cuddle. Of course, I also enjoy cuddling with my friends who are not my fuck buddies.
06/01/2011
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Usually they'd be a friend so of course we'd cuddle.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Just wondering what the norm is for all of you who have friends with benefits. Do you cuddle or is it strictly sex and then on your way you go?
06/03/2011
when my bf was just my friend w/ benefits, we used to cuddle all the time b/c we loved the physical contact.
06/08/2011
Interesting results!
06/09/2011
One of my fuck buddies was available for no strings cuddling, too. It's nice to have friends you can be needy with.
06/10/2011
I don't have a F-buddy. My partner and I have been together for 5 years. We sometimes cuddle for a minute or two. It doesn't bother me if we don't cuddle every time.
06/12/2011
all the time
06/13/2011
Cuddling goes into a zone that I wouldn't want to go into with a strict sex partner. I do not really have fuck buddies anyway, I prefer to have an actual relationship with someone.
06/13/2011
I cuddle with everyone--friends (benefits or not) and my partners. I'm just in love with cuddling!!!
06/22/2011
No cuddling!! Its sex and then Im out. If you let it become more than just sex, you are gonna get feelings involved and then you gotta decide where you want things to go... Ugghh...
On a side note, my bf isnt much of a cuddler so I wonder if he would make a good FWBs, if we ever split up. hee hee
On a side note, my bf isnt much of a cuddler so I wonder if he would make a good FWBs, if we ever split up. hee hee
06/23/2011
I have a steady partner now and so no longer indulge in having friends with benefits. However when I did, I loved cuddling with that partner.
06/23/2011
I usually like to have a more intimate relationship with even fuck buddies.
06/24/2011
have had f-buddy without the cuddling an intimacy and ones cuddled with.
06/27/2011
I'm in a relationship now, but when I had my "drama free friend" (that's what we called each other) we cuddled sometimes..only when we were drunk, lol
07/05/2011
I have been in a long term relationship for a while, but when I did have casual sex yes I did cuddle too. I think I liked the cuddling more than sex actually.
07/05/2011
Cuddle, then they go home..
07/05/2011
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thats pretty much what we do as well
Originally posted by
MJ1337
Cuddle, then they go home..
07/06/2011
The one and only time I ever had a successful fuckbuddy we were very big on cuddling. We were very close and it felt normal. Sex, snuggling but no jealousy about other people. It was really, really good.
07/06/2011
I always love to cuddle!
07/28/2011
yes
07/28/2011
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It was a long time ago, but I did have one of those, BEFORE marriage...and yes, we cuddled. We were really FRIENDS. We held hands, had meals together...etc. There was just not romance and the sex was, well, release for us both. We even helped set each other up with dates!!!! Real friends.
Originally posted by
LavenderSkies
Just wondering what the norm is for all of you who have friends with benefits. Do you cuddle or is it strictly sex and then on your way you go?
07/28/2011
The few fuck buddies that i have had were all good friends of mine so afterwards we would cuddle sometime they would stay at each other house or we would leave a few hours after it just depended on the day
07/28/2011
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