For the men to answer....

I'm a female who doesn't identify with the gender binaries. I often find myself in friendly relationships with men that quickly become an obvious bait and switch scenario where they're aiming for a catch.

I'm wondering how I go about making friends with guys while making it clear that I don't appreciate being prey to their game. I absolutely despise losing good guy friends over their resilience towards convincing me in their bed; to the point where I've changed my hair and dress so that they just aren't as easily aroused.

Thanks!!