So, I recently reconnected with an old friend from college. We flirted back in the day and skirted around the subject of stuff happenning between us. But because the organization we were in was famous for bad public break ups, we decided not to pursue it any further. Now that we're completely out of that environment, we're free to explore whatever it is we have. I'm just not sure if I should. Every relationship that I have pursued has left me in tears and wondering why I even bother. I'm really having fun with him and I like him. I just don't want the sex to be a pre-cursor to a label, because once that label is slapped on it never seems to work out for me. Is it a smart idea to have sex with him, or should I wait to see what it is exactly he wants from me? Any imput would be greatly appreciated
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01/29/2010
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01/29/2010
I think if you're in doubt, wait. I'm just a cautious person and feel that if something doesn't seem right, I'd rather wait than regret it later. You'll just *know* when the time is right.
01/29/2010
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Thanks. And actually, I did end up having sex with him, twice. But the situation is good. We're going to see each other on a regular basis. I'm not going to worry about labels or anything of the sort. We're having fun and in time we shall see where this will go or won't go. And I've never regretted anything I've done. Sure, some things may have not been a good idea, but I've learned from them. What's life without learning? Anyhoot, if this doesn't result in something serious I'll be fine. At least the sex is fabulous
Originally posted by
Envy
I think if you're in doubt, wait. I'm just a cautious person and feel that if something doesn't seem right, I'd rather wait than regret it later. You'll just *know* when the time is right.
02/05/2010
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Just smile and have fun, and if you end up crying chalk it up to another learning experience. I hope it all works out for you
Originally posted by
missmandy27
Thanks. And actually, I did end up having sex with him, twice. But the situation is good. We're going to see each other on a regular basis. I'm not going to worry about labels or anything of the sort. We're having fun and in time we shall
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Thanks. And actually, I did end up having sex with him, twice. But the situation is good. We're going to see each other on a regular basis. I'm not going to worry about labels or anything of the sort. We're having fun and in time we shall see where this will go or won't go. And I've never regretted anything I've done. Sure, some things may have not been a good idea, but I've learned from them. What's life without learning? Anyhoot, if this doesn't result in something serious I'll be fine. At least the sex is fabulous
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02/05/2010
Update for y'all...
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that he's sober, he has really grown up and even has an endearing side. He's even accepted the crazy family situations I have going on right now. He's been a sound mind through it all, which i really didn't expect, but am very greatful for. Here's to hoping for the best!
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that he's sober, he has really grown up and even has an endearing side. He's even accepted the crazy family situations I have going on right now. He's been a sound mind through it all, which i really didn't expect, but am very greatful for. Here's to hoping for the best!
03/28/2010
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That's great! Best of luck to you two
Originally posted by
missmandy27
Update for y'all...
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that ... more
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that ... more
Update for y'all...
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that he's sober, he has really grown up and even has an endearing side. He's even accepted the crazy family situations I have going on right now. He's been a sound mind through it all, which i really didn't expect, but am very greatful for. Here's to hoping for the best! less
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that he's sober, he has really grown up and even has an endearing side. He's even accepted the crazy family situations I have going on right now. He's been a sound mind through it all, which i really didn't expect, but am very greatful for. Here's to hoping for the best! less
03/28/2010
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Good luck! I hope everything works out well
Originally posted by
missmandy27
Update for y'all...
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that ... more
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that ... more
Update for y'all...
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that he's sober, he has really grown up and even has an endearing side. He's even accepted the crazy family situations I have going on right now. He's been a sound mind through it all, which i really didn't expect, but am very greatful for. Here's to hoping for the best! less
We're officially a couple now. It's going great. We haven't had a disagreement yet, which our friends are very surprised at. lol I'm seeing a different side to him than I had seen before. Now that he's sober, he has really grown up and even has an endearing side. He's even accepted the crazy family situations I have going on right now. He's been a sound mind through it all, which i really didn't expect, but am very greatful for. Here's to hoping for the best! less
03/28/2010
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I completely agree with this.
Originally posted by
Envy
I think if you're in doubt, wait. I'm just a cautious person and feel that if something doesn't seem right, I'd rather wait than regret it later. You'll just *know* when the time is right.
08/12/2010
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