Do bartenders always make terrible boyfriends? - from Em and Lo

Contributor: Em & Lo Em & Lo
A reader asked for our advice this week on a bartender she is "seeing" aka sleeping with. She wanted to know if she had screwed things up by sleeping with him the first time they went out. And our answer had much more to do with his job than the sex. In our experience, bartenders make excellent booty calls and terrible boyfriends. But is that unfair? And are there any other jobs that make someone better or worse qualified to be a boyfriend... or a booty call?
09/15/2010
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Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Em & Lo
A reader asked for our advice this week on a bartender she is "seeing" aka sleeping with. She wanted to know if she had screwed things up by sleeping with him the first time they went out. And our answer had much more to do with his job ... more
I don't think it's ever fair to judge someone based on their profession.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Harlequin Harlequin
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Originally posted by Em & Lo
A reader asked for our advice this week on a bartender she is "seeing" aka sleeping with. She wanted to know if she had screwed things up by sleeping with him the first time they went out. And our answer had much more to do with his job ... more
cant say for sure because each person is different but it would SEEM like a bartender for a bf would be bad news because you never know who hes going to meet and be flirting with all night. thats how they make their tips!
12/10/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
The crazy hours might be an issue for some, but I'm sure there are plenty of quality guys that are bartenders. As previously stated, I don't think you can judge a person just based on profession. Also, you're assuming every bar is the same. Not every bar is a seedy college bar with half naked teenage girls as patrons. We frequent some very nice upscale pubs and such where the barkeeps are equally as classy.
12/10/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Alicia
I don't think it's ever fair to judge someone based on their profession.
I agree..
12/10/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
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Originally posted by Alicia
I don't think it's ever fair to judge someone based on their profession.
so true. thank you for saying that.
12/11/2010