Have you used dating sites to find "love"?

Contributor: Ghost Ghost
And if so, do you consider yourself successful? Success may be measured by any outcome that made you happy that you chose to use a dating site to find a partner.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes
gingernicole , CoffeeCup , redstarr681 , Shellz31 , padmeamidala , Elaira , Adriana Ravenlust , MN58 , MirelleDion , Nissa Nissa , bayosgirl , Caprieclipse , Airekah , John Moore , sarki , Ghost , CamelliaGirl , DeliciousSurprise , pixxie87 , Defiledpixxy , Girly Girl , GONE! , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , Brandonn , Phallos , TheHardOne , Femme Mystique , FemmeFlo , Sohotdinosaur , Hibangel , Rosen Rot
31
No
Waterfall , DexterStratton , melissa1973 , ToyBoy , tickle me pink , darthkitt3n , Enci , Acorn , P'Gell , liilii080 , Bunnycups , married with children , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Envy , ss143 , Rossie , The Curious Couple , onehotmomma , Hanna , Reyes , Maeby , Jackol , Orion , v23 , Lady Marmelade , Lucky21 , EdenG , Dear Ruby , guard083 , LavenderSkies , Breas , julia. , authorzero , EastCoast36 , Bignuf , Stinkytofu10 , Ansley , ksparkles16 , KyotoAngel , mpfm , Form 7 , Katelyn , RavenWings , EnChAnTiNg , Lano4ka , Lummox , oneeyedoctopus , Azule , potstickers , Beautiful-Disaster , Ouroborean , Isola , Incendiaire , Bethy Cassatt , sexxxkitten , hhh , FallFire , hem
58
... and I enjoyed success!
CoffeeCup , Elaira , Adriana Ravenlust , MN58 , MirelleDion , Airekah , John Moore , Ghost , Ahatmadeofshoes12 , Brandonn , Femme Mystique , Hibangel
12
... and I failed...
gingernicole , Shellz31 , padmeamidala , Adriana Ravenlust , bayosgirl , John Moore , sarki , CamelliaGirl , DeliciousSurprise , EeyoreDoll , GONE! , Phallos , Sohotdinosaur , Hibangel , Rosen Rot
15
Total votes: 116 (90 voters)
Poll is closed
06/27/2011
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Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I have not used a dating site. I have browsed through one just to see how they worked and how they were set up.
06/27/2011
Contributor: DexterStratton DexterStratton
My brother tried it, and married the girl, which lasted for about a year. He's still trying it. Go figure.
06/27/2011
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I was only on one for a hook up LOL and so was he. We've been fooling arouind for going over 2 years now and see no end of the great times.
06/27/2011
Contributor: gingernicole gingernicole
Quote:
Originally posted by Ghost
And if so, do you consider yourself successful? Success may be measured by any outcome that made you happy that you chose to use a dating site to find a partner.
I've been on match.com for about 3 months and haven't found anyone worth meeting in person.
06/27/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
No, school is the best dating site out there.
06/27/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I met my husband online, though it wasn't through a dating site. We started out as friends and just clicked.
06/27/2011
Contributor: Acorn Acorn
I haven't used one but I do know one couple who got married after meeting on one.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
This is going to sound horrid, but I only found dropkicks on dating sites. I'm looking for classier guys than what I found there.
06/28/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I have not. I was dating before these were popular or even available.

One of my best friends used Match.com and found the man she married. They've been together for years, and have a toddler. They are very happy.

My mom also found her second husband from a dating service, but I don't think it was a computer site. She married the man and they were in love. He died a few years ago. (she likes older men, like I do) They were happy for many years, though. (It didn't stop her from nearly nagging the man to death though. Some people never learn.) I got a brother and a sister out of the deal.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I think I might have ...
06/28/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I used a dating site to find a date and meet new people but I didn't expect to find love and I didn't. That felt like a lot of pressure to put on myself.
06/28/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
No, I haven't resorted to dating sites. I do know a couple who met on one and it was just a bad match. I know another couple who met on the same site and got married.
06/28/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
I never have, but I know friends who have and had luck with the dating sites.
06/29/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Okcupid.com has always been a hit for me. I met my current boyfriend on there.
06/29/2011
Contributor: Elaira Elaira
Quote:
Originally posted by gingernicole
I've been on match.com for about 3 months and haven't found anyone worth meeting in person.
Try Okcupid.com! It's free!
06/29/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
Nope, and I don't plan on using them either. I don't trust them to be honest.
06/29/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I joined a few earlier this year. It's definitely trial and error, just like meeting people the old fashioned way. I've made some good friends though
06/29/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've never joined an online dating site. I've never wanted to.
07/04/2011
Contributor: onehotmomma onehotmomma
Never tried an actual dating site. With my current bf (of 6 years now!) we met and weren't "officially" dating when he moved 5 hours away. We were best friends though, and kept in touch mostly online, and we began dating then.
07/05/2011
Contributor: Maeby Maeby
I've never used one, but I've had friends who have with varying success (one found only jerks, one ended up marrying someone she met on the site).
07/05/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Yes, and it was a horrible relationship. I vowed not to use them again and met my husband IRL (through work.)
07/27/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
currently on okcupid.com and its seems pretty good!
07/28/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I've been on a dating site but not to "find love", per say. More for amusement, which it has provided.
07/28/2011
Contributor: v23 v23
I've never used one. I know a few people who have and are happy with the outcome
though.
07/28/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
Quote:
Originally posted by Ghost
And if so, do you consider yourself successful? Success may be measured by any outcome that made you happy that you chose to use a dating site to find a partner.
I have used a few of them. By far, my favorite free site has been OKCupid. However, it is much like any situation that you come across, sometimes you win big and sometimes you go home with a big tub of ice cream and your sad face on. I just recently, actually, met someone who I am very interested in, and who I think is very interested in me. I have had a lot of misses though.
07/28/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Tried and failed
08/06/2011
Contributor: EdenG EdenG
Quote:
Originally posted by Ghost
And if so, do you consider yourself successful? Success may be measured by any outcome that made you happy that you chose to use a dating site to find a partner.
No, but I once had to go to a dating site for a class and record statistics about what people find important in a potential mate, such as height and hair color....which were pretty specific needs for a lot of people!
08/07/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I've looked at the pictures and profiles on a couple without really telling much about myself or posting a picture. Just scoping it out. Curious you might say. Maybe one day...
08/07/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Never tried it, but almost kind of considering it. I have a handful of friends who've had success (and a lot of failures) on OkCupid. Still, the general idea of meeting someone for the express purpose of trying to wiggle into a relationship just seems to cheapen the idea of attachment for me. Meeting people for sex - that's just efficiency.
08/07/2011