Is it odd if a couple isn't friends on social websites? For example Facebook?
                    
                    
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                    10/22/2012
                
				
				
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                        I think so...maybe I'm just all codependent like that.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I don't think it is either odd or not odd.  It may be that the couple more or less live separate lives except for when they are physically together, or that they just have different circles of friends.  Or, they may find it unnecessary.
That being said, when my husband had a facebook account, we were facebook friends. I guess it depends on the couple. Personally, I'd be suspicious if my spouse didn't want me to see their facebook page.
                        
                        That being said, when my husband had a facebook account, we were facebook friends. I guess it depends on the couple. Personally, I'd be suspicious if my spouse didn't want me to see their facebook page.
10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I don't think it's odd, that could be their one venting outlet.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        If my spouse had one and did not add me to it I would find it a little odd. In a way I am glad he is not on any network sites. I don't have to stress about anything.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Yes
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        yes but if its something like they don't have one or only use it once a month its not that big of a deal.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I think it is a little weird. Depends on what the reason is though.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        It could be but it's not something I think about. They may have a reason for doing it that way.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I don't see why you wouldn't be.  If you're in a long-term relationship, then why would you not be friends?  I'd be suspicious if my partner/spouse didn't want to share social media.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I don't like it. I want to usually talk to one person out of the two, not them both.
                        
                        
                        10/22/2012
			        
			        
                
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                        His crazy ex would constantly go through his and question him on stuff. He just thinks that it makes for problems. Idk it pisses me off. I'm insecure like that I guess.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            ShadowedSeductress
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            I think it is a little weird. Depends on what the reason is though.
                                        
                                    10/23/2012
			        
			        
                
                        If both are on the site and aren't friends, then yeah, there's something a little odd about that (although there might be good reasons in some cases, I suppose). If one or the other person (or both) isn't on any social networking sites though, that's obviously a not-so-weird explanation (beyond the weirdness of not doing social networking these days).
                        
                        
                        10/23/2012
			        
			        
                
                        A bit odd.  My wife and I were facebook friends before we started dating.
                        
                        
                        10/23/2012
			        
			        
                
                        We don't do social network sites like FB or Twitter... but there are a few sites where we are both members.  We're friends on all those that have a friending option.
                        
                        
                        10/23/2012
			        
			        
                
                        Well the one time I wasn't friends with the guy I dated on Facebook, he cheated on me...and I found out because he had ANOTHER girlfriend according to facebook 
                        
                        
                        10/24/2012
			        
			        
                
                        We both have FB accounts and it simply never occurred to us to friend each other.  We only became FB friends after several people asked us why we weren't friends.
                        
                        
                        10/26/2012
			        
			        
                
                        I think it would be a little strange.
                        
                        
                        10/26/2012
			        
			        
                
                        i think so lol
                        
                        
                        12/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        An actual couple, yes. It would be very strange. F-Buddies etc, prob not so much.
                        
                        
                        12/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        It definitely is
                        
                        
                        12/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        seems shifty
                        
                        
                        12/08/2012
			        
			        
                
                        since all of my online stuff is connected to my blog, eden, and other things of sexual nature, i would have no issue with an SO not being linked to me. it's just not always appropriate cuz of fam, etc. i also think it's fine if someone wants some privacy online.
                        
                        
                        12/10/2012
			        
			        
                
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                                        Originally posted by 
                                            CaliGirl
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Is it odd if a couple isn't friends on social websites? For example Facebook?
                                        
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