I feel like I am always fighting with my boyfriend's friend for competition. Nobody likes this friend of his, he doesn't have a job, a car, and has a kid and constantly is bugging us and wants to always stay the night. We constantly have to give him rides everywhere because he has no way of getting around and lives in the country so if he comes to town from a ride from his mom it's hard for him to get back home unless we take him so my boyfriend lets him stay the night at our apartment all of the time and I don't like it at all. This friend of his is the only reason my boyfriend and I fight and I don't know what to do about it but I'm tired of his friend always staying the night and causing problems. What can I do about this? Help!
Competition help!
Stephanie Majors
12/23/2011
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explain to your bf that even though they are friends he is a grown up man and will never try to get anywheres if he has others doing things for him.including attempting to get a car..because he doesnt need one if he has no problem getting rides so your bf is enabling him.to be honest it sounds like hes being taken advantage of but dont tell your bf that because more than likely it will cause another fight as he probably thinks your just jealous of the friend.so tell him to stop feeling bad and enabling and tell the friend NO for his own good!~hopefully this helps..if not then you need to just be straight out and say its your apt. to and you dont want him there!but DONT make him "choose" between the 2 of you,or seem like your jealous,or talk about how no one likes him to your bf because it will just cause more problems between the 2 of you.if theyve been friends longer than hes been with you then he might be sticking to the stupid saying"bros b4 hos".~good luck~
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Stephanie Majors
I feel like I am always fighting with my boyfriend's friend for competition. Nobody likes this friend of his, he doesn't have a job, a car, and has a kid and constantly is bugging us and wants to always stay the night. We constantly have to
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I feel like I am always fighting with my boyfriend's friend for competition. Nobody likes this friend of his, he doesn't have a job, a car, and has a kid and constantly is bugging us and wants to always stay the night. We constantly have to give him rides everywhere because he has no way of getting around and lives in the country so if he comes to town from a ride from his mom it's hard for him to get back home unless we take him so my boyfriend lets him stay the night at our apartment all of the time and I don't like it at all. This friend of his is the only reason my boyfriend and I fight and I don't know what to do about it but I'm tired of his friend always staying the night and causing problems. What can I do about this? Help!
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