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Can a hookup turn into a relationship?

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Contributor: StayceeO StayceeO
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Originally posted by Danneh
A hookup turned into an almost year long relationship for me- that only ended because he transferred schools. It may not happen often- but it can happen. I know a few other people who have turned hookups into relationships.
Absolutely.
12/18/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
absolutely
12/18/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I don't see why not.
12/18/2012
Contributor: lildrummergrl693 lildrummergrl693
I think it can
12/18/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Absolutely and there's nothing wrong with it.
12/18/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
I think so
12/18/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Yep.
12/18/2012
Contributor: TheFruitcakes TheFruitcakes
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Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
YES, If you guys like each other more than just physically. It worked out for me.
12/18/2012
Contributor: AzealiaB AzealiaB
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Originally posted by TheFruitcakes
YES, If you guys like each other more than just physically. It worked out for me.
good to hear! thanks!
12/19/2012
Contributor: table38792 table38792
I think so, yeah. I mean technically you're spending time together
12/19/2012
Contributor: MacNCheese MacNCheese
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
I think it can.
12/20/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I don't see why not
12/20/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Of course it can.
12/20/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
I had a 3 year relationship start with a very passionate hookup. My other relationships, including with my wife, started with us meeting while pursuing common interests (school, work, skiing).

Hookups tend to be all about sexual chemistry and you can have that with someone you'd never want to have a relationship with. But when you meet and find you get along with each other in a non-sexual way first, and then you find you also have sexual chemistry, I think it's more likely that you'll have a good relationship.

But if you have a hookup, why not try to see if you can get along vertically as well as horizontally? It's certainly possible.
12/28/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Of course they CAN but that doesn't mean it will. Especially if you are hooking up with a real jerk Sometimes, there is a reason someone was just a hook up!
12/28/2012
Contributor: Sammix3 Sammix3
Sure it can! Peoples feelings can always lead to more than just hookups
12/28/2012
Contributor: snowbumbunnie snowbumbunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
I've had it happen.
12/28/2012
Contributor: AzealiaB AzealiaB
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Originally posted by spiced
I had a 3 year relationship start with a very passionate hookup. My other relationships, including with my wife, started with us meeting while pursuing common interests (school, work, skiing).

Hookups tend to be all about sexual chemistry and ... more
thanks, that's good advice
12/28/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
thanks, that's good advice
That's always great to hear--thank you for that.
12/30/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
its possible, but it really depends on the people. dont think you can make it something it isnt, because it really is just a booty call now.
01/02/2013
Contributor: jezebel27 jezebel27
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Originally posted by falalena
its possible, but it really depends on the people. dont think you can make it something it isnt, because it really is just a booty call now.
what i always wonder is, do guys kinda automatically rule you out as a girlfriend if you start out by fucking?
01/09/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
lots of different relationships, that aren't truly ugly or bad ones have the potential for a relationship.
01/09/2013
Contributor: talon4196 talon4196
It's possible
01/11/2013
Contributor: elli elli
Of course!
01/22/2013
Contributor: hall5885 hall5885
It's possible. Not something I would get my hopes up to happen. I read somewhere once that said I think it was 1 out 10 hookups lead to a relationship and chances of it working out wasn't high either. But it is possible.
02/11/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
definitely
02/11/2013
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
Absolutely, yes.

A friend of mine met her now husband on a one night stand. They hooked up after meeting at a bar, neither intending to ever see each other one again. Fast forward 4 years, and they will soon be celebrating their first anniversary as husband and wife.
02/12/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I don't think it's like but definitely possible!
02/12/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by AzealiaB
In the generation of 20-somethings, hookup culture seems to predominate over traditional "dating". Can hookups ever turn into anything more than booty calls/fuck buddies?
Absolutely. You just never know how how you will meet someone that may end up being relationship material.
02/12/2013
Contributor: brevado brevado
Can always turn into something more, but most often it does not
02/19/2013