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Contributor: lesglitter lesglitter
Are there any things that regardless of how awesome the person was otherwise, you would refuse to date them?

Ex. If they had another partner in a closed relationship/would be cheating, a sexual desire/fantasy you were uncomfortable with, if they held certain political views, if they were a bigot, if they were above or below a certain age, ect.
08/25/2012
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Contributor: justme23 justme23
If they were cheating on someone. If they were hateful. If they were rude to others. Etc.
08/25/2012
Contributor: Willowe Willowe
If they were cheating, if they were hateful/bigoted/extrem ely close-minded, if they acted like they were better than everyone else. Age wouldn't necessarily be an issue, but if there was a really extreme age-difference I'd be more cautious and proceed differently than if it was someone closer to my own age. Same with sexual desires/fantasies that I was uncomfortable with.
08/25/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Arrogance, above 35 most likely, alcoholic, hated animals
08/25/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Sure. Cheating, extremely sexist, not at all kinky. I'm not sure that I could date someone younger than me. I don't think I'd get on with someone who was extremely religious and/or conservative. There's probably more.
08/25/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
No peaking at my cell
08/25/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Being in another relationship, that'd bother me.
08/26/2012
Contributor: nova2014 nova2014
They definitely can not be in another relationship, and if they've had a history of cheating, who says they won't cheat on me? I also wouldn't like someone who isn't considerate
12/05/2012
Contributor: wildshores wildshores
cheating on/with me, past patterns of dependent relationships, bigotry, disliking animals, unkindness/impolitenes s
12/06/2012