Alright folks - I am up for trying new things in my marriage, one being anal. He has no desire at all to try it, and thinks it is disgusting. Do any of you have pointers or advice that might help me convince him to give it a shot?

Also - any other pointers for spicing up the sex life would be appreciated as well!! less

My boyfriend thought the same thing. It's possible that instead of him thinking its disgusting, he is just nervous about any embarrassing issues that could arise from play in that area - that's what my boyfriend's real issue was about.

I'd personally see if you could find some porn that was mostly vanilla, but possibly featured some pegging or male anal scenes. That would help a bit. Possibly talk about how it's pretty much the g-spot for males. If he knows about your time here on Eden Fantasys, talk about how you know some good toys that will really make it feel good for him. That it's a different kind of pleasure from masturbation.

There's really not too much you can do. You can gentle push once in awhile, but don't try it too much or he'll just find it more than annoying. The best way to change his mind is gentle reminders once in awhile and to tell him how much it would turn you on.

If there's a fantasy of his you haven't done, possibly do a trade-off. I'll try this if you try this. Assure him that you really want to try it, and if he does agree, definitely start off with a small anal plug. I suggest the Doc Johnson small anal plug. You don't want anything that looks too scary, and starting off with pegging could possibly be a bad experience. His first time, make sure there's plenty of foreplay involved, lots of lube, and slowly stretching out with fingers first. Make sure he feels that it's a couple event and that he's turning you on as well.

I think that's all I can come up with. less

Thanks Mistress Kay. Maybe I should have been a bit more clear, I want him to penetrate ME anally. I know without a doubt that I would never be able to convince him to do backdoor!!

I am open to being penetrated anally by him - but he thinks that is gross. I don't. So I am just wondering if there is anything I can say that would convince him that it isn't gross at all. less

Alright folks - I am up for trying new things in my marriage, one being anal. He has no desire at all to try it, and thinks it is disgusting. Do any of you have pointers or advice that might help me convince him to give it a shot?

Also - any other pointers for spicing up the sex life would be appreciated as well!! less

Alright folks - I am up for trying new things in my marriage, one being anal. He has no desire at all to try it, and thinks it is disgusting. Do any of you have pointers or advice that might help me convince him to give it a shot?

Also - any other pointers for spicing up the sex life would be appreciated as well!! less

Alright folks - I am up for trying new things in my marriage, one being anal. He has no desire at all to try it, and thinks it is disgusting. Do any of you have pointers or advice that might help me convince him to give it a shot?

Also - any other pointers for spicing up the sex life would be appreciated as well!! less