The thing is to get to the pinnacle of any career takes time, effort and sacrifice. Some partners are willing to sacrifice along side their high achieving partners and some are not. It's unfair to say winning an Oscar dooms your marriage when getting that job promotion can do it just as easily.

Besides I think this world is too damn obsesed with cheating...but even I have no idea how to offer a solution to the problem other than honest communication of needs and desires. You know actualy working on your relationship, it's really the only way to make it work.

The stress of a high demanding job/career must be counter balanced by honest communication and compromise. We simply aren't taught how to do this, however.

I feel bad for her but more for the fact that her dirty laundry is airing at my dinner table... less

The tabloids always blow things way out of proportion... and poor Sandra. Who knows what went on in the marriage but now that the world knows about the cheating she can't even go outside without the pap attacking her.

Also, Jesse James was sleeping with porn stars before he got with Sandra so I don't know why it was such a surprise when his choice of women came out. less