Light Bondage is a major turn on for me as long as no borders are crossed.

I love being submissive. I have always had a job description where I am very dominant and I love my wife taking charge

We don’t have a normal marriage. I spent 25 years as a Navy Seal and now I work for a security firm in Iraq hence I have been at home very little in the last years. We do make the most of the time we have together and I love our sex life. I am still only 47 y/o. Well that’s old but more than once I never thought I would make it to that many years.

When I first get home, I am all male and want her and her body but then I want to be her girlfriend.
I love slipping a pair of hipsters on and we role play that we are both married women and we haven’t seen each other in twelve years and want to explore each other as sexual partners. We take our time and do it slow and it is very hot for the both of us. She is a squirter and she gets on top and we rub clits. I don’t insert my cock in her during role play and we both do oral and sensual massage.

I don’t wear panties for a sexual release. I am into cotton hipsters or boy shorts and I wear them from the day I arrive home till the day I leave. It enhances my submissiveness and femininity…..sounds a little much but when I have about 12 days a year with my sexy wife we make the most if it for both of us.

People who can do reversible chemistry equations during sex or solve physics problems. Does it for me. Or rock stars and great musicians.

The fetish that started it all for me (and my wife) is panties. They absolutely drive me WILD... everything about them. The textures and fabrics, the colors, the cuts, what they represent, and knowing that they are the closest thing to her intimate sex organs.... mmmmm. There is not a day that goes by that I don't get anxious and excited to reach down her pants, or check up her skirt to see which ones she's wearing. She loves it too, and we've progressed to the point where we have easily 500+ pairs in our bedroom dressers... and we still feel the need to buy a pair here or there whenever we find something irresistible and different.

From there we evolved to FINE lingerie, garters and stockings, girdles/corsellettes, and vintage/pin-up type lingerie. This is the kind of stuff that she looks FANTASTIC in... and she knows it! Gives her that sexy confidence, knowing that she looks so good, and makes me lust for her.

I guess the only other one (that I'll discuss here) that would qualify as a fetish is chastity. Unbelievable sensations and experiences that cater perfectly to my submissiveness, and her dominant nature.

We have a ton more interests, likes, etc... (which it seems that many people were just listing everything that they LIKE, or ENJOY sexually) but I'm trying to keep this limited to FETISHES as the topic discussed.

I guess mine is belts? Like gothy belts, bracers, etc. Seen my guy before clad in only belts/bracers tied around his arms and all, with goth pants on (open of course) and back before I was on bc pills it drove me wild. I gues anything that's gothy and skimpy, prolly a fisnet shirt with nothing under would be like oooo to me, too.

He's about the same, but also like camo things, too.

We definitely have a lingerie and underwear fetish. I love to wear lingerie and my husband loves to see me in it. He also loves to see me in just a pair of sexy underwear. He likes boyshorts the best, which I find to be really comfortable.

We also have a spanking fetish and a light bondage fetish.

I also have a ridiculous number of fetishes that I engage in to varying degrees. Some are just occasional treats (cigarette burning, for example) and others are pretty regular (some degree of discipline/dominance). I just copied and pasted this from my Fetlife account list, hah.

age play, anal sex, bare bottom spanking, bdsm, being worshipped, biting, bondage, cigarette burns, cock milking, cocksucking, collar and lead/leash, consensual sleep play, cunnilingus, deep prostate milking/cock jerkoff, dildos, discipline, disciplined in public, duct tape gags, exhibitionism, face slapping, facials, fighting, fighting for dominance, hair pulling, humiliation, leather, lesbian domination, male submission, masochism, masturbation, mmf threesomes, mommy/boy dynamics, needle play, nipples, obedience training, older women, oral sex, orgasm control, paddling, panty gagging, pantyhose/stockings, pegging, peeing in my panties, play piercing, pregnant women, pussy pumping, remote-control devices, rimming, role play, sadism, safe sex, scratching, sex in public, sexual objectification, spanking, squirting, straight girls, strap-ons, swallowing, talking dirty, toys, toys under clothing in public, urination control, verbal humiliation and degradation, vibrators, voyeurism, watersports, wrestling

My fetish is to wear a chastity device and have my wife as the keyholder. Haven't done it for more than an extended weekend, but the fantasy for me is for her to keep me in for a few weeks and act sexy during that time culminating in a wonderful evening. I am curious if the reality of longer term chastity makes men submissive to their wives like the erotic stories all imply.

Leather, dirty talk, sub/dom, and role play scenarios that extend outside the bedroom.

Fetish, to me is a strong word... the only thing I would consider a fetish for myself is I'm very much into different textures. They way things feel on my skin, under my fingertips, and especially in my mouth. I love leather and wood and metal. Lacy panties feel especially good when I'm wet and they are pulled tightly to the side while fucking, rubbing my sensitive areas and cutting into them.

I like to be dominated, but not in the extreme. I don't want bruises, cuts, or burns, etc. I don't want to be humiliated either. I mostly like sex to be rough, and to be told what I can and can't do. I like to be spanked, choked only to the point where my breathing is restricted, my hair pulled, collared and led by a leash, restrained with rope and straps and shackles, etc., teased and not allowed to come, nipples pinched, slapped, bitten, thrown around, and "used" as a sexual plaything.

That’s why it is good to be able to come and share your fantasies online. When you see others have some of the same ideas. Its leads credence that your fetish or role play is only a glimpse into a sexual normality if only for a one time relationship with your significant other. My wife is better at being dominant than she was. As I have preciously posted despite my dominant job descriptions I am very submissive at home and in the bedroom. We also role play a lot which is a huge turn on.
Last week Angie told me she was going to stay with Beth for a week. Her daughter lives about 450 miles from here on an Army Base and her hubby is in Iraq. Her baby is due any moment and she is having a difficult delivery. Her ex. is already up there and I trust my wife of 12 years but I found myself getting a little jealous. Despite our fantasies and role play; I know from pics I have found on the computer when we started dating her ex. is very well endowed. He is close to a thick 8 inches and I am only 5 and thin. Plus we work out at the same gym. We have only seen each other soft but even then it’s a huge size discrepancy.
Three days ago she called me from her daughters and told me to go to our computer and hook the webcam up. She told me to get into my purple lace bikinis and she had a surprise for me. I wasn’t to get jealous and I was to do as I was told. She told me to set the cam at my crotch and click on this nick and watch her and the webcam she was on. Immediately I thought….damn she is fixing to let me view her and her ex. and she did everything she could to convince me she was going to do that. She told me I always wanted to see her stretched and good….so now was my chance…I was scared because I didn’t want to loose our marriage but at the same time I was leaking in my panties.
She asked what I thought was next and I said I wasn’t sure. She then replied……well I think you do by the huge wet spot in the panties. She teased me for a few minutes then sent me a text…..”Well let me reach up and pull this huge thing over here so you can see it as it is fixing to take care of me……I was astonished and relieved yet I had almost reached a major orgasm as her hand holding her large purple “Rabbit” came into view.
Then she texted; oh my God…..you’re so naughty…me and my Rabbit want to watch you play with yourself. I texted back …is it really only just you and the Rabbit in the room….Angie texted me back I will tell you when I get home…I miss you and love you.
We have talked on the phone several times since and that was fun for the both of us. We both needed that. I believe our fantasies help our marriage. No she hasn’t told me if she was alone …she will when she gets home.

I am into a lot of kinky stuff, but fetish is a funny word that means different things to different people. What I would count as a "fetish" that gets me going is smoking and hands.

The smoking is a new one, and I'm not really sure what its all about with me, exactly. I've just had some positive experiences and the seed has been planted.

Hands, however, have been my things since forever. It's what I notice on a person first, and I think its why I like fisting so damned much.

More to explore there! That's for sure.

I am very turned on by being watched suposedly unaware while I fuck my wife or masterbate. For example, my wife and I went to visit the wife's best friend out of town. That next morning and we intentionally left the bedroom door slightly open. I could get glimpses of the friend peeping thru the crack in the door. Just knowing that she was watching had us so turned on that fucked and made no attemp to stiffle our moans. This went on nearly all morning. I am pretty sure that the friend masterbated to orgasm at least a couple of times.

I've got a lot of fantasies that I write about - not sure if they qualify as fetishes - but...
1. Secretly watching my wife masturbate
2. Anal sex with my wife
3. Being pegged by my wife
4. Using large (not enormous) dildos in play with my wife
5. Having my wife sit on my face after she's had a gushing orgasm

that's the top 5 hit parade for me

With someone I have done extensive blood work on (a full hep panel, RPR,GC screen, HIV test) I like to slash and drink blood. I've had blood slaves. That's really my only fetish. Everyone does some B and D , but I have liked blood for about 20 or so years now. I use a sterile scalpel and a shot glass. You shouldn't suck blood out of people, they can get an infection.I like to cut the shoulder or the back of the arm. I have cute cotton and black coban pressure dressings. It leaves a lovely scar.

I would have to say for one I am a sub after all I am a Mr.Mom I do do my cooking in a Apron and I love being controlled by my wife and getting straped down spanked and pegged by her for me this is just my life style.

But I think my real main Fetish would have to be Uritheral insurtion play with Uritheral sounds and I am looking into penis plugs. A viberating sound slid in the penis is an amazing feeling.
This is even better when my wife is doing it to me because if I get a hard-on she stops and makes me lie there with the sound in me till I get soft again (most time a porn on the tv) this can be torcher when she is playing with herself or my nipples

I love to be tied up, spanked and be teased with my toys. A real big turn on is to play with myself while watching a man (or woman) masturbate until they get off. Mmmm

I quit smoking a short while ago. All I can see is my Dad, dying of lung cancer, having only the left lobe, breathing like Darth Vadar. He was the strongest man in the world to me. He also lived 10 years longer than the doctor's predicted and developed prostate cancer during this time and had radiation and chemo throughout his body. He lost a great deal of muscle mass but wouldn't use a walker. I moved 6,000 miles to assisst him. I gave him piggy back rides which he hated but appreciated. He also tore his rotator cuff during this time and they couldn't fix it. All the radiation made fluid build up around the lining of his heart, and threw off his electrolytes. During that whole 10 years he complained of pain once-just after lung surgery, and took a total of 1 Darvocet. He never took another pain pill again. He had taught all of us how to smoke (I was three at the time) as a social activity to do with neighbors after dinner. He never drank, He worked 16 hours a day (even with cancer) and he was my hero, a model of what a man should be.

So I have an anti smoking fetish now. Smoke, the smell of it on someone, the taste of it in their mouths. Gross. I have abestosis from years of doing metal work and working with asbestos pads, suits, helmet liners, etc, and breathing in plastic and metal shavings. I don't need someone to blow smoke at me.

I have a beauty fetish. I am turned on by men and women who have perfect, symmetrical faces, aqualine noses, impossibley high cheekbones, smooth hair, strong jaws and hard , perfect bodies. (My Dad used to say get naked and jump up and down in front of a mirror, if anything jiggles, work harder, get leaner) My last partner was obese, and that was a giant challenge. I gave her the boot because !1 she had too much drama in her life 2 she couldn't deal with my active lifestyle. liked to smoke, eat, watch tv, and would bring home fast food and eat it. I could smell it and it nauseated me. Before that, all my other partners were models, bodybuilders, or health freaks.

I like the whole public place thing, its exciting knowing you can get caught . I also enjoy being dominated or dominating along with some light bondage and chocking (but not major choking )