What Toys are best for solo play

Contributor: jamconn91 jamconn91
I am single, and not looking for a partner right now, and i'm always looking for advice on how to get my sex on with myself, because i have sexual needs i just dont want to date right now. Which kind of item is the best kind for solo play? for a female
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Soundside46 , wicked48 , Mr.Pitt , mmail , CuriousFun , ThatOneGuy987 , SummerShade , karmaqueen , SpookyB , Essential , Dodger79 , Ashley Blonde
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PassionPleasure , CuriousFun , Chara , louise83 , ToyingCouple , Essential , no teezing here
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PassionPleasure , SexyTabby , mmail , ThatOneGuy987 , karmaqueen , SpookyB , Luvluna499
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SexyTabby , CuriousFun , Ivygod , Essential
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SoloRebel , CuriousFun , 4ever18
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Total votes: 33 (22 voters)
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12/27/2020
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Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by jamconn91
I am single, and not looking for a partner right now, and i'm always looking for advice on how to get my sex on with myself, because i have sexual needs i just dont want to date right now. Which kind of item is the best kind for solo play? for a ... more
It's hard to answer this as everyone seems to be different. For myself, I love rabbits but it depends on the rabbit and how it fits you. I also like anal toys, but normally I enjoy that with a dildo or a clit toy.

For a quicky, I normally grab my wand and get off within a minute.

You might be best to try out several options and figure out what works best for you!
12/27/2020
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Quote:
Originally posted by jamconn91
I am single, and not looking for a partner right now, and i'm always looking for advice on how to get my sex on with myself, because i have sexual needs i just dont want to date right now. Which kind of item is the best kind for solo play? for a ... more
I totally agree with frisky069, everyone is different and the best thing to do is experiment and find what works best for you.

I've always enjoyed clitoral stimulation so one of my first purchases when I decided to venture into the world of solo play was the We-Vibe Tango. This bullet vibe doesn't disappoint when it comes to clit stimulation. Currently, my go to toy for clit stimulation is Lelo's SONA Cruise. It's spendy but worth every dollar! If you enjoy clit stimulation and have the money to spend, purchase the SONA Cruise! You will not be disappointed! Mind blowing clitoral orgasms are guaranteed with the SONA Cruise!

I purchased two of my favorite glass dildos here on the Eden Fantasys website. The Royal Adventure is currently on sale for $9.00! I still use the Royal Adventure in conjunction with my Sona Cruise. The Amethyst is labeled a g-spot dildo. Originally, I used the Amethyst for it's intended purpose. However, when I decided to venture into the world of anal play, I discovered that the Amethyst is also a great anal toy!

Also, invest is a quality lube. A good lube will go a long way in making your solo play more enjoyable!

Happy experimenting!
12/29/2020
Contributor: PassionPleasure PassionPleasure
Satisfyer Pro 2
Luxury clitoral vibrator

You cant go wrong with this perfectly priced toy. It gets my wife off EVERY TIME.

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12/30/2020
Contributor: jamconn91 jamconn91
Quote:
Originally posted by frisky069
It's hard to answer this as everyone seems to be different. For myself, I love rabbits but it depends on the rabbit and how it fits you. I also like anal toys, but normally I enjoy that with a dildo or a clit toy.

For a quicky, I ... more
thank you for your reply! i have been trying out a lot of things, and some of them are pretty nice, and i'm totally sold on wands lol
12/31/2020
Contributor: jamconn91 jamconn91
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionPleasure
Satisfyer Pro 2
Luxury clitoral vibrator

You cant go wrong with this perfectly priced toy. It gets my wife off EVERY TIME.

link
oh i've heard a lot of bad things about those causing injury...i'm not sure i'd want to try it. but thank you for the reply!
12/31/2020
Contributor: SoloRebel SoloRebel
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Originally posted by jamconn91
I am single, and not looking for a partner right now, and i'm always looking for advice on how to get my sex on with myself, because i have sexual needs i just dont want to date right now. Which kind of item is the best kind for solo play? for a ... more
Haha...I didn’t notice this was a “for female” question before I voted. However, guy or girl, incorporating some anal play will definitely amp up your solo play!
01/04/2021
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
As pretty much everyone else has already pointed out, everyone is different, so what works best for me may or may not work best for you. I think the best thing to do is to just try out most or all of the categories you listed (plus some you didn't) and make up your own mind about what works best for your body and preferences.

For me, I like most of the things you listed and then some, and what works best kind of depends on my mood and what I want. I love rabbits, though there's so many different types of rabbits out there these days that "rabbits" is a pretty huge category. If I want to get off fast with minimal effort, I usually reach for one of my thrusting rabbits (my favourites are EF's Petite Dual Thruster and the CalExotics Jackrabbit Signature Thrusting). Just stick it in, turn it on, steady it with a single finger to keep it i place, and I'm off to the races.

If I want something that feels more realistic, I reach for one of my dual density dildos (my favourite is currently EF's Dual Density Stud), because they feel incredibly lifelike. I'll typically pair it with a clit vibe, because I have trouble getting off without clit stimulation.

If I'm on my period and don't want to be sticking anything up my vagina, I'll usually use an air pulsation clit toy (favourites are Satisfyer's Pro Penguin and Lelo's Sona). That's really the only type of toy that can get me off reliably without any kind of penetration.

I'll often combine any of those options with anal toys (usually a plug or beads) and/or nipple toys (suckers, clamps, vibrating teasers, etc.) when I want a more intense, stimulating, full-body sort of experience.
01/09/2021
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
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Originally posted by jamconn91
oh i've heard a lot of bad things about those causing injury...i'm not sure i'd want to try it. but thank you for the reply!
Seriously? Because I have a couple air pulsation clit toys like that, and even if they were to malfunction or something, I'm not sure how they even *could* cause injury. You're not sticking anything inside your body when you use these, and these types of toys don't even make contact with your clitoris. Unless it's something like faulty wiring electrocuting people or catching fire or something? But that's technically a (normally extremely tiny) risk with anything electronic.

Would you happen to have a link with more information on this? Because if there is some way these are hurting people, I'd like to know more about it.
01/09/2021
Contributor: jamconn91 jamconn91
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Originally posted by CuriousFun
Seriously? Because I have a couple air pulsation clit toys like that, and even if they were to malfunction or something, I'm not sure how they even *could* cause injury. You're not sticking anything inside your body when you use these, and ... more
i saw a thread on reddit i think, or maybe Quora, where a girl had gotten injured and had blood blisters around her clit and was unable to go to the restroom comfortably for months because of a toy that was similar to the Satisfyer, i dont have the link unfortunately. I think she was trying to use it for suction on her clit or something like that. She posted photos of the toy with blood on it and was seeking legal action. I dont know how it turned out, because it was something i read while researching toys. I write erotic romance novels and i research both hands on and by reading.
01/12/2021
Contributor: jamconn91 jamconn91
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Originally posted by CuriousFun
Seriously? Because I have a couple air pulsation clit toys like that, and even if they were to malfunction or something, I'm not sure how they even *could* cause injury. You're not sticking anything inside your body when you use these, and ... more
The toy that caused the injury was a Lelo Sona, and i saw other comments on various forms that that one has a known issue to cause injury. Let me see what kind of links i can find

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01/12/2021
Contributor: Analalltheway Analalltheway
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01/19/2021
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01/19/2021
Contributor: Analalltheway Analalltheway
Quote:
Originally posted by jamconn91
I am single, and not looking for a partner right now, and i'm always looking for advice on how to get my sex on with myself, because i have sexual needs i just dont want to date right now. Which kind of item is the best kind for solo play? for a ... more
Ever try Anal? It's really amazing. I cum so much harder and multiple times. ??. Try the beginners strapless strap on. ????
01/19/2021
Contributor: SpookyB SpookyB
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Originally posted by jamconn91
I am single, and not looking for a partner right now, and i'm always looking for advice on how to get my sex on with myself, because i have sexual needs i just dont want to date right now. Which kind of item is the best kind for solo play? for a ... more
My holy grail is the Satisfyer Pro 2. I always had an issue when using vibrators because they'd just numb me and not actually get me off, so when I heard about this magical clit "sucking" toy I had to look into it. Granted, I first heard about the womanizer but I was out about to drop a couple hundred bucks on a toy, so I managed to find the Satisfyer that supposedly did the exact same thing but at a fraction of the cost.

If clit stimulation is your thing, this is one of the best in my opinion. It's never done me dirty lol
01/28/2021
Contributor: Sycostaci Sycostaci
All if them. Before I got heavly into toys I had one or two. My ultimate favorite one is the medium wand from Lelo when it first came out. And I still have it and it's the best most reliable one yet. Oh don't get me wrong I have quite a few. But it's always been my go to. Now I add a little light show from my arse. And just enjoy everything.
05/11/2021
Contributor: 4ever18 4ever18
Anal toys work great for both men & women. Combine anal play with any type of masturbation will definitely heighten the sensations!
05/11/2021
Contributor: HornyGrammy2six HornyGrammy2six
For me, it’s all about the clit (mostly) I love the Magic Force vibrator. I’ll be ordering a backup soon!! ????
08/17/2021
Contributor: Tomandkelly Tomandkelly
We're interested in experiencing couple vibrators, which is the best for attachments for my penis?
08/25/2021
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
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Originally posted by Tomandkelly
We're interested in experiencing couple vibrators, which is the best for attachments for my penis?
Welcome to our vibrant community!

I'm EdenFantasys's community manager and I'm glad to come up with some ideas.

I always recommend a couple to get at least one vibrating cock rings in their sex-toy box. It is a must-have for couple's play as these rings can please both partners at a time. They are designed to make him last longer and feel harder, while a vibrating attachment is responsible for pleasing her C-spot and deliver an explosive orgasm to both.

Please take a look at our Bliss ring. It has a large stimulation area with a powerful motor. Or the Zeal that is another similar ring, but it comes with a remote control that is amazing for couple’s play.

Then, the Extra intense bunny with double loops for extra support and the long cute ears with an in-built bullet that vibrates in 10 modes for intense clitoral stimulation.

Another great vibe for couples is U-nique. It is a multifunctional toy that will provide your partner with nice clit stimulation or gentle nipple play. From the other side, you can wear it around your shaft or use it to stimulate testicles and keep your erection super hard.

Unity - a C-shaped sex toy that should have a place in your box as well. Our guide will introduce you to this toy best.

Hope it helps! If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me directly.
08/26/2021
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
A combination: Womenizer, Unity vibe, dildo or 2 or 3, anal plug, wand of course
and my new favorite , the Schatzi
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I actually prefer this over the Womenizer and Hitachi wand now.

Of course a combination of a clit stimulator and some vaginal insertion is a Orgasm maker. Add a 3nd (anal plug) and you will never miss
09/02/2021