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Contributor: indiechick indiechick
this community has given me a place free from judgement where I can express myself freely and ask questions and get insight into things we "aren't supposed to" talk about outside of places like this.

I want to know what other have gotten from the community? What about being here makes something easier for you? Or what have you taken away from the community that has benefited you?
05/08/2012
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Aside from the same things as you, I have new friends, a better understanding of other life styles (LGBT, BDSM etc.), a thorough understanding of materials used for sex toys and their care. Plus a social outlet that is like no other. I have FB and Twitter but I spend way more time here.

I would say I enjoy helping others the most, it is why I have done work shops and started the Eden DIY club. There is no better feeling than helping folks, especially when it can save them money or from harm.

EF is my home and I love being here with the awesome community.
05/08/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by indiechick
this community has given me a place free from judgement where I can express myself freely and ask questions and get insight into things we "aren't supposed to" talk about outside of places like this.

I want to know what other ... more
a VAST knowledge of a subject i previously hadn't a clue about - i educate my friends like a BOSS on materials, shapes, safety, etc. and they're all wowed by the majesty of my sex toy wisdom.

a creative outlet that is sexually healthy

a healthier sex life

a greater sense of sexual freedom

a kinship with people i've never met, only shared typeface characters with and a common interest for all things sexy

an open mind in regards to fetishes

better exposure to transgenderism

better exposure to sexually charged political issues, such as slut-shaming

a sense of accomplishment.

a sense of pride in regards to my sexual status, my 'number' of partners as opposed to shame

an interest in and following of polyamory

alot of really hot orgasms.
05/08/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
a VAST knowledge of a subject i previously hadn't a clue about - i educate my friends like a BOSS on materials, shapes, safety, etc. and they're all wowed by the majesty of my sex toy wisdom.

a creative outlet that is sexually ... more
Most of the above for me as well.

Along with:
Greater sexual openness with my husband.
Ability to better verbalize my sexual fantasies.
Amazing friends and people.
New sexual experiences via toys I would NEVER have tried on my own.
The realization that I am not a freak or extreme pervert for being extremely sexual, liking porn and playing with toys.
Other women are just as into sex and toys as I am.

A feeling of knowing I belong. I am not alone. A sense of family!!!!!!!!!111
05/09/2012
Contributor: indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Most of the above for me as well.

Along with:
Greater sexual openness with my husband.
Ability to better verbalize my sexual fantasies.
Amazing friends and people.
New sexual experiences via toys I would NEVER have tried on my ... more
I like the new toys comment I'm getting into things i never would have thought i'd be into
05/09/2012
Contributor: interestingstuff interestingstuff
Confidence in myself and in my blooming sexuality, that my thoughts are not weird or wrong for a girl. I was kind of a prude before, and now I'm kinda not one anymore. EF has made my mind open and more accepting of the different kinds of lifestyles people may lead than what everyone considers normal and proper. If not that, then at least I've adopted the mindset of "different strokes for different folks", and then "tell me more about what kind of strokes."

Thanks to EF, once I do have sex with someone, it's not going to be that horrible first time experience many women seem to have.
05/12/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
More sex toys than I know what to do with. Well. I know what to do with them but when you have countless toys and only really two holes to use them... you get the idea.

EF has give me some laughs, provided me with some thoughts and some very saucy and sassy people that I am just starting to meet!!!!

I belong to a few erotic websites/Forums out there so my list is a little shorter than most because I've done a lot of exploring over the years!
05/12/2012