In my opinion, I think that wands are the best toy to get introduced to, simply because you don't have to be as careful about where they're placed for extreme pleasure. Wands are the only toys I've ever used where I've been able to orgasm comfortably without my own help, and they're pleasurable for biological men and women both. I would suggest having your partner use the toys you choose on you first before you use them on them, if that's what you intend to do in the first place, simply because they may feel more comfortable knowing the pleasure you receive and be more willing to try later on. Anything that vibrates is a pretty good guess!

I seen a few I'd like to try restraints vibes an the dubble vibrater

Is this for a male or female-bodied person? Were you looking for something penetrative or non-penetrative? Is anal stuff on the table?

Without having that information, there are still a few versatile, multi-use toys that I think most people of all body types and experience levels could enjoy.

Voila! is a great little versatile vibrator that can be used on many different body parts. It has decent power, but isn't insanely powerful, which could be a good thing for someone new to vibrators. It's made from super-soft silicone and is waterproof, rechargeable, and highly portable.

Silicone Nipple Teasers are awesome. They're fabulous when used as intended on the nipples, and you can also take the silicone cups off the vibrating bullets and just use the bullets by themselves on any body parts you'd like. The bullets have adjustable intensity and are quite powerful. Only downsides are that the toy isn't waterproof and it takes batteries, but it's not a battery-guzzler.

It's hard to go wrong with a bullet vibe. They're classics for a reason! Two of my favourites are Rose Gold and Eden Play. Both are smooth plastic, waterproof, rechargeable, and powerful. Eden Play has a remote, but only has one intensity setting (with steady vibration and several patterns). Rose Gold lacks a remote, but has three intensities of steady vibration plus several patterns. Rose Gold is more powerful, especially on its highest intensity, but Eden Play still packs a punch.

If your partner is open to anal play, you might consider a small butt plug or a plug set. The Booty Jewels butt plug set is a truly beginner-friendly set of three plugs of increasing size. The first one is quite tiny and shouldn't present any problems even for an anal virgin, and the largest one is about average butt plug size, so the set is a really great intro to plugs. Only downside is that they're made from TPR, so you can't sterilise them (unfortunately, most or all of the silicone plug sets I've come across are not nearly as beginner-friendly in their sizing). But so long as the slightly porous nature of the TPR doesn't bother you, it's not a bad material. It's soft enough to be forgiving and rigid enough for easy insertion. It slicks up nicely with a little lube. The shape and overall design of the plugs is also really nice. They're easy and comfortable to insert, have a good, safe base that keeps them from being sucked into your rectum, and have a little ring on the base for easy removal (you can also slip a little bullet vibe into the ring and turn them into vibrating plugs if you want; a standard-sized bullet fits into the stretchy ring nice and snug and will stay in place pretty well).