I have encountered several men that seem to shutdown the possibility of pegging with the thinking of it would "make" them gay. Are other women experiencing this too??
Are men curious about pegging??
08/14/2019
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No option for the obvious - I am a man who loves to be pegged!
Luckily, after some reluctance, my wife learned to enjoy the experience as well.
Luckily, after some reluctance, my wife learned to enjoy the experience as well.
08/14/2019
I've encountered both in my partners. Some guys are interested, but reluctant, some are more resistant and some are totally into it. Communication and and open mind will always make for a better experience.
08/15/2019
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NOTE: Should there be a poll option for men who enjoy it?
Originally posted by
Ashes1086
I have encountered several men that seem to shutdown the possibility of pegging with the thinking of it would "make" them gay. Are other women experiencing this too??
I've never tried it, but I'm open to it. I think it's good for partners to be open about their sexual desires and try new things even for the sake of breaking up the monotony.
I realize you're asking for the perspective of other women, but I hope you don't mind getting an opinion from me.
Growing up in the 80's, as progressive as we were at the time, homophobia was worse than it is now. The male ego is so fragile, that any perceived increase in machismo is welcome even when attached to bigotry. Setting these arbitrary rules for ourselves and continuing to live in fear of anything that would make us fee like "less of a man", we perpetuate homophobic ideals. As a result, we are never open to and will never learn that homosexuality is not a choice, something that we can't be tricked into with the "gay agenda" and things like pegging.
For me, being secure in my heterosexuality and not living in fear of things that wouldn't really harm me, I'm at least open to trying it. I think it's a good way for males to understand what their partners experience, or are at least being asked to try/endure. I think there is a benefit to understand through personal experience the importance of communication, lubrication, patience, and positioning (what I call the "Clap Principal" (CLPP)) so there are better able to serve there partner when anal is first attempted. And, if their bugging you for anal, it's only fair to ask to peg them, right?
I think men, without being homosexual, can get pleasure from their partner stimulating their prostate in such a way and lends itself well submissive men. I hope we can continue to push back against this homophobic dogma and get men to realize it's not wizardry: you're not going to be turned into a newt.
08/15/2019
I'm open to anything my wife wants to try. Whether " guests ", machines , spankings even pegging. Take that back. I would protest to wearing women's clothing !
It's a matter of ones relationship. Asking someone you don't know well to take a strapon up their private hole probably will get turned down. It's like asking a gal to have anal sex when you barely know her.
It's a matter of ones relationship. Asking someone you don't know well to take a strapon up their private hole probably will get turned down. It's like asking a gal to have anal sex when you barely know her.
08/17/2019
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My husband loves a good pegging. He also love prostate toys no matter if they vibrate or not.
Originally posted by
Ashes1086
I have encountered several men that seem to shutdown the possibility of pegging with the thinking of it would "make" them gay. Are other women experiencing this too??
08/20/2019
I’ve been curious about it for a while. I bought the beginner strapless to try, and one particularly heated night a few weeks back my wife gave it the ol’ college try, but the toy just wasn’t working for us. So now I’m on the hunt for one that will. Going the harness route is too intimidating for my wife. It’s just too much. And we want a strapless that also provides her with vibrations/pleasure. And with the failure of the last, I’m hesitant to spend big bucks on toys that just won’t work.
Eventually I’ll get horny enough on this site and order one that looks good. Seems to be how we obtain most of our toys — late night horny browsing.
Eventually I’ll get horny enough on this site and order one that looks good. Seems to be how we obtain most of our toys — late night horny browsing.
08/20/2019
I've been discussing pegging with my husband - when we first started this discussion, he wasn't even my fiance - so you might draw conclusions about how seriously we approach the topic.
We've never gone further than some light anal stimulation for him, though he surely likes it - a lot. I'm sure there is no prejudice in him, but he's been somewhat hesitant to even talk about it more. There are some additional factors that lead me to believe he experiences some kind of physical discomfort in that area, so I wonder - can there be some conditions (I don't wanna say issues) that might prevent a man from enjoying the anal play?
We've never gone further than some light anal stimulation for him, though he surely likes it - a lot. I'm sure there is no prejudice in him, but he's been somewhat hesitant to even talk about it more. There are some additional factors that lead me to believe he experiences some kind of physical discomfort in that area, so I wonder - can there be some conditions (I don't wanna say issues) that might prevent a man from enjoying the anal play?
08/21/2019
It is something that is fun to do from time to time but not all the time for us. It is not something you want to spring on somebody and should be discussed first. You would definitely have to be someone who enjoys anal stimulation whether by fingers or toys. I think the best way to warm somebody up to it is to first get them to enjoy anal and prostate stimulation then tell them how excited you are to try a strapon.
08/21/2019
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I have never tried I’m sure it would be an interesting experience
Originally posted by
Ashes1086
I have encountered several men that seem to shutdown the possibility of pegging with the thinking of it would "make" them gay. Are other women experiencing this too??
08/24/2019
Omega6989
I'm curious but I don't know how or what my wife would say
08/25/2019
Maybe, but gotta get wife and n board first!
08/26/2019
I don't know about " curious " but once a woman pegs you. You never will forget it. As a matter of fact you will be constantly thinking about it. And the sensation down there will be a constant reminder too.
08/27/2019
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Sign me up !
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OH&W, Lovebears
I don't know about " curious " but once a woman pegs you. You never will forget it. As a matter of fact you will be constantly thinking about it. And the sensation down there will be a constant reminder too.
08/28/2019
Although I'm not nearly completely straight... pansexual (think bi for those who don't understand the nuanced difference between bi and pan), I do very much enjoy when Wifey pegs me.
08/29/2019
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It's a pretty common stereotype that pegging could make a man gay. I've had several straight male partners with whom I practice pegging, and no one of them didn't even think about changing their sexual orientation
Originally posted by
Ashes1086
I have encountered several men that seem to shutdown the possibility of pegging with the thinking of it would "make" them gay. Are other women experiencing this too??
I believe pegging is a great, interesting experience for both partners and brings more intimacy and closeness into relationships, but it's definitely not an everyday activity.
08/29/2019
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Thanks for chiming in Meg. What would you say your ratio of reg vs pegging.
Originally posted by
The ~Pegging~ Meg
It's a pretty common stereotype that pegging could make a man gay. I've had several straight male partners with whom I practice pegging, and no one of them didn't even think about changing their sexual orientation
I believe ... more
I believe ... more
It's a pretty common stereotype that pegging could make a man gay. I've had several straight male partners with whom I practice pegging, and no one of them didn't even think about changing their sexual orientation
I believe pegging is a great, interesting experience for both partners and brings more intimacy and closeness into relationships, but it's definitely not an everyday activity. less
I believe pegging is a great, interesting experience for both partners and brings more intimacy and closeness into relationships, but it's definitely not an everyday activity. less
08/29/2019
More than curious. Willing and enthusiastic, but finding a partner equally interested is a challenge.
09/04/2019
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I couldn’t agree more. I’m still working every angle possible with the Mrs. I think I
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Trysexual
More than curious. Willing and enthusiastic, but finding a partner equally interested is a challenge.
I’m making some slow progress. Stay tuned...
09/12/2019
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Same here. I’m currently “working” on mine...Not something just to bring up. Luckily, she’s got a little kink side that comes out now and then. I feel it’s all about timing!
Originally posted by
Omega6989
I'm curious but I don't know how or what my wife would say
09/12/2019
He was curious. Then after a few times got hooked. We don't do it often, but when at it , really do it. So many dils, so little time.
09/12/2019
I luv it and it will also make me cum...
01/12/2021
Loveslace
Absolutely
01/18/2021
Smithj6065
Coming from a male perspective i say yes we are curious about pegging. I myself have been pegged and i love it i came harder than I ever have and barely even touched myself I reccomend starting slow and when ur good and relaxed let ur partner beat it up til u explode and Trimble like a girl it's the best orgasm a man can have if u want to take my word for it
01/30/2021
Midlife-crisis
I believe most men are. I for one was and I was nervous about approaching my wife about it until one day I just opened up about it. It’s been a great addition to our bedroom play. Another benifit is my wife who was completely against anal is now interested in a little back door play.
02/05/2021
Cazmobi
I am very curious. I enjoy solo anal play and would love for my wife to get involved. My issue is how to approach her about it
10/14/2021
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Well, the only thing that can make them gay is that they are tied up by another guy, well, in that case, you knew where you were going
Originally posted by
Ashes1086
I have encountered several men that seem to shutdown the possibility of pegging with the thinking of it would "make" them gay. Are other women experiencing this too??
10/15/2021
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