NO WAY! My partner and I keep those things VERY private! Although a terrible thing happened a few days ago that I'm STILL upset about... I only had one of the kids this weekend & his friend spent the night who clearly is not the best influence on him. His mother is in and out & sometimes the kids spend the night with her. She randomly makes plans for us and we don't always know about them like the other day when she brought his friend over without asking my permission, she dropped him off with his overnight bag. I know his mother, but not him. I was fine though & later that night I'd found the friend had took my camera that had pictures of my boob with a pastie on it & he insisted on looking and going through my pictures. Thankfully, I done a decent job with raising him with respect because he made his friend give my camera back and told me everything. His friend thought it was hilarious and refused to put down the camera. I was furious.
Other people have no business getting into other's sex lives and they have no business looking through or invading someone's privacy which is exactly what happens when you go through someone's belongings without permission. I don't like that at all. I would never share my own tapes & I wuold never share anyone else's even if I disliked them. It would devastate me and probably cause me some damage if someone released my tapes (not that anyone would find them interesting enough to watch, share or sell. lol) But, when I WAS 15 I was partying with very close friends & 9long story short, got wasted, high and took DXM a.k.a. DEX & got extremely ill. While my close girlfriends were helping rinse me off, the girl who lived there and her mother took pictures. You could see everything & my girlfriend asked them to stop, but they didn't. She developed the pics & took them to school to show me & I told her I wanted them all. She can go ahead and laugh, whatever it was funny, but I wanted all of the pics so I could destroy them when she was done laughing. She gave me 1 and kept the rest. She showed them to everybody & hung them on a wall in her party house when she moved an hour away. People still tell me they've seen those pics. While I was in the shower her mother yelled "Kendra's naked, do any of you boys wanna come fu&* her in the ass?!" Not something a mother should really be doing?
Anyways, it's totally different from an actual tape, but it's humiliating and it's no joke. It's not funny. I don't see how any human being could do that to a person. I must say though, I suspect a lot of celebs actually do it on purpose for extra fame. "OOOPS! It must've gotten in the wrong hands..."