Wishing your partner was more into sex toys....

Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Have you ever wished your partner shared your love or obsession with sex toys? Do you find it hard to get them excited about something your about to get on EF? Or could they care less what you do with your time here on the site and everything that comes with it?
10/30/2012
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Contributor: Sunny Meadows Sunny Meadows
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Originally posted by Rod Ronald
Have you ever wished your partner shared your love or obsession with sex toys? Do you find it hard to get them excited about something your about to get on EF? Or could they care less what you do with your time here on the site and everything that ... more
My husband just goes with what ever comes along. I find that I have the increasing obsession but get shy bring it up. Wierd huh! I have issues. Just a thought but maybe its not that your partner dont care but inner personal issues.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
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Originally posted by Rod Ronald
Have you ever wished your partner shared your love or obsession with sex toys? Do you find it hard to get them excited about something your about to get on EF? Or could they care less what you do with your time here on the site and everything that ... more
Yes, I have so much BDSM stuff ive never gotten to use. The last convo went like this "you should use the crop on me" him: "Why, I have my hands right here" sigh
10/30/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
So far in most of my relationships they were somewhat open to toys but had issues of being worried I would only use my toys and not them especially my "ex husband". My current partner is all about what I order, since he is an OTR driver it could be a week or several weeks before we can see each other. We were talking to other day an he asked what I was doing I said I was on Eden, he asked what I was ordering and what new toys I ordered. He was disappointed when I stated I had been buying bath and body stuff and lip glosses. He loves that I am on here, he enjoys using my toys on me as well If your partner isn't into toys I am not sure what to say on that, other then try introducing small things here and there. If they are shy have them create an account and get things they wish to use. Maybe they don't know how to express what they want to try in fear you may disapprove?! If they have their own account they could maybe introduce things they want into the bedroom similarly to the way you could with what you want to try.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
We are on the same level with toys...both love them. We call it our compatibility of kink.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I wish my parter took a more active role. She has no problem with me using toys on her or alone, but she rarely takes initiative.
10/30/2012
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
My partner doesn't mind if I use them alone or bring them into our relationship. He loves to watch me use mine on myself, and loves when I bring something new into our sex lives that helps us. For example, he takes too long to finish most times which is very frustrating to him. This anxiety and stress about leads to him finishing even less. We recently tried out one of the free vibrating cock rings that Eden offers and he loves it! I really helps him to finish in a more timely manner.
10/30/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
My husband loves when I get new things to try out. He's always all up in my packages to see what new things I've gotten.
10/30/2012
Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Actually my boyfriend is pretty open to toys for the most part, and has the patience of a kid on Christmas (or similar winter holiday) just like I do...so we both get excited when something's coming in the mail.

For him though, it's usually just sort of a "we might get to use -insert random item name here- together in the future" excitement since we live so far apart.

Someday though...someday. xD
10/30/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
My man gets almost as excited as I do when I get a box from Eden. (Sometimes he gets more excited!) I'm really happy that it's something we can share together, I'd be sad if we couldn't share that together.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
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Originally posted by Kat and Aaron(aaron)
We are on the same level with toys...both love them. We call it our compatibility of kink.
Where do I click "like" on this one? Me and my gf are the same
10/30/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
My hubby is great with toys and likes using them on me and seeing me use them on myself. My other partner still seems a little...intimidated by them? He's not off-put by them, but it could be better.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Trysexual
I wish my parter took a more active role. She has no problem with me using toys on her or alone, but she rarely takes initiative.
This explains our situation as well. It's up to me - but at least she doesn't discourage me!
10/30/2012