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Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
This is a two part poll.

I'm just wondering, who all knows what you do here at EF?

I don't mind letting my friends and family know, but there are some things on the forum that I've shared with all of you that I don't want them reading or knowing. Do you care if your family & friends read what you post here?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Everyone knows! No shame in my game!!
Jobthingy , Joie de Cherresse , SiNn , Emma (Girl With Fire) , SexyLilPixi , Shellz31 , Sir , Beck , jmex83
9
A few close friends!
Fanny , Waterfall , Stephanie Marie , wetone123 , cherryredhead88 , Dusk , CafeSabroso , indiglo , ToyTimeTim , xoflxokcxo , littlezimmey , Research , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , idunshire , Miss T , M121212 , lezergirl , potstickers , Lio , ZenaidaMacroura , Splendwhore , Valentinka , sixfootsex , Lady Marmelade , PiratePrincess , Jul!a , CSEA , toxie m , zeebot , seaofneptune , BadassFatass , tigerkate , mystepmotherisafish , darthkitt3n , Eliza , Lucidity , Darling Jen , beautifulpierced , Miss Jenn , LennaKieran , Enchantedkitty , chidoll , dv8 , Nissa Nissa , Madeira , null , anonomous , MJ1337 , clp , EJ , anonymouse58 , Sir , mama2007 , Harpina is gone , Kithara , LoveTies
56
My family knows!
Stephanie Marie , ToyTimeTim , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , Miss T , Lio , Splendwhore , Valentinka , Lady Marmelade , Jul!a , Lummox , Darling Jen , beautifulpierced , angel142stx , Madeira , Sir , Beck , mama2007 , Harpina is gone
18
NO ONE knows!! Are you kidding me?!
pinkcupcakes , leatherlover , AFwife , ellejay , Taylor , Kindred , Hot'n'Bothered , Hadespark , ily , Ryuson , icyqueen
11
Yes I care! I don't want them knowing everything I post on the forum.
leatherlover , AFwife , CafeSabroso , Joie de Cherresse , xoflxokcxo , littlezimmey , idunshire , Lio , Splendwhore , Bunnycups , Valentinka , Kindred , PiratePrincess , P'Gell , toxie m , Scarlette , removedacnt , tigerkate , mystepmotherisafish , Mr. E , Eliza , Lucidity , Darling Jen , Miss Jenn , Enchantedkitty , null , ThoughtsAblaze , ily , js250 , Ryuson , icyqueen
31
No I don't care! They can read all they want!
Illusional , Stephanie Marie , indiglo , ToyTimeTim , markeagleone , ❦Angel Of Music❦ , clp , Sir , Beck , jmex83 , Kithara
11
Other
Totogrl , Stephanie Marie , BBW Talks Toys , Solar Ray , Gunsmoke , Jul!a , P'Gell , Armsjlove , zeebot , BadassFatass , bunny love , Mr. E , namelesschaos , MaryExy , bayosgirl , Rossie , ily , js250 , anonymouse58 , Allstars316
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Total votes: 156 (97 voters)
Poll is closed
03/06/2011
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Contributor: Totogrl Totogrl
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
This is a two part poll.

I'm just wondering, who all knows what you do here at EF?

I don't mind letting my friends and family know, but there are some things on the forum that I've shared with all of you that I don't ... more
My girlfriend knows, and that's it. She was actually the one who found EF and got me into it.

We go to a really small school where the rumor mill is always churning, so I prefer that no one besides her knows what we do or post online.
03/06/2011
Contributor: leatherlover leatherlover
Only my wife knows that I post on here.
03/06/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
Quite a few family and friends know I am on this site and post. But if I post anything on fb I tend to make it so my family can't see it. More or less because I rather my extended family (Aunt,Uncle..)not see it. As a bunch of them are pretty Catholic. I am not ashamed of what I do its just something about respect I guess.
03/06/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I have two personal friends who are on here, so they can read whatever I post and I don't really hide anything from them. I have more than a few friends who know what I do, and not all of them are close friends. As for family, my stepmom and my sister know that I review and that I do the ELH club. My sister could care less what I post on here. My stepmom, well, I would prefer her not to know some of the more intimate details of my sexuality; however, she is respectful enough not to come seeking out my profile or anything.
03/06/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
This is a two part poll.

I'm just wondering, who all knows what you do here at EF?

I don't mind letting my friends and family know, but there are some things on the forum that I've shared with all of you that I don't ... more
I try and coax friends into the site, some of them are interested but most of them shy away from the reviews. I think they are nuts because I love this place and consider reviewing my side job. I'm not shy about Eden unless it comes to certain people, like family members and those who I prefer to keep discretion with.
03/06/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
My partner knows, as well as one of my close friends.
03/06/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Quote:
Originally posted by cherryredhead88
I try and coax friends into the site, some of them are interested but most of them shy away from the reviews. I think they are nuts because I love this place and consider reviewing my side job. I'm not shy about Eden unless it comes to certain ... more
I try to get more people on here too. I'm always sharing what I do with people so they can come join this great community too. There are some people, like family, I don't want seeing what I post on the forum, but other than that pretty much every one knows what I do.
03/06/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
I really have nothing to hide. And if I don't want the world to know about something I don't put in on the internet.
03/06/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
My man knows (and he also posts here) and a few other close friends. No biggie, as far as I'm concerned!
03/06/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Just my partner knows and she thinks it's a great site as well.
03/06/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
This is a two part poll.

I'm just wondering, who all knows what you do here at EF?

I don't mind letting my friends and family know, but there are some things on the forum that I've shared with all of you that I don't ... more
I am an open book. Some I point this direction, but others, I don't. It's not that I have anything to hide, but this site has to fit the individual. For instance, my mom is nearing 70. I don't think this would be her box of chocolates.
03/06/2011
Contributor: littlezimmey littlezimmey
I keep it between my partner and I....except for the friend that introduced me to the site-I tell all to her
03/06/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
A few of my friends know, but they have not come on here to read my reviews or what I post. Also, most of those who know that I review things on here may not know my username.
03/06/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Only my wife knows.
03/06/2011
Contributor: idunshire idunshire
I'm not cool with my family knowing (anything about my sex life, tbh. We're not a close kind of family like that) but most of my friends know because I love getting my packages and I'm always so excited I can't keep it in!
03/06/2011
Contributor: lezergirl lezergirl
haha if my family only knew...
03/07/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
My wife knows, and that's it. I wouldn't have a problem with my best friend and his wife knowing - they already know a lot of what I share there.
03/07/2011
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
The BF, and a few close friends know. Aside from that, I did tell my mother.
We never speak of it, but she didn't seem to really care.
03/07/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
Only one person knows about my involvement with Eden Fantasys. I would like to share Eden with a few close friends, but I'm afraid of making things awkward if I bring up sex toys.
03/07/2011
Contributor: Valentinka Valentinka
Some of my friends and family know about EF, but more in the form of "there is an online sex-shop, I order things from there and write some stuff on the forum". Only my partner and one friend know my nickname and can actually find out what I'm writing etc. I wouldn't want everyone to read my posts, really )))
03/07/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Bunnycups
Only one person knows about my involvement with Eden Fantasys. I would like to share Eden with a few close friends, but I'm afraid of making things awkward if I bring up sex toys.
I tried keeping things on the DL for a while, but when you start inadvertently spouting off information on sex toys or safety when the occasional raunchy joke comes up, or making the occasional raunchy joke myself... well, eventually they figured something was up.
03/07/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
My boyfriend knows and some of my close friends know. I'm not sure I'm ready for my family to know. But I don't have any problem with my friends finding out. They probably know most of what I would post anyway because I've already told them.
03/07/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Some of my family and a lot of my friends know. I figure that this is the internet, and people are free to read what they want, so there's not much I can do about really preventing people from seeing what I do here other than to not do it. Anybody who recognizes who I am and keeps reading anyway forfeits the right to complain about what they read as far as I'm concerned. For the most part I don't really care, but I'd prefer that some of my friends and family members not know what goes on behind my closed doors, lol.
03/07/2011
Contributor: ❦Angel Of Music❦ ❦Angel Of Music❦
Quote:
Originally posted by cherryredhead88
I try and coax friends into the site, some of them are interested but most of them shy away from the reviews. I think they are nuts because I love this place and consider reviewing my side job. I'm not shy about Eden unless it comes to certain ... more
I do too, though I have have only been successful once. Friends I have told may think I'm crazy, but I love the EF community. My boyfriend knows and I told my mom basically when I first started. I live in her house and I knew she would start asking questions when I started getting all of these boxes in the mail, so I had an open discussion about it with her and she is fully supportive. It has even brought us closer.
03/07/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
This is a two part poll.

I'm just wondering, who all knows what you do here at EF?

I don't mind letting my friends and family know, but there are some things on the forum that I've shared with all of you that I don't ... more
You didn't put SO or partner on the poll. A few close friends know, but honestly, they don't seem all that interested or seem to care. "Oh, P'Gell does product reviews....for weird stuff." That's about it.

I did have a close friend, and when I told her I was doing product reviews, she seemed interested. "Do they pay you?" I said, yes, in points and in product. She wanted to know if she could get household good and baby stuff to review. When I told her, "It's mostly sex toys and personal hygiene stuff." She just looked down and said, "Yeah, that isn't what I was thinking it was. I though maybe cleaning products and stuff." Um, no.

My family? I don't talk to my family about my intimate sex life. EW. So, no thanks. My brother would probably sign on, if he was interested enough, but he spends all his time "farming" on Facebook. LOL! I know he likes some of the products here, (we got him and his wife the JimmyJane candles for Christmas) and he loves Liberator stuff, but afaik, he doesn't hang around here.
03/07/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
This is a two part poll.

I'm just wondering, who all knows what you do here at EF?

I don't mind letting my friends and family know, but there are some things on the forum that I've shared with all of you that I don't ... more
My bf his sister, and a few close friends
03/07/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I tried keeping things on the DL for a while, but when you start inadvertently spouting off information on sex toys or safety when the occasional raunchy joke comes up, or making the occasional raunchy joke myself... well, eventually they figured ... more
haha that happens to me too! I start talking about the sexy toy material or bullets out loud. Im just comfortable because of Edenfantasy lol. It happens
03/07/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I tried keeping things on the DL for a while, but when you start inadvertently spouting off information on sex toys or safety when the occasional raunchy joke comes up, or making the occasional raunchy joke myself... well, eventually they figured ... more
The worst is when you are excited for a package! I always say I can't wait for this day to come.. Not very discreet comments, lol no poker face here
03/07/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Friends and family know that I'm on here and that I do reviews and all, but I wouldn't want anyone I know reading all my forum posts. That's just a little too in-depth
03/07/2011