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Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I am only referring here to kisses of affection. For example you kiss your children good night, or you kiss your mom hello. With my peers I tend to greet most of my friends with a kiss. My friends all do this too. Who do you kiss? If the only time you kiss your partner is during sexual encounters do not select them in this poll.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I am male
PassionateLover2 , Mr. E , jay28 , JackRaiden , Errant Venture , Mike Honcho , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , Lucky21 , Checkmate , Darklyvan , slynch , Moein , dv8 , BlooJay , Ciao. , LennaKieran , DiamondKoala
17
I am female
LaLaLouise , Love Perpetua , Jake'n'bake , GonetoLovehoney , LilLostLenore , Coralbell , DeliciousSurprise , Rossie , Valentinka , Katelyn , eeep , Cherry21 , (k)InkyIvy , poetprincess , Pink Jewel , Adriana Ravenlust , Ghost , Peggi , LaSchwartz , Airen Wolf , js250 , Review It , SiNn , Ms. Spice , Holly Hox , Eucaly , blacklodge , Taylor , Beck , switzerland , wrmbreze , Bignuf , jedent , Megan Jean , ily , darthkitt3n , K101 , JessCee , mpfm , Gracie , ConnerJay , LoveDove , hiroshiro , Missmarc , ellejay , cburger , TheSlyFox , Jaimes , unfulfilled , karay123 , LAndJ , DreamWolf , Ciao. , Apirka , Tangles , Secret Pleasure , misskat , MrGoodTool , mistressg , Sunshineamine
60
I kiss my lover
LaLaLouise , Love Perpetua , Jake'n'bake , GonetoLovehoney , LilLostLenore , Rod Martini , Coralbell , DeliciousSurprise , Rossie , Valentinka , Katelyn , Mr. E , eeep , Cherry21 , (k)InkyIvy , poetprincess , Pink Jewel , Ghost , jay28 , Peggi , JackRaiden , LaSchwartz , Airen Wolf , js250 , Blinkfat , Review It , SiNn , Errant Venture , Mike Honcho , Ms. Spice , averageguyextrodinarypleasure , Lucky21 , Holly Hox , Eucaly , blacklodge , Checkmate , Taylor , Beck , switzerland , wrmbreze , Bignuf , jedent , ily , darthkitt3n , K101 , JessCee , Kallisto , mpfm , Gracie , LoveDove , hiroshiro , Missmarc , ellejay , Darklyvan , TheSlyFox , slynch , Jaimes , unfulfilled , karay123 , dv8 , BlooJay , LAndJ , DreamWolf , Ciao. , LennaKieran , Tangles , Secret Pleasure , misskat , MrGoodTool , mistressg , DiamondKoala , Sunshineamine
72
I kiss my parents
LaLaLouise , Love Perpetua , LilLostLenore , DeliciousSurprise , Valentinka , Katelyn , Mr. E , (k)InkyIvy , Peggi , LaSchwartz , SiNn , Ms. Spice , Lucky21 , Holly Hox , blacklodge , Checkmate , Beck , switzerland , wrmbreze , Bignuf , Megan Jean , ily , Gracie , LoveDove , Darklyvan , TheSlyFox , slynch , Moein , LAndJ , DreamWolf , Ciao. , misskat , MrGoodTool , DiamondKoala
34
I kiss my children
LilLostLenore , PassionateLover2 , DeliciousSurprise , Katelyn , Mr. E , eeep , poetprincess , Pink Jewel , jay28 , LaSchwartz , Airen Wolf , js250 , Review It , SiNn , Lucky21 , Holly Hox , blacklodge , Checkmate , wrmbreze , Bignuf , K101 , JessCee , mpfm , Gracie , ConnerJay , Darklyvan , slynch , unfulfilled , karay123 , Secret Pleasure
30
I kiss my friends of the opposite sex
LaLaLouise , Love Perpetua , LilLostLenore , DeliciousSurprise , poetprincess , Peggi , SiNn , Mike Honcho , Ms. Spice , Beck , switzerland , wrmbreze , Gracie , TheSlyFox , unfulfilled , dv8 , DreamWolf , misskat , DiamondKoala
19
I kiss my friends of the same sex
LaLaLouise , Love Perpetua , LilLostLenore , DeliciousSurprise , Valentinka , poetprincess , Peggi , SiNn , Ms. Spice , Beck , wrmbreze , Megan Jean , Gracie , LoveDove , Missmarc , TheSlyFox , dv8 , DreamWolf , Secret Pleasure , misskat
20
I kiss my boss
Gracie
1
I kiss my coworkers
LilLostLenore , DeliciousSurprise , Peggi , Gracie
4
I kiss my cousins
Katelyn , Peggi , Ms. Spice , Gracie , TheSlyFox , Moein
6
other, because kisses are a good thing!
Adriana Ravenlust , Peggi , SiNn , Eucaly , Megan Jean , ily , darthkitt3n , Gracie , Moein , DreamWolf , mistressg , DiamondKoala
12
Total votes: 275 (79 voters)
Poll is closed
12/18/2011
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Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Kissing, to me, is a really intimate thing and it feels weird to do it to family members. So, in short, just my partner.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
The only person I kiss is my boyfriend. I have never kissed a friend, and I haven't kissed my parents or other family since I was about 10.
12/18/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I'll kiss friends and family as a greeting--but the only person I'll kiss on the mouth is a lover.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I only kiss my husband. I'll hug relatives and friends, but I don't like to do the kissing thing on them.
12/18/2011
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
On the cheek? I certainly don't kiss my boss on the mouth lol
12/18/2011
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I've had a few friends that I kissed in the past. But now, I tend to avoid it because it makes my partner uncomfortable.
12/18/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
I am only referring here to kisses of affection. For example you kiss your children good night, or you kiss your mom hello. With my peers I tend to greet most of my friends with a kiss. My friends all do this too. Who do you kiss? If the only time ... more
I am not into kissing a whole lot, I kiss my kids but I honestly have not kissed my mom in years. And of course I love kissing my man..
12/19/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
I maybe kiss my sister..
12/19/2011
Contributor: Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
Only kiss lover and kids.
12/19/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
I kiss my husband, daughter and soon my granddaughter.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Blinkfat Blinkfat
I have very little contact with anyone (physically) other than my girlfriend. So i certainly only kiss her. But we do it an awful lot.
12/19/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
I am only referring here to kisses of affection. For example you kiss your children good night, or you kiss your mom hello. With my peers I tend to greet most of my friends with a kiss. My friends all do this too. Who do you kiss? If the only time ... more
honestly I kiss people for different reasons my lover because well I love them my mom because shes my mom my dad same reason my nieces and nephews same thing

I have guy friends ill kiss kiss and girl friends the same thing


there are different levels of kissing I think and since im bisexual and very open with who i am i show it
12/19/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I don't think I've ever kissed anyone in my family. It was only until last year that I'd shaken my dad's hand. For everyone else I'm more hesitant, but if pressed I'll kiss the hand of a woman I'm being introduced to. The only one I'd kiss frequently is my lover.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
I meant to include siblings, but I forgot. I also meant to include "I dont like to kiss anyone." I should have specified on the cheek, but foreheads and top of the head work too. My brothers are both really tall and that's usally where they kiss me.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Mike Honcho Mike Honcho
Close family only and on the cheek.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I grew up in a Hispanic household so kissing and hugging was very much the norm. I kiss my lovers, friends of the same and opposite gender, my family members (all of them) and if I have kids, I will kiss them too.

Kissing is such a sweet thing to do almost everyone, and it's sad that so many don't do it that often. It really shows love and closeness of a relationship in a way that hugging or handshakes can't.
12/19/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
I think the only person other than my wife is my niece
12/19/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
Cheek-kisses are for lots of people. Even old ladies at church get cheek-kisses.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Quote:
Originally posted by Eucaly
Cheek-kisses are for lots of people. Even old ladies at church get cheek-kisses.
Yes! That's what I think! Affection is normal and healthy! Every one needs kisses!
12/19/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
My lover, my family, and my animals.
12/19/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
the only person i kiss on the lips is my boyfriend. with my fam and friends - it's cheek
12/19/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Gracie
I am only referring here to kisses of affection. For example you kiss your children good night, or you kiss your mom hello. With my peers I tend to greet most of my friends with a kiss. My friends all do this too. Who do you kiss? If the only time ... more
HEY...you are missing an answer...the one I kiss MOST. My dog!!!!! She gets "mooches" every time I pass the couch!!!
12/19/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
My lover, my family, and my animals.
Animals? I love to smooch my dog. My fish...not so much!
12/19/2011
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
There is "other," but great point some people give lots of affection to their pets.
12/20/2011
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
I kiss everybody. I kiss my mom and my grandma and grandpa, and female friends on the lips, and I kiss my dad right on top of his bald head. Haha
12/20/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I'm not really affectionate with people other than my fiance. I usually kiss my grandparents goodbye on the cheek, but it's expected for me to do so.
12/20/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I think of kissing usually, as an intimate thing. As a teen, I would kiss my female friends. I don't go around just planting one on anybody. I only kiss my partner and the kids, until they reach a certain age. I kissed all the kids until they got about 5+ sometimes even younger. We have the 7 year old girl part time and she still kisses me on the cheek so I'll give her one on her cheek, but other than that the kids are too old for kisses except the 2 year old baby girl. She loves kisses! Besides that, I'm not free with my sugars.
12/20/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by Ms. Spice
I grew up in a Hispanic household so kissing and hugging was very much the norm. I kiss my lovers, friends of the same and opposite gender, my family members (all of them) and if I have kids, I will kiss them too.

Kissing is such a sweet thing ... more
It's funny. I'm Cuban so I get this whole kissing everyone thing.

That said... I find kissing on the cheek to be far less intimate than hugging. With hugging, your whole body is pressed up against someone. With kissing, and I find this to be absolutely true in the culture I grew up in, it's much less personal. The cheeks are pressed together often, but it's rare that lips touch skin.

I kiss lovers on the mouth passionately. I kiss my kids and some very close friends on the lips as pecks. I kiss my dad and sister on the cheek. Some of my friends I will kiss on the cheek, but only if I get the sense that they'd be OK with it.

I'll give hugs, but I'm fairly choosy as to who I will actually hug.
12/20/2011
Contributor: ConnerJay ConnerJay
LOL @ I kiss my boss

I kiss children and animals.
12/22/2011