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Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I have a family member with special needs. Because of that, I find myself less tolerant of people who choose not to apply themselves. I am very understanding when it comes to those who have learning disabilities, medical issues, roadblocks they are overcoming, and so on. However, if people have a healthy brain and choose to act dumb, I get annoyed.

Do you have any similar feelings toward certain people?
06/11/2013
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Contributor: MrWill MrWill
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Originally posted by Mwar
I have a family member with special needs. Because of that, I find myself less tolerant of people who choose not to apply themselves. I am very understanding when it comes to those who have learning disabilities, medical issues, roadblocks they are ... more
The willfully ignorant.

Those that refuse to help themselves.

Stupid people.
06/11/2013
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
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Originally posted by Mwar
I have a family member with special needs. Because of that, I find myself less tolerant of people who choose not to apply themselves. I am very understanding when it comes to those who have learning disabilities, medical issues, roadblocks they are ... more
I couldn't agree more.
I also have no sympathy for those who bitch how they work and try to go to school. Be thankful you have a job and the opportunity to go to school. A lot of people would love to have a job or to be in school, hell if not both.

People who won't help themselves but expect everyone else to help them. I like you understand if they have something like a medical condition that hinders them.

I have no sympathy for those who say they are going to do something and never do it but whine cause it was never done.
06/11/2013
Contributor: never shy never shy
Those who take advantage because they are always down on their luck but in reality they don't want to help themselves because its easier to use people
06/11/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
People who cry about how crappy their life is when they don't do anything to change it.
06/11/2013
Contributor: Nezzie13 Nezzie13
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Originally posted by Mwar
I have a family member with special needs. Because of that, I find myself less tolerant of people who choose not to apply themselves. I am very understanding when it comes to those who have learning disabilities, medical issues, roadblocks they are ... more
I completely understand. My brother has autism so severe he will never be able to live on his own, but when he was younger he wanted to be an ophthalmologist. For one thing, it makes me critical of those who hide their children behind their diagnosis (especially if imaginary!) and those with normal functioning that have no goals in life.
So I have conversations like this:
"He can't sit still, he has ADHD!"
"He can't sit still because he's five and you give him Oreos whenever he wants. You haven't exactly encouraged self control."
And I get dirty looks as a result because they don't understand where I'm coming from. I have little to no sympathy for those that don't teach their special-needs children the skills they need out of guilt or ignorance, and I have even less for those that refuse to learn.
06/11/2013
Contributor: LoveX LoveX
The able bodied people, who refuse to get a job.
The parents who have lost their children due to drugs, it is something that can be conquered, I've seen it done. Once.
The people who act as if they know everything, but can't even accomplish a task on their own.

There are a lot of people I have no sympathy for. I guess that could make me an intolerant bitch, but I expect people to strive for the best (for them), and work to the best of their abilities.
06/12/2013
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by LoveX
The able bodied people, who refuse to get a job.
The parents who have lost their children due to drugs, it is something that can be conquered, I've seen it done. Once.
The people who act as if they know everything, but can't even ... more
Sorry, I'm a bit confused by your comment about parents who lose their child to drugs. Are you saying that you have no sympathy for them if they become badly depressed after the death of their child?
06/12/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
Personally i know someone who is about to go to jail on a DIU manslaughter charge, and has recived much sympathy over the event. I have ZERO sympathy for them as it was their choice to get drunk and to drive that night opposed to calling a friend or cab.

No sympathy for child abusers, rapist and those who propitiate violent crimes against women&queers.
06/12/2013
Contributor: sunflower sunflower
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Originally posted by Mwar
I have a family member with special needs. Because of that, I find myself less tolerant of people who choose not to apply themselves. I am very understanding when it comes to those who have learning disabilities, medical issues, roadblocks they are ... more
People who are willfully ignorant.
Someone else said that but it's true.
06/12/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by Mwar
I have a family member with special needs. Because of that, I find myself less tolerant of people who choose not to apply themselves. I am very understanding when it comes to those who have learning disabilities, medical issues, roadblocks they are ... more
I'm going to be so incredibly un-PC here, but when drug addicts die, I never feel sympathy. Everyone knows they're doing drugs, everyone knows that drugs can kill you...why does everyone act so surprised when that person finally overdoses?!
06/12/2013
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I have no sympathy for drama queens. If your life is that fucked up or you crave chaos THAT much, then there is something seriously wrong and the best thing to do would be to figure out a way to fix it.

I, too, have little sympathy for drug addicts - yes, addiction is a powerful thing but it's also something that is controllable. Some just get luckier than others and never truly go over the edge into the realm of overdosing.
06/12/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I have no sympathy for people who are cruel to children and/or animals.

Drug addicts also ranks pretty high, but cruelty is worse because it hurts another being.
06/12/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Mwar
I have a family member with special needs. Because of that, I find myself less tolerant of people who choose not to apply themselves. I am very understanding when it comes to those who have learning disabilities, medical issues, roadblocks they are ... more
People who assume you will support them just because you know them. They always react with complete anger and totally incredulous that I care about them in the same measure as how I feel they care about me.

I am intolerant of people who know they are doing wrong but continue it and try to blame something else...alcoholism made me do it, I have undiagnosed MPD, I had a hard childhood, etc.

People who lie to their partners or have no problem lying to another person's partner and try to claim they have no sympathy for the chaos they cause.
06/12/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Nezzie13
I completely understand. My brother has autism so severe he will never be able to live on his own, but when he was younger he wanted to be an ophthalmologist. For one thing, it makes me critical of those who hide their children behind their diagnosis ... more
OMG I hear you! I hate people who try to diagnose other people's children with ADHD. My child is three and he's supposed to be running around the park laughing and playing. He's also not autistic because he still does side by side playing....he's only three! I know he's tall and has excellent vocabulary. He speaks english and polish but he's still only THREE!
06/12/2013
Contributor: lovelyzombie lovelyzombie
I have no sympathy for people who cheat and get caught then try to make people feel bad for them
06/12/2013